爱的光：幸福婚姻的标准

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 zheileifangfadejichuxingshishi“jiaolvbuan→huanjie”。huizhangliuneixindehua，daduoshushiyizheiyicixusuozuchengde。haoxiaodehua、kepadehua、beishangdehua，wulunshinayizhonghua，dounenggoukao“lunzheshengchanzhizaojiaolvbuanyuhuanjiedefenwei”cixiangfangfa，rangshuochurukoudehuagengjubeizhuangjili。

 shuobailede“jiaolvbuan”，bianshiyaoranglingyifangzaochengxingquaihao，jindao“jikaolvwen‘shashasha?’”deqingtingqingkuang，zheishihoulingyifangdeqiuzhenchongdongzuishishangzhang。er“huanjie”zeshigaozhilingyifangshierdejieguohuozhejieguo，ranglingyifangjienahuozhexuehuifangxiajingxiaxinlai。

 zaizheierchangshiliejunanrenhenvrenjingchangchanshengdetanxintanhuaneirong。zheizhongshijiyunanxingzaodongbuandejuede，haoranglingyifangjiaolvbuan，ranhouzaiyishunjianranglingyifangjuedeshuxin、dadaozishenmudidehuihuashili。

 aideguang，lianggerengangkaishixiangchucailijingliang〜sangeyue，duixianghudouhaibingbushihenlejie。aideganjueyounaxieni？mingriyoupanwangyijiudeyouhui，zaiqianyitianyeli，nvxingdadianhuajinanxing。

 nvxing：“shiwowubilikeduinishuodeshier……(zheishidiaodixiangsheng，bingshengchanzhizaokongdang。yaoshineiyangzuo，nanxingbianhuigangkaishijiaolvbuanba!)nikendingbuhuifahuoba?”

nanxing：“ruhehuranneimeshuo?fashengleshenmelemeiyou?”

 nvxing：“……(shengchanzhizaogengzhangdekongdang，nanxinghuigengweizaodongbuan，jinzhangyikouqidouyongchulai!)mingrishiwoxiangyaoqushiyifudeyifukuzi，nikeyipeizhewoyiqiqukanma?”

nanxing“(songyikouqi!)yuanlaishizheigeyangzia!zirankeyia!”

zenyang?zheiyihuihuabianshinvxingweilegenghaodirangnanxingpeitaquguangjie，erteyishengchanzhizaochuqudefenwei。

 ruguonvxinghenlijidishuo“mingripeizhewoquguangjie!”nanxingyidinghuiyouyuganjuehenbubian，ersuiyihuiying：“quqitadiqula!”keshixiangneiyang，zaigoutongjiaoliuzhongshengchanzhizaojiaolvbuanyuhuanjiedejuede，nanxingbianhuixiangchengzuoyunxiaofeicheban，yikouqicongtianmanzaodongbuandeqingkuang，xiufuweishuxindeqingkuang。yincibianhuizaitianmanshuxingandeqingkuangxia，kaixindihuiyingchu：“haoya!”zheijuhua。

 aidefangshiyounaxieni？jibian shineimejianjiemingledehuihua，yeyingdangnenggoujinichongzuzhangwo，chenzhelunzheshengchanzhizaojiaolvbuanyuhuanjiegan，nenggoujinigengtianmanfengcaidedadaolileba!