感情真相 为什么我们会更喜欢得不到的人？

 zhiqianyouyishougeyouyijugeciyouqihuo：「woyouzhedequanshixincunjiaoxinga，wosangshidequanshirenshengdaolu」。erzheigedexingmingzhenghaojiuchengwei「guanyuwoaini」。neimeganqingwentizaixianzixunyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanganqingzhenxiangdewenzhangba。

 yizhonghenyoukenenglaiyuanyuzulan，guoduodezulancushibenlaiwanmeideaiqing，zhongguibukeyizoudaozuihou，jinerzaochengqingchunqipanni，juedesangshidequanshishide。

 tashitizhushuodaode「luomiouyuzhuliyexiaoyong」，youyuzheileixiaoyongshijiangbenlaitanlianaibiciyinweiwaijienengliangsuozulanshi，tanlianaibicideganqingfandaoyinertishengle。zheifanyingdeshirendeyizhongguangfandeqingchunqipanni。rutongwoxiaojiuzaitanggeershishitazuojiawuhuochangjiandeyigejiliang：「niqianwanbiebacanzhuocaganjingle」「niqianwanbiebanagezhuoyibanhuilai」。zheileixinlizhuangtaibujinzaitongnianqicunyou，chengrenrengranhuichuxian。

 erzheileipannizaiyiduanchengnianrendeqingganwufadedaofumudezhuyuan、naizhimingxiandizhihezuaishibianchuxianle。ganqingzhenxiang,yinci xuduo nishimirendeaiqingxiaogushibingbushiyouyunanhaihenvhaizhurengongduomedebanpeixiangshierchuming，zhishiyinweiqiaiqinglvchengduomedejianxinmingyunduochuan，youduofangzulan，zuihouzoudaozuihouhuoyouyuanwufenerchuming。

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 lingyizhongkenengshi，xingfulaiyuanyuxiangxiang。dajiahenyoukenengbadajiaquanbuzhenduiqinglvdexingfuxiangxiangdoujiyuzainage「wufadedao」derendeshenshang。

 dajiadui「wufadedao」derenshifenxihuan、lingrennanwang，zheileitihuitongchangzaidajiachuzaidanshen、fenshouhou、huoshihexinrenguanlianchuxianfenqihekunjudeqingkuangxiayuelaiyuegengjiaqingchuhemingxian。youyumeimeizheigeshihou，dajiahuixiangxiang，jiarunenghuodenei「wufadedao」deren，huichuxianruhedetianzhihenjieju。dajiahuijianchibuxiejianxin，tadeyiqiedoushijizhide，rujindebeijubianshiyouyumeiyouhuodetaa。

 yinci ，nidonglemeiyou，「wufadedao」derenbingbushiqueshizheibanneiyangjizhi，zhishilaiyuanyunimeihuode，yinci niningkejianxin「wufadedao」derenshijizhide，neibannenggoujianqingnirujinhuodebingbutaihaodexintai——genjuxiangxiang。rutongmeiyigerendoubixuyouyigezhenmingtianzihenvwangyiyang，takaolvdajiaduiyigejizhimubiaodequanbuxiangxiang，shiwomenzaishijizhongpengdaozhongduoburuyideqingkuangxia，youneimayigehuanxiangkongjianquyunagejizhixiangyuxiangzhi。

 youderenhuigaoqingchu，nagejizhishizishendexiangxiang;danyouderen，henyoukenengwufalejiedao，yincitamenhuitaiguodichenmiyunage「wufadedao」deta。wulunzhihouzaipengdaoshei，doushihuijiangtamendequexianyu「wufadedao」zhirendeyoudianlaijiaowei，naizhizishenjiugangkaishizaojiuchuneigerendezhongduoyoushi，suihougankaiyunshizheibanbugongping，zishenshizhongwufadedaoshide。

zheizhongwufalejiedaojizhilaiyuanyuxiangxiangderen，tongchangyouyizhongxiaojibeiguanhetuixiezerendeqiangpoxingzhongfu。

 「woshiyigebuzhishenaideren」，dangyigerenyongyouneiyangdexinxindeqingkuangxia，tamenbianhuiyibianbiansoujibushenaidexinxineirong，erhushishenaidexinxineirong。yinci ，zheixieaitade、「huode」dejiu「bianyi」le，erbuxihuantade、「wufadedao」dejiu「baogui」le。zaizheileiliangjihuazhong，zheileixiaojibeiguandebukexuexinxinjiuyulaiyutuijinle。

 ganqingwentizaixianzixun:zaicezhongdianchijiudizhiliuzai「wufadedao」derendeshenshangdeqingkuangxia，yiqiezaojiuxingfukuailedezhipeiquanheyiwudoubuyouzizhuzishenle，zheilingrenyoushang，yelingren「qingqingsongsong」。youyuxingfukuailedezhipeiquanbei「duozou」deqingkuangxia，lianzheyaoqinfenquzaojiudeyiwuyejiaoyoulebieren，neimatabiannenggouyigeren「qingqingsongsong」diquyoushangle。