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 kongzhiqingxu,congwangminneibianxuedeleyigexinxianci：，quanmingpick-upartist，fanyichengzhongwenbianshi“bameidaren”dehanyi。neimekongzhizijideqingxuyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlangmandeshiqingdewenzhangba。

 “bameidaren，zuichuzhideshiyiqunshoudaozhuanyehuaxuexipeixun、shijianhuodong、hechixuwanshanziwo(liaomei)fangfadenansheng。zhihoutezhizaihenhuixiyinzhuyixingpengyou，rangyixingpengyouchimidenanhaihenvhai。zaizimiandebiaoshu，zhideshi‘dashanyishujia’，danyouyuwenhuayishudebianhuahefazhan，dejiedingzaoyicongjianyidedahuatuozhandaoquanbuxiyinzhubuzhou，guanjianbaohan：dahua(lejie)、xiyinzhu、chuangjianshufuhelianluo、daochanshenghunyinguanxi。”——zhishangshibaikedebiaoshu。

 tingshuoshiyuyingguo，guigongyuhulianwangjishudefazhanqushi，zi2008nianqi，kongzhiqingxu,yixiliejinjinweiraozhewenhuayishudeshequluntanyededaozaiwoguodedao leyingxiaotuiguang。“xianjieduanquanbuwoguoshejiaoquanyueyouwushiwanhuoyuexingzuyuan，bianbuzaigedadoushi”。

 zheijianzhibuyaokanbuqingchu，yikanheyitiao。liaomeijingranyeyouzheimedamingtanghehuashi，paochulewenhuayishu，chuangjianle“”，beiguanshang“dashanyishujia”dejishuzhicheng。

 xiangyixiangzaoqiantongchengwei“shuawulai”degerenxingwei，rujinyongyoujigou、suoshujiwenhuajieding，jianzhiyingdangxiexiezheijiechudeshiqi。

 danshirutongxuduo liuxingwenhuazuihouhuibeitonghuazuoyongyiyang，wenhuayishudeyuanyishirangnanshigengjubeigexinghuafengcai，xuehaoruhezhangwoyixingpengyou，bingyunvshihemuxiangchu，dantazaiwoguoqianxingdeyundongguijiquehuanshi“shuawulai”dejiulu。

xiaolindechulianqingrenbianshibeineiyangyigeguonei“bameidaren”duansongde。

tacaiershisui，shiyigexianyaxiuqidexiaonvhai，dayikuaiwanbideqingkuangxiapengdaoleta。

 “taguishuyukanshangquhentaiyangdezhonglei，gaogaodeshouxiao，jianshenyundongcengmianfeichanghao，xuexipeixunyefeichanghao，chuantongleqishufayishuyehuiyidian”，neiyangdenanhaierdayueshigaoxiaozhongzuihuobaodezhongleile，taxunsujiuzaitadezhuiqiuwanmeixiaxindongle，zijintourulechulianqingrendesuoyoujiqing。

 “bujiutanlianaideqingkuangxia，woshenmedoubudong”，renweiliangrenyaoshixianghuzhijianxiaibianshiganqingle，tahenzaiyita，yehenkaixindetouruzhe，shifenaixixianghujiandeqinggan。“wohenyounaixin，baituolezishendexiaoqingxu，yidianyebushedejiandaotabugaoxing”，liangrenzaiyiqiduguoleyiduanmankaixindesuiyue。

 yexushitihuilaidaotadezhenxin，lejietashiyigehaonvren，yexushiganjuezaimeiyoubixumanbao，buyuandayouxile，youyitian，tatiaoxuanleduitatiaoming，tashihenyougongzuojingyande，“tashuodao，tajinglisangezhendedenvyou，duiyuwanxiayileide，youbagehaoduogedexiangbuqilaile。bingqie，tayusigenvhaierneibanzaiyiqiguo，zaiqizhongyousangenvhaiquanshizishendediyici。”

duiyuxiaolinyingdangshuyunayilei，dayuejiejinzheierzhezhengzhongjianba。suanbushangzuizhendedenvyou，danyehenbuxiaxinwanxiajishi。

 zhiyoufenle，tadoubuhenta，“ruhedongdequhen、quguaiyigejiguozishenneimeduokuailederen”。tajianxintayeshiyouguozhenxinshiyi，jinjin“zheiboruodeaiqueshibunengzhichengdianwomenquzouweilaidelu”。

 langmandeshiqingyoushenme？huashineiyangjiang，danyeshenrenjingshi，xiangqizheiyiduanqinggan，taxinlidewaishanghuanshizaijuanjuanchuxue，tanaizhicaiyi，zheichuangkoushizhongyebuhuihaola。“wocongcibuyuanquneiyangdetourule，zaiyebuhuiduiyigerenyouneiyangdewenrouhexixinle，yebuyuanhesheizaiyiqile。woganjue，zishenfengqilezishendexin。”

 tashuo，“wanshuijiejie，wonengzuoshenmeni?zhihou，wohainenggouyouzheyifenhaohaodideyiqiezhengchangdeganqingma?wohaipawodejiqinghexixinzaoyisuoyouhaofeizailezheiyigerendeshenshang。”

wotixiaolinbaobuping，renshijianyouneimeduohaonanhai，taquepianyaobianchengle“bameidaren”dexiaobing。

 tashitaduobuyiwangdemonan，youyutaxuehuileyiqie“dahua(lejie)、xiyinzhu、chuangjianshufuhelianluo、daochanshenghunyinguanxi”defangfa，lijingbuduandeshijianhuodong，yanxi，“3geyongxindenvyou，bagezhishangdeniqingwoyuan”，neiyangdezhankuangxiangnadaoxiaolinneiyangdeganqingxiaobai，zhenshishiqingeryiju。

 kongzhizijideqingxu,tashizheiyifushengzhongmouyileinanshengdedianxingxing——duiaiqingshichedidebulieheqianglve。tabingbumingbaizhongshinvshi，jibian zaihuodenvshihuanxidequanguochengzhongjinglizheixiewennuan——tiexin、guanzhu、xixin——yebuguoshibuliedefangshi，taxinlidemouyibufenyizhishibingliangerjiroujiangying。xiaolinrenweizhenai，tazhidangtashigehuizongzhanjideshuju。