爱是流动的 如何面对男朋友的情吏

 aishiyiciyicidelunhui,dajiadeyisheng，dabufennanyipengqiaoyitaibijiunengzaibozhishangxiehaoaiqingshengyan，yizhiyouxiugaidemoji，xiehuaidezhangjie。zaiganqingli，zheixiexiehuaihexiugaideyibufenjiushitadeqianqingnidejiushi——yixieshinenggougongbudeguanlian，yixiezeshibunengshuodemimi。neimeaishiliudongdeyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishitiandedewenzhangba。

 dangwubixuanzeshi，conghuideni，yaozenyangyingduinanrendeyiwang;dangmeifataobishi，daqideni，youyaozenyangshushuozishendexirilianren?

 mouyitian，niyizhizaimeiyouyiqiechongfenzhunbeidezhuangkuangxia，yibuxiaoxinzaitadediannaoshanglikandaoletayuqiannanyou(qianrennvyouhuoqizi)dehezhao，huoshizaitadeshoujilifajueleweijishandiaodeduanxiaoxi，huozhezaitaganbujiguanbidedianziyouxianglifajueletafaguolaidedianziyoujian。zheishi，aishiyiciyicidelunhui,conghuideni，gaizenyangyingduini?

1.适当表明关注和了解

 nibutaikenengjiazhuangmeikanjian，gengbubiqiaoqiaodishandiaotamen。daqiershidangdisuiyiyiwen，jibutebieguanzhu，doubuzhuangzuobuzaiyi，bajiaotanjujiaodianladaotadedeshenshang，jinkenengchengzhierbaochizhonglidibiaoshuzishendeguandian。jiarutabuyuanyitaolunxialai，neimajiuyanzhetaderenzitizhuandaoxiayigehuatitaolun。jitamenyigejieti，tahuilejie：zheishiyigefeichangzhidezunjingdeconghuinvren。

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2.性生活是禁区

 shixiazheiyishehuifazhan，pengdaoyigemeishenmexingjinglidenanren，buxunyupengdaoyizhikonglong。niyidingbuqidailingyifangxijiunideqianxingshi，neimazaiyiyangdenantishang，shibubizhuantiaoranglingyifangdiaonandeguanjiandian，wengebuting。qianxingshishizhongshiyigexianghudejinqu，buyaozaiyiqiebijiaominganerxiongmengdenantishanghuashijianhesixuquzhuizehecaixiang，zheixiangdangyuzailingwaimoliannanrendezhilihezishenderenshoudu。

不追责不意味着你需要无限度宽容他的往日，一些难题就是你务必搞清楚的。

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