感情真相 关于爱和性他说得最明白

 youguanaihexingdenantizaoyibuxinxianle，tanaizhilaojiudaomeiyigewenxuejiadoumeifaraokaidechengdu。dangengshineiyangyagendenantiticaitixianchurengenrendebenxingqubie，youyuzheieryouyigexingqingdenanti，taishangwangqing，taixiaburuqing，weichuyuzhengzhongjianzhe，chenjiduosi。duizheigewentidejieshi，biaozhizheyigerenlingwulidegaoai，yiner，qingganwenticaiqianshechuzhongduorendebenxingdenantilai，liruhuanghua、panbian、wusifengxian、fangqi、tiaoxuan、naizhicunwang。ganqingdeshicongbushiyizhuangsuoshi，zhenduiyingzaoyigeren，zheileiqingganyouqiguanjian。jinqihoutaiguanliyouxuduopenyouaikanzheixiefangmiandezhuzuo，wojuede，bibushangjiubazheipianbigongbijing，yizimeishandichuanchulai。)neimeganqingwentizaixianzixunyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanganqingzhenxiangdewenzhangba。

 youxierenshuo，quanshijie，meifenmeimiaodoushiyoubeiduofendequzizaizouchuzaiyingrao，jiaruzhenyouwaixingrendehua，tamenhuibazheixiangshengrenzuodiqiushangdebiaoshi(rutongmuxingyouyidaopiaoliangdehuan)，youcilaifenbiandajiachuyuqishangdezheikexingchen。tashigelanmandexiangxiang。bufangzailanmanxieni?yaoshiyouwaixingren，waixingshengwuzufuyidinghuigaozhiwaixingshengwuxiaosunzi，zheixiangshengbuguoshijinerbainianlaicaichuxiande，erbizheixiangshenglishiyoujiudeduodexiangshengshi“ganqing”。ganqing，shuqiannianlairenmenyigezhonggeyangyinbiaofayinshuozhe、changzhe、zanyangzhehechongjingzheta，chanmianfeicebolanzhuangkuoyihuierbuduan。yiner，waixingshengwuzufuyidinghuigaizhengwaixingshengwuxiaosunzi：ganqing——zheixiangsheng，caisuanshitaiyangxizhongneikepiaoliangxingchendebiaoshini。

但，什么爱情?感情，都是什么呢?

 dagaiburongyiyouxierendizhi：xingfudeganqingbixubaokuomeihaodexing，erxingfudexingziranyaoyiganqingweiqiantitiaojian。youyushijieshangyeyouyizhongchengwei“youhao”deganqing，jiqiyizhongchengwei“piaochang”heyizhongchengwei“ouda”degerenxingwei。yincidagaiyejiuburongyiyouxierendizhi;ganqingbingbudengyuxing，xingyebukeyitidaiganqing。haosijidianlidenanshenghuonvrendoubukeyitidailianren。

这类似要算一种基本常识。

 nantishi：nagebuxiangdangyuxingdeshenmeaiqing?nagexingsuobukeyitidaideganqing，ganqingzhenxiang,shisha?baokuoxingerqiechaoguoxingdenageganqing，daodishiruheyizhongshi?

或许感情，便是友好加性 吸引 ?

 jishizheijixieshebeidejiajianfabingbunengxiao，keshi，weihenideyixingbujinshige，erlianrenquezhiyouyige(huolingwaizhiyouyige)ni?youyuzhiyouyigeduinizaochengxingxiyin?shibushi?

 huoxuyouxierenshi。kebushiwo。bushiwobingqiexiangxin，xiangwozheiyangbujincongyigeyixingpengyouneiliganshoudaoxiyinzhuderenxuduo ，xiangwozheiyangbujinbeiyigepiaoliangnvrenzhenjingshuangyanhejingraolexindenanshengxuduo ，xiangwozheiyanggongbuhuoananzanyangguo2gezhishangmeihaoyixingpengyouderenhaowuyiwenzhanzherenmendedabufen。

 zhengshishijishangjianyi：niyaomeiyoukandaozheifenairenzhishinizaojiukandaoleyixingpengyoudemeihao，nibeiyixingpengyoujingdonghexiyinzhuyihounicaigangkaishixunzhaolianren。niyizhizaizhaoxunyigeshiqianbingbuquedingxingdeyixingpengyouzuozheifenairen，zheibiaomingniyizhizaitiaoxuan。ganqingzhenxiang,niyizhizaitiaoxuan，zheibiaomingduijinixingxiyinlideyixingpengyoubingbuzhiyouyige。neima，tiaoxuandeyijushisha?

 ruozhishishixing，bianmeiyoushenmeaiqingchansheng，yincineishishengwujiexiyiweichangdeexingshijianyuwenzhongbuxianggan。nideyijuziranshiganqing。

可是什么爱情眼底下还不知道。

rujinzhizhidaoyijianshi：xingxiyincongbushiyiduiyide，jihushiduoxiangde，buranzhongqunbianyaozaiwushichangjingzhengzhongshuailuo。

 duleguoyipianxiaoshuoji，xieyiduiqinglv(huofufu)waichuqu，zouzaijieshang、zourudianpu、zuoshanggongjiaochehezuoshangfandianli，nvrenfajuenanshengdeyanguangjingchangkanxiangciwaidenvren(yixiehaokanhuoxingganmirendenvren)，yincitacongmeiqudaonaonuyizhilikaineinansheng。zheipianxiaoshuojixianzhushifengcineigeren，jianxintabumingbaiganqinghebuzhongchengganqing。

 dangaizuozhedezheiyifenbianjinyouyibandekenengshiduide，jinyouyibandekenengshi，neigerenbingweibaituoyibanxiaodongwudeduiwu。ciwaiyibandekenengshinagenvrenbuhuitanlianai。zuixiantameigaoqingaihexingdegezi，xingshiduopianxiangde，erxingdeduopianxiangbuyidingbunengyuaidezhuanyibingcun。cizhitabazijizhishifangdaolexingdebuweishang，youyujinyouzaizheigebuweishangtayuciwaizheixienvrencaisuanshixiangbide。ganqingwentizaixianzixun:disan，neinanshengmeiyouyouyuzhuduodexingxiyinerliquta，takexiangguozheishiweishenmema?taxianeryijianmeixiangguo，youyudaoshitazhishiweilegenghaodixingjiduerlikaitadeqinglvhuolaogong。