爱一个人有错吗？分手后这样的沟通方式

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 zaibicizhengchaofenshoudeshihou，dajiachangchangtingjianneiyangdehuihua“sanleba，dajiameiyoushenmehaoshuode。”congwuhuabutandaomeiyouhuashuo，huijuegoutongjiangganqingbuduanxialaidequanbugailvdouqingleling。

nibushuo，wobuhuiti，meiyigerendoubaniantouzangzaixinzhong，neiyangdeganqingshimeifachijiude。

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表达自身的另外还要关心另一方的意见反馈

 fenshouzhihoupobujidaidiyaoxianglingyifangfanhuinideshenpang，zheileiqingxushinenggoulejiede。aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma？danyouxierenweilegenghaodiranglingyifanghuishoujiubuguanbuguyiqieyuanyindexianglingyifangzhiqian，kenqiulingyifangdekuanrong。

不断告知另一方你离不了ta，你是有多么的依靠ta。

 zheileidijiandeqiufuhexingfangfajinjinnidanfangdebiaoda，lingyifangyagenmeiyoubiaodadejiyu，zheileibiaodafangfaxiangdangyushixiaogoutong，zaiwanhuizhongqibushangshenmezuoyong。

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请别太在意感情的得与失，别提过去

sheixiandixiatousheijiushudiao，liangrendoujiaoaodibuyuanhuishou，danxinliqueshifenqipanlianggerenhehaoruchu。

 jianghuashimeiyoulijingrendedanaoxixinsisuobianbashangxindehuashuochurukou，zhengzhijiulenaizhibazhiqiandeshiyeyiqifanchu，changshizhengshizishenzaizheiliduanguanlianlibingmeiyoucuo。

zaiwanhuishitiguoqushiyigeshifenbukequdegerenxingwei，youliyoujucaisuanshiyingdangde。

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budanmeifabaozhengheligoutong，genghuizengjiawanhuidenanduxishu。henyoukenenghuizaoyujiaozhangyiduanshijiandegoutongkongque。

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多表达你的要求，少斥责另一方

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danqiangdiaonantishibixuzhuzhongyidingdejutifangfa，qiejiyichizelingyifangguocuodeqiangshiyudiao。

 aiyigerenyouduoku？taiguoqiangshidegoutongyudiaohuijilingyifangchanshengbushi，mangyugoutong。bijiaolijidibiaodanideyaoqiu，buzhuanwanmojiao，ranglingyifanglejieniyaoshenmeerbushinibuyaonaxie。

 liru，dangnishuonijinriyaochiyudeqingkuangxia，lingyifangyishunjianjiunengmingbainixuyaobiaodadehanyi。jiarunijuededejiushinijinribuyuanchilongxia，neilingyifanghenyoukenengbianhuichuaicexuduo gehuida。

 yinci zaigoutongjiaoliushiyidingyaogaozhilingyifangnibumanyidediqu，nizhenshixuyaoshenme，zangzheyezheduibiciganqingmeiyouyisiyichu。

 kaizhanwanhuigoutongqian，hebuxiangenggaixiazishendexinlizhuangtai，xianrangzishenchuzaibijiaoningjingdeqingkuang，tiaochulaiguoduokuijiudeguaiquan。

 bubijigongjinlidiquhuodelingyifang，wanhuishijishangshiyigejiejuekunnandequanguocheng，bubiguoduqingxubuwending，yiyizhongbijiaokeguandeluojisiweiquduidainanti。

jinyoupingxinjingqidiqushangyicaikeyizuidaxiandudichulibicidemaodun，rangwanhuibianchengyizhonghenyoukeneng。

 aiyigerenyoucuoma？wanhuidequanguochengyouhechangbushiyizhongzishenchengzhangdeguocheng，buweiju、bumangmuzixin，yaoshihailiuchuyisiqingyijiubuyaosuiyisheqi。