爱与恨的边缘,如何判断他是不是靠谱的另一半

 anquangandeai，“yiqiangerenyanliyouyiqiangehamulaite”，tongyang，“yiqiangerenyanliyouyiqiangemr.right”。ranxuduo caogaodezhaoduixiangyishizhengyizhiqizhazhedahuoer。zheizhongluanqibazaodeyishi，qingzezulanlexingfudeshenghuo，zhongzeshiwomentourucanzhongdechengben。neimeaiyuhendebianyuanyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaizhendexuyaoyongqidewenzhangba。

◎论可靠的必要性

 qianbujiu，wojiedaoyifengdouyou。laixinzheshigenvhai，tarujinyijingjiejueliyideshiwuguanli。anquangandeai，zaihunqian，laogongbianshiyigehenqingxubuwendingderen，xinqingyukuaideqingkuangxiaduirentebiehao，xinqingyumendeqingkuangxiabianhuiluannaopiqi，naizhiyousagouliangdequxiang(baxiaotaididenaoqiaoandaoshuichizili);keshi，taxinqingyukuaideqingkuangxiajiutebiehao，duiqinrennvyoudouhentiexin。

 tayedanxinguo，zuizhongganjue“yaoshiyijianshihaojiukeyile，youyigequexianshishenme”，guoduandihezheigenanrenjielehun。zhihou，tamenyongyouxiaohaizhihou，laogongdexingziyiranbianhuanwuchang，jijiazhong、xiaohaidouchanshengjidadekunhuo，zhihoufazhanqushidaojiatingbaolideshuiping。tagantan“zhiqianganjuetahenkekao，guoyingqiye，dangdiren，jingjifazhanyesuanbushanghencha，rujinzhenganjuezishenkanzouleyan”。

 kekao，biaomingkaopu，feichangzhidejianxinhexinlaidehanyi。guoyingqiye、dangdiren、jingjifazhanbiaozhunbudi，bingbukeyichongzukaolvkekaodebiaozhun。waizaidebiaozhunsuiranshiguanjiande，keshipingdingyigerenshibushikaopu，haidepingdingzongtidezonghexingchengji。

◎选另一半，相貌关键吗

 yiqianzaimouyishengengbanye，wozaifeijichangzuodeshihuijiale，guangbodiantailifangzheyigeguangbojiemu，yigenvrenxiangjiemuzhuchirenkonggaos“wolaogongneixiangmaotaibuxing，wokandaotadoumeixingyua”。neishihouwochadianermeiyoulechushengerlai。

 keshixixinxiangyixiang，dangranbianhuilejierongmaodebiyaoxing，zhenduirenmenlaijiang，shijuexiaoguozhongguishiyizhonghenzhongyaodeganshou。lingyifangnenggoubingbushichuantongdingyishangdeshuaige，huoshirenkededameinv，keshitahehunideshenmeiguan，nijiandaotadeqingkuangxia，neixinhuiganjueshushiyukuai。

 wobuyuanyizhuangzuorongmaobuzhongyao，neixincaisuanshiyiqie，heyigebukanbuguande“shanren”zaiyiqiwanhun，haibibushanghehaojiyouwanyouxigengdaijingni。zuishidangdefangshishi，nijiangzishenzhenglideganjingzhengjie，suihouzhaoyigejiniwenxinkanbuguandelingyibanquqishengzi。

◎结婚以后，他也不容易变好

 suirannvquanzhuyizaoyizaizhongguogangkaishimengyaqi，keshixuduorenyiranyouyizhong“chuguinanrennenggoukuanrong，chuguinvrenjiuxuyaoziyiqiaodi”dequqizaopoyishi。zaizheileiyishidejutizhidaoxia，xuduo nvhaijiandaonanhaizichenmiaimei，zaijiaoyouruanjianshangluangouyin，naozilishanguodejiejuefanganbianshi“ren”，huoshijuedejiehunyihoujiuhaole。shishishang，jishinishenglexiaohai，tayiranshizhaowanbuwu。

 zhenduishibushiyaokuanrongwaiyu，wobenrenmeiyouguoduojianyi，tashibenrenxuanzewenti。keshinixuyaolejiezheiyitiaoxuandaibiaozhe“tahaihuiyouxiayici”“tahaihuishangnideai”。

 zaizheier，henyoukenenghuiyouxierenbengchulaibianbowo，“nanrendetianxingbianshiruheruhe”，yongbenxingzuoweituociyuanbenbianshiyigeshifenhuangdande，renmenyoutuludebenxing，youqianglvedebenxing，yousunhaibierendetianxing，shibushidaibiaozhedajiajiukeyizuozheileishier?ai，renleidejinhualeneimejiu，douhaimeixuehaoruheyizhiredaiconglinlidebuliangxiguan，nanmianyetaikebeileba。

◎光心疼你是不好的

 aizhendexuyaoyongqi,niyidingtingwenguoxialiedexiaogushi：yigenvshenghebuaiderenwanhun，yuangufeichangjiandan，youyutaduitahao……yigenvshengbuhepituinantichufenshou，jiuyouyutayiqiezhengchangdeqingkuangxiaduitahao……yigenvshengzhengqianyangyigezhilejiezhaizhewanyouxidenansheng，jiuyouyutayoushihouduitahao……zongdelaishuo，“yijianshihao”haoxiangyigeyuyankouzainvhaidenaoqiaoshang，haoxiangyongyouzheiyijianshierjiuwanshiruyile。

 youyixierendexintengnihanyoumingxiandeyanchuchengfen，tamenduitarenhao，bingbingbushiyinweinuanxinheqingyi，zhishiweilegenghaodizhengshizishenyige“henbujiandanderen”，barichangshenghuodangzuoqingchunouxiangjudejuyuaneryi。

 aiyuhendebianyuan,“xintengni”suiranshiyijianguanjiandeshier，keshinixuyaotiaoxuandeshiyigeshihedeairen，erbushititieruweizhaoliaonidemama。zheiyiquanshijiehuichuxianhenduorenxintengni，yinci biezhejibazheigeguifanfangjin“diyiwei”，gengbubiyouyu“xintengni”，erhulvetabiededezhimingxingquexian。yigeduinizaihaoderen，niyewufarongrentatiantianzaijiawanyouxi，liaomomozhibo，bunuligongzuo;yigeduinizaihaoderen，yehuizaichajueni“bugouaita”deqingkuangxiahuishenlikai。