爱一个人有错吗？拉黑我的男友再一次爱上我！

 aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma？wodexueshengshuimitaogennanpengyouzaiyiqitanlianailesinian，tanlianaiqinei，shuimitaodenanyouyizhibeihaoguimichengzhiwei“shijiahaonanpengyou”，shuimitaoyuanbenzhunbei2020nianshiyiwanhunde，wanwanxiangbudao，nanyoujurangenzishenmingquetichulaitichufenshou，gengmeiyouxiangqideshi，zaitanlianaiqineiyizhibazijichongdexiaogongzhudenanyou，juranbazijijiaruheimingdanle!neimeaiyigerenyoucuoma？cuoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerenyouduokudewenzhangba。

 shuoqilaishuimitaogennanpengyoujinguantanlianailesinian，keshishijishangzailiangnianqian，liangrenyiqiqushamengulangyuwandeqingkuangxia，nanhaizijiujingxinzhunbeileyiciyouqilanmandeshuishanglangmanqiuhun，danshishuimitaoneishihouganjueduizishennanyouzhangwohaibugou，duinanpengyoushuozishenmeianquangan，qidainanhaizibiezheji，suanzuowanzhuandejujuelenanhaizidelangmanqiuhun。

 youyushuimitaoshijiazhongdedunv，zixiaofumujiuguishuyuguoduozhaoliaozhederenwujiaose，zhenduishuimitaoyizhishiguangjieshanyuan，yinci neiyangdejiatingqingkuangjishuimitaopeiyanglexuduo shenghuofangshi。

liru：pingshibixunanpengyoutitieruweidezhaoliao，zaochenyaonanpengyoubaoqilaicaikenxinglai;

一碰到难题便会马上啧啧啧地找男朋友帮自身;

 zuichunanyouganjueshuimitaoneiyangdexingqinghenkeai，yehenhuimaimeng，zhaoliaoshuimitaodequanguochengyerangnanyoujuededaozishenshibeixuyaode，beijiezhude，henyounanyoulibaopeng。

jiranlianggerenzaiyiqineiyanghemu，weihehaihuijixuyouneiyangcaogaodejieguo，shuimitaoshizenyangbaozhengdeni?

aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma？zuixian，dajiaxukannanyouweihejiaruheimingdanshuimitao，jiaruheimingdanyoudaibiaozhenaxie?

 shuimitaogennanpengyoutichufenshoudebaofadianshiyouguanliuyiertongjiedelipinnanti。shuimitaoyaoxianglipin，shucianshizhenanpengyouwuguo，yincishengqile：

“wohaizaoyineiyangxianzhudeanshizhenini，jiuchalijizhangkouyaole，danshijiarulijizhangkouyao，youyoushenmeyisini?

 woyoubingbushichazheigelipin?zijiyemaiqi，wobuhuibianshiyaoniyijianshirenzhendianguanxinma?nigenbenjiubuzaiyiwodeganshou，ruguoshineiyangdehua，dajiabibushangtichufenshousuanleba。”

 nanyouduishuimitaohuanshihenkuanrongde，jiandaoshuimitaoshengqile，mashangbumailaijifenlipin，youzhiqianyoupeixiaoliande，danshishuimitaoganjuehaibugouyouchengxin，youyibujienanyoudianhua，buhuiyingxinxi，nanyouzailoudixiadengtahaogejiyeli，shuimitaoyebuxialouti，haiweixienanpengyoushuo：zishenhuanshifenshou。

jieguozongsuannanhaizirenbule，shuo：nahaoba，jiranwobuguanruhezuonidoubumanyi，neidajiajiusanleba。

 shuimitaoyikannanyoujuranyuanyiletichufenshou，mengranjiujuedezishendequanqiuwufakongzhile，xintaixianchangjiubengkuile。kongxishinanyoufaguotiejin100tiaoshoujiweixin，jiejiebabadiyihuimananpengyou，yihuiyouqiunanyoukuanrongzishen，yihuizhiqian，yihuiyoufahuo......

xianeryijian，neiyangdezhuangkuangxia，nanhaiziyagenburongyihuiyingxinxile。

 shuimitaojiandaonanyoubuhuizishenxinxi，bianshijiugangkaishinanyoutongdianhua，lianxudaguojishige，zhizhidajinshenye，lingyifangshoujimeidianlezidongkaiguanjile。shuimitaotongkuyiyemeishui，kediertianzaochen，taquefajuenanyoujuranjiaruheimingdanlezishenquanbulianxidianhua!

 nanyoujiaruheimingdan，biaocengshangeryanshijiaoduankaiyunidelianxidianhua，erweiyizhenzhengdehuidabianshinizhenduinanyoueryan，bianshinizaoyibianchengweixietarichangshenghuoderenle。

 dajiaweixinpengyouquanlibiandouhuiyouyixiebingbushihenlejiedeluren，naizhihenyoukenengbujidedaodishisheile，keshidajiachufeishipengyoumulumanle，huoshiyixieteshuqingkuangyiwai，dajiadouburongyiqusuibianqujiaruheimingdanhuoshishandiaomouyiren。

 jibian dajiajiandaozheixiefaweishangpengyouquandepenyou，henyoukenengdaliangyejinjintiaoxuanbuyaokantadeweixinpengyouquan。erjiaruheimingdanbixuzhuanyezhaodaoni，zaizhuanyejiaruheimingdan，nenggouxiangxiangnizhenduilingyifangeryanpinpaixingxiangzaoyijiduandaonaxieshuipingle。

 erbenlailingyifangyexuhuitiaoxuankekeqiqi，danyeyinweinidemudijiqizhixingli，ranglingyifangweilegenghaodibaohuzijipobudeyixuanyongleneiyangdefangfanyishifangshi。

jiangwanbeilaheidenantiwomenzaikanlai，weishenmewokongzhibuzhuwodegerenxingwei?

 beilaheilelianluobulenanyou，shuimitaoweilegenghaoditaohuitatiantiandunnanyoudamenkoukanjiannanyoushangban，naizhiyouyicichennanpengyoukaichemen，lijizuanrunanyoudecheneiqiufuhexing。nanyoulijizhamaole，gantadabantiandoumeiganpao，zuizhongzhinengtongyixiaotaoguolianggexingqizhaota。

xiaotaoshenxinbuyi，jieguoshijiandaoleyihou，nanyoubingmeiyouyiqieshengxiang，xiaotaocaiyishidaoyuanxianbeinanpengyoujipianle。

 zheigeshihoushijishangdajiadouhennengxianzhukanchuquxiaotaozaoyizigubuxiale，yagenmeishijiangujidaolingyifangdeshenshangfashengshenmeshi。

erzheiyideshenhoutongchangyouerzhongzhuangkuang：

第一，在日常生活中，儿时与爸爸妈妈日常生活的情况下，常常提升界限

zaihunyinguanxizhizhongdehudongjiaoliufangshi，dajiadoulejielaiziyuershi。

 zhongtoujiaruhaiziyufumudehudongjiaoliuzhongqianquebianjiegan，bianhuizaocheng qujueyuhunyinguanxizhongdeciwaiyibanyiyangqianquebianjiegan。

 ershibabamamazhenduixiaohaideguidingfenbuqingnianlingcengdechedikaolv，yehuilingxiaohaizhangdayihouzhenduihunyinguanxizhizhongdeciwaiyibanyeshiyouyiyangdexiwang。

 tanlianaiqianqi，dajiadouqipandeshibicizhijianderongjin，guanlianyuemibukefen，yuemeiyoubianjieganyuehao，naizhihuiyinergengjuedexingfukuaile，keshibansuizhereqingdexiaosan，renzhenduiqinmiwujianbixudekaolv，manmanduibenshendeshineikongjianhesuiyiyongyougenguodebixu。

erdangzishenzhenduijiexiandeqianquedingyi，fandaohuizhilingyifangkubukanyan，yaoxiangtaochuzheiyiduanshixideguanlian。

第二，被引起儿时的外伤

xuduo xiaohaizaiershideqingkuangxia，huijingliguobeibabamamayigezhonggeyangfangfakaizhan“paoxia”。

liru：buguanzenyangbiaoda，yeyemeiyouyiqiedafu。

 ershifumuchangchangkonghexiaohai，nixuyaoruheruhe，jiububinini;ershinishilajixianglijianhuilaide，bingbushiqinshengfumudezheixie。

 erxiaohaiyoulibulebabamama，zaizhangqixingqianquebenshenshianquanxingdezhuangkuangxia，fenlichulaizheizhongdeshier，zhenduixiaohaieryanbianshisiwangkongju。erzheiyitihuibeirentijilao，zaiduyouyutichufenshouerbeikaiqiershidesiwangkongju。

haosiluoshuiderenyiyang，renjianshenmejiuzhuanaxie，zenmekenengyeyousixuzaiyidaozishenzhuadeshisha?

zhidaonantideyuangu，xiaotaozaiwozheierjinjidekongzhizhulexintaiyihou。rangxiaotaoquelileyixiaxianjieduandejingyu。

dangyigerenbeishizuoweixiedeqingkuangxia，buguannizuoshenmeshiqing，doushihuibeizuoweiguyilaikaizhanjiangjie。

 falvfaguizhongjiuhuiyouyitiaojibendinglv，bukaizhanfanfatuili，youyuyizhaofanfakaizhantuili，sheidoutaobule。shuotongsuhuadian，yujiazhizuihehuanwuci。

 erwomenzailingyifangdeyanlibianshiyigehuihuaitabaochiyiqiezhengchangrichangshenghuodecunyou，yinci zaiwomengaohaodeshier，neijiaoyouqitu，erbukaixindeshi，yeshizhengshileliquwomendoushiqiadangdetiaoxuan。jinyoudangxintaibubeicijixing，manmanhuifuyihou，dajiadehao，caikeyibeilingyifangzaiciyishidao。

在投入了惨忍的等候一个月后，总算遇到了一个突破口。

 aiyigerenyouduoku？yinweiqiwenshenggao，yiqianfangdaonanyoujiazhongdexiajidebeiziyizhimeiyounahuijia，yinciyongpenyoudeshoujishangnanyoufaguotiaoduanxiaoxi，henanyoubiaodalexiayaonahuizishendechuangpintaojian，erzheiyeshiyigezhengdangxingdeyuanyin，zuizhongyuelegeshijiandizhi，rangnanyoujiaodaota。

 ercike，weilegenghaodijinyibuxiaochunanyoudetifangxin，zheierrangxiaotaozhaolegetamendexianghupenyouqutixiaotaobawupinnahuijia，erqiezhuandaleneimeyijuhua：

yinweinibingbushitexiangjiandaowo，yinci rangzheiyipenyoulaititanayixiawupin。

 zheiyigerenxingweichedichaochulenanyoudeyuliao，bingqierangnanyouzaiciyishidaoshijishangxiaotaoshiyigeshanjierenyideburongyisunhaidaotaderen，zaiguoquleyizhouyihou，xiaotaoyongzishendeshoujiweixinzaichangshifaguogeweixinhaoyouyanzhengyihou，meiduojiujiugenjule。

wanjiuqinggannan，bingbuyidingshiqueshizuodeshieryouduomenan，jiaonandeshijishangshidikangzishendexintai，quzuobixuzuodeshier。

 zhengjiu，aiyigerenyoucuoma？zishizhizhongjinjinganqingdefangfancuoshi，guanlianlishaodianduoyudeliefeng，caigengfeichangrongyimaixiangyuanman。