控制情绪 如何学习爱？

 kongzhiqingxu,jiarunijuecezijintouruhuolihehuafeishijianxuexipeixunai，yaoxiangtishengzijiziwojiazhi，buguannidelizudianshiweilegenghaodizhuiqiuwanmeigaopinzhiyixingpengyou，huanshitigaoqinglvzhongjiandejiaowanggongzuonengli，yebuguannishitongguozixue，huanshifuqianxuexipeixun，nidoukeyiyizhaowohaizaicigongxiangdexuexipeixungousikaizhanxuexipeixunhetishengziji，yizhaowojinidefangxianghegousixuexipeixunhetigao，zaijiyuqiuchengderenlaikansuoxuhuaxiaodeshijianhenyoukenenghuiyoudianerzhang，danxiangxin，tahenfeichangzhide，yezuikaopu，youyuzheijinidedao deziwojiazhizuipingwen。neimekongzhizijideqingxuyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlangmandeshiqingdewenzhangba。

系统学习爱的2个层面：基础知识+幽会实践活动

shenmeshilianaijiaoyupeixungongsichushijixueshengdejichuzhishi?

 lijingyouhuishijianhuodongrenzhengkeyibeixueshengxiaofang、xuexipeixun、xiaofang、yingyongdefangfahefangshi，kongzhiqingxu,tabaokuojiaoyuxingdedingyi，shijideyuehuijiqiaohehaoyongdetanlianaideganjue，tanlianaixingweiguifanheshejiaohuodongxiguanxing、liangxingxinlideng。

教育性的定义和內容

 tanlianaixingyejiaoyuxingdedingyitongchangheshehuixinlixuexingyedexuduo dingyiyouguan，jiaoyuxingdedingyibingbushiyigetanlianaijiaoyupeixungongsichushijixueshengzuiguanjiandeshiyongjiazhi，zuishaoworenweibingbushi，dantaquebukehuoque，youyujibendejiaoyuxingdingyiyouliyuxueshengduitanlianaicengmiandejichuzhishikaizhanxuexipeixunhelejie，dantadequexianshiwufayongyishijideyouhuishijianhuodong，tongchangyouyujiaoyuxingdedingyiguoduxiandaihualilunhezhenghexingerrangxueshengwufayirufanzhangdeyongyishijianhuodong。

什么是恋爱层面的教育性定义?

例如：“第一印象”

 yi“diyiyinxiang”zheiyiguanjianzikaolv，nenggouyou“diyiyinxiangdehanyi”“diyiyinxiangzhenduizhuiqiuwanmeiyixingpengyouhuotigaorenjijiaowangdegongxiao”“zenyangchuangjianhaodediyiyinxiang”deng。

 ruguonishiyigeshehuixinlixuedefashaoyou，ninengzaixuduo shehuixinlixuehuoshirenjijiaowangcengmiandewenzhangneironghuoshubenzhongdedao youguandiyiyinxiangdeyouguanzhuanyezhishi，danlejiehezenyangbaozhengtongchangshilianghuishi，zhenshishanyuxiyinzhuyixingpengyouderenjiqirenjijiaowangnengliqiangderenshijishangzaiyurendiyicijiechushi，tongchangzaixinzhonggenbenmeixiangguoyaoyouyidejilingyifangliuyouhaodediyiyinxiang，ergengshineixinmeiyouxiangguozheizhong，tayizhaohenduoniansuzaodeyouhuixiguanxingheshejiaomeitixiguanxingquzuo，dangranqiezhenzhengdezhanxianzishendeqingkuangxiacaizuijufengcai，yecairangyuzhijiaowangderenzuijuedeshushi。

 zaishehuixinlixuefanweiyineiyouhenduoyutanlianaiyouguandejiaoyuxingdingyi，youxingquaihaodepenyounenggouduokanyikanyouguandexinlixuewenzhanghuoshuben，tazhenduiniduitanlianaihuorenjijiaowangderenzhinenglitongchangyongyou xuduodeyichu，danzhenduinideshijianhuodongqueqianqueyidingdeduijie，zheiyidian，dahuoernenggouyijuzishendequkanshuhejiaoyujingligongxiangyixiazishendetihui，reliehuanyingjiuzheiyidianhewokaizhantantaohegoutongjiaoliu。

 ziran，yutanlianaixiangguandejiaoyuxingdeneirong，yeyouxuduo biedeyouguanxingyedejiaoyuxingneirong，lirufuzhuangdapei、jianshenyundong、meishipengren、yuedu、yingpianzheixie，zheizhongzhuanyezhishiyiyanghuiyouyiyuxueshengtongguoxuexiheleijicongertisheng gerenmeiliheziwojiazhi，wozhenduizheizhongxingyedezhuanyezhishitanbushangjishuzhuanyezhe，woyizhidouxiangxunzhaoyouguanxingyedejishuzhuanyezhexiezuo，jinerweixueshengchushigengjuyouzhuanyenenglidejiaoxueneirong。

约会技巧和谈恋爱的感觉

 lijinglianaijiaoxuezhehenduonianyouhuihelianaijinglisuochendingchulaideyouhuigerenxingwei，youhuixiguanxing，tanlianaitihuixinde，tanlianaiganshoudeng，binglijingduomingxueshengdexuexipeixun、xiaofang、shijianhuodongyihouzhengshishikekaobeikexuexipeixundegongzuojingyanhefangfa。

langmandeshiqingyoushenme？shenmejiaoshijideyuehuijiqiaohejutidetanlianaideganjuehuizong?

liru：“henvshengyouhuiwanbishixiangnvhaimingquetichubaoyixiazaizou”deyouhuixiguanyangcheng。

 zheishiwolaijiaoxueshengzaihenvshengyouhuiwanbishiyaozuodegerenxingwei，kongzhizijideqingxu,zheishiwohenduonianhenvshengyouhuishipeiyangdehelideyouhuixiguanyangcheng，suihouwojiangzheiyiyouhuixiguanyangchenglaijiaoxuesheng，rangtamenzaihenvshengyouhuiwanbishiyexiangnvhaimingquetichu“baoyixiazaizou”，zaiwocongshidesinianzhong，youhenduowodexueshengyizhaowojiangdequzuo，zaihenvshengyouhuiwanbishihuodelenvhaigaoxingdexiangyong，youdenaizhizaihenvshengxiangyongshihenvshengjiewenle，bansuizheguanliandetuidong，lianggerenjinerlaidaoyiqibianchengleqinglv，jiaruniguanzhuwohenduonian，yingdangzhangwowoshuodeshinaxie。