爱是甜的 如何变得善于交际？

 aishitiande，youderenfangfogengshanyushejiao，danshishishangrenherenquanshishehuifazhandeyibufen，heqitazhuanyejinengyiyang，yigerendeshejiaogongzuonenglishinenggouxunliande。kanyixiaxiabiandeneirong，rangnibaituozishendeanquanxingdiqu，tisheng nidejiaojinengli。neimeaishangzenyangderenni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishiliudongdedewenzhangba。

1、少指责。

 yixiezunchengzishenwei“fanshejiaozhe”，tamenpengjizhezishenhezishenshenpangderen。tamenduobirenjiguanxi，yifangmianyouyutamenchangbeitarenpintoulunzu，lingyifangmian，tamenyexiaiduitarenzhizhidiandian。nixuyaoyuelaiyueshanyushejiao，henzhongyaodeyidianbianshijienarenheren，buguantamenkanshangquzenyang，aishitiande，shijishangmeiyigerendoushiyoufenbiedeyoudianhequedian。xinxinhebuzixinderen，chabiejiuqujueyuqianmianyizhongduizishenyouleguandexintai。shejiaozixinderennengjiandaozishenhebierendeshenshangdeyoushi，erquefazixinhefanshejiaoderenzhijiandaoquexian。

 •jigerenyoudianlieyigemingxi。benzhide(zhili，qingshangzhishang)hewaizaide(renti)bixuyou。aishitiande，yangchenghaoxiguan，meiritishizishenzheizhongyoushi，zishenyouyigequexian，jiuxiangqi2geyoushilaiyingdui。

 •bieweizijitieshangbiaoqian，xiangxiuse，ruanruo，huobuxihuanshejiaonaxiede。zheizhongciyongdaoyueda，niyejiuyuetuijinlezheileiniantou，nipingdinglezishenshiyigeshejiaoruanruowunengderen，jieguobianshiduobijianren。jiaruxiangyiqiezhengchangshejiao，jiuxuyaojianxinzijishiyigeyoushejiaogongzuonenglideren。yaogaozhizishen，nengshejiaoshiyizhong“tiaoxuan”，bingbushiyizhongsuyang。

 •jianxinrenxingbenshan。suiranhuairenchangkuang，danhuanshiyaojianxinrenmenshitaorenxihuande，shanjierenyide，youjieshoubierendegongzuonengli，zheihenzhongyao，nengrangniyaoganyingduiluren，erbushibikai。

2、不必对社交过多剖析。

 xiangdetaiduofandaorangnibukeyixiangyoushejiaodequanguocheng。henshaoxiangtingnande，danyiranyaogenggaizheileixiguanxing，yibushixianxiangxianghuichanshengshenmeshiqing，yebubishihouzhugeliang，zheihenzhongyao。

 •bubizaiyihenyoukenengshibaidediquhehenyoukenengchuxiannankandediqu，yaoyiquanxinjijizhudongdexintaiyingduixinderenjixiangchu。

 •aishiliudongde,huailianguoqudeqingkuangxia，haiyaozhuiyihaoshier，wangjicuoshi。bianshizheizhonghaoshiersuanbushangnirenshengdaoluzhongdeshanguangdian，haiyaojiandaozishenzhuyaobiaoxianfeichanghaodeqingkuangxia，naizhinenggoushineileilingrenhahadaxiaodesuoshi。

3、了解到自身没那麼关键。

 quweideshi，xiusederenhuiganjuezishendebubiyaohebeihushi，lingwaiyeganjuezishenshizaiwutaijuguangdengxiabeishouguanzhudejujiaodian。zheiyidutedemiulunbianshirangnizairenyanqianzaodongbuandeyuangu。zheibushishuorangnidihuizishen，zhishirangnirenkeweizijizuilanpingderengengshiniziji;tarenshijishangdoumangdemeikongguanjuni，meishijianpengjini。

 •jilao，tarendoumangliuzishendeshier，jibenshangmeishijianliuyinidezheixieqiushi，nijiangcuodehua，yebuhuizaihunikanqilaiduomedebujingshenshizhi。jishitarenzailiuyini，yebuhuineimaxixindeguanchani，bierendoushiyouzishendeshieryaochuli。

 •aishangzenyangderen？lejierenheren，duoduoshaoshaodouyuniyouyiyangdetihui。jiusuanshizuihuishejiaoderenyehuiganjuezaodongbuanheyoulv，pachuxiannankan;butongdianqujueyutamentiaoxuanletanxian，xiangyouzaiqizhong，meiqudanyoutarendefanying。