爱与恨的边缘,看清男生的本来面目

 anquangandeai，zaitanlianaiqiandaotanlianaiqianqizheiyihuanjie，shuangfangsuozhuyaobiaoxianchudeqingkuangyaoyuanchaozishen，youqishiyijingzhuiqiunidenanhaizi，zaizheiyidianshangyouqituxian。zheibushixuqingjiayidezhuyaobiaoxian，zhishiyinweiyijingzhuiqiuni，yinci haowuyiwenhuizhanshichuzuichusenaizhiyuanyuanchaoguozishendechuse，weicilaichudongnvshi。neimeaiyuhendebianyuanyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaizhendexuyaoyongqidewenzhangba。

 zheinengxiezhunanhaizitigaozhuiqiuwanmeitongguolv，danzheizhenduizhuweizimeieryanbingbushihaoshier，anquangandeai，sheidouxiangyaoxunzhaoyiweibiaoliruyi，zishizhizhongnenggoufazifeifuduizishenhaodenanhaizi，yaoburantongyiyimingbubiaoliruyidenanhaizi，zaitanlianaihouneibushirangzishenshouqime?

 yinci zhengquerenshizheiyinanhaizizhenshidexiangmaoshihenzhongyaode，youdenvhaiganjuezheiyidiannanyi，jinyoushijianjiulecaikeyijianrenxin，keshijianyizhangzishendouhuiduiqiyouyidingdeyaobaibuding，zheiduizishenshibuhaode……shijishangxiangrenqingnanhaizibingbuhuitainan，yaoshixuanzerichangshenghuodezheizhongxiaoguanjiandian，jiukeyihenqingxidepouxichuzheiyinanhaizideshizhixingqing————

1、一起约会，总看不见它用零钱

 yuehuishihaowuyiwenhuixiaofei，erdabufenzhuangkuangxiaquanshinanhaizijijichuqiande，zaitachuqianshininengzhongdianguanzhuyixia，kanyixiatayonglingqiandecishu。

 yonglingqiangennanshengxinggeyouguanxime，nihaowuyiwenhuineiyangwen。shijishangtashigentadeqiancaiyishiyoufeichangdadeguanlian，tangruozheiyinanhaizizaipingchangzhifushi，buguanxiaofeiedushiduoshao，zongkanbujiantayonglingqiandehua，zheibiaomingzheiyinanhaiziduiqiandedingyihenboruo，youyujiedaolingqiandeshihouhuishunshouyifang，congcimeiquguanlingqian，xiayicizaiciyongzhengde，suirankanqilaibingbushiduiqiancaixiaodujichangderen，danjiaowangqilainikenengfajuezheiyinanhaizibuzuqinjianjieyue，queshibingbushiheshiguoshenghuodezhonglei。

yinci ruonitanlianaidemudishibenzhehunyinshenghuoqude，neizhenduizheizhongleidenanshiyidingyaoshenzhongkaolvdao。

2、约会前的清洁卫生

 youdenanhaiziduiqingjieweishengbingbushihenzaiyi，pingchangliyixiezimingqinggao，xiufachangchangbuxi，huxuhaozhangshijiancaigua，henyoukenengnikanbujianzheiyidian，youyutazaiyuehuishihuiweizijizailaiyige“qingsao”，yinci zaiyuehuizhongnijiandaodetahaitingganjingzhengjiede。

 danzheibingbufangainijianbiezheiyinanhaizishibushichongzuganjingzhengjie，zaizongtishangkanbuchu，neinijiukanyixiaguanjiandianba，youyutayoukenengjinjinrangzishenrenqinglaizhengjie，danbuyiweizheshiqueshiaiganjing，yinciyixieguanjiandianchudouhuituxianhuanjingweishengnanti，liruguanchaxiazheiyinanhaizishouzhijiadezhengjieshuiping，shibushiyoushihedezhangduan，zhifengjianzhongshibushiqingli……

 tangruotazaiguanjiandianchudeqingjieweishengzuodetaicha，neimeniyidingyaotidaoliuyi，duiqingjieweishengzheizhongrichangshenghuoguanjiandiandoubuzaihudenanhaizi，shizhikendingshilansanwubide，hezheileinanhaizijiaowanghuijiweilaidenitutianxuduodeyali。

3、会强加于服务生

 aizhendexuyaoyongqi,yiqichifanyeshinengguanchatadebenzhishizhi，nihaowuyiwenyudaoguoneiyangdeqingkuang，dangdajiayiqichifan，fandianfanmangshishangcanhuijiaoman，zheishihounishibushiguanchaguonanhaiziduiyucishidexintaini?

 tangruozheiyinanhaizihenpingjing，weichixixindedenghou，jibian tingaieyekeyizhaohuatiliaotiankuanweini;danyoudenanhaizisuzhibuzugao，yinci tamenhuiqiangjiayufuwusheng，yizhimaiyuanfuwusheng“ruhehaibudao”“shijinga”，youhuiduinimaiyuan“zhihoubingbulaila”……

 houmianyizhongzheileizhongleidenanshengxinggeshikuangzaode，tamenyiziwoweizhongxin，bingqiezhipeiquanchongdongjiaoweimingxian，hezheileinanhaizixiangchunikenengjuedexuduodegongzuoyali。

4、从来不积极邀约你来他们家

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