爱的信号,如何变得有魅力?

 aideyishuyoushenmeni？fengcaishiyizhongxiyinrendetexing。youderenzaiyijindaotarenshiyedediyikejiushifangchulezishendefengcai，youxierenzebixulijingyiduanshijiancaihuibeidahuoerjuedeshiyoufengcaideren。jinguanmeiyigerenyushengjulaiyouzhederenqizhibuyiyang，keshijuedaduoshurendounenggougenjuxunlianlaitigaozijiderenqizhi。renzhenyuedu，zhangwozenyangyongnidezishiheshentiyuyanzhuyaobiaoxiandeyoufengcaiba!neimeaideyanjingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidexinhaodewenzhangba。

1、对别人有兴趣爱好。

 niwuxuaimeiyigeren，keshinixuyaoduizhoubianderenhaoqixin，huoshishizaimouzhongchengdushangchong、aideyishuyoushenmeni？bailingyifang。dangyigeyoufengcaiderenzouruyigewuzi，qiewuzilitianmanzheyouxianliaoyixiangderendeqingkuangxia，tamenburongyiyikaoqiangchuqibuyitaozoude。ninengduitarendeshenmedifanghenganxingqu?ruguonishiyigehuiyiqingderen，henyoukenengninengduitarendetihuihenganxingqu。huoxuniduitamendegongzuozhonghuoshishitamenyouzhedezhuanyezhishihenganxingqu。yongnidexingquaihaozuoweijiben，laijiejiaopenyou。

•xuehaozenyangyijunidexingquaihaolaitichuwenti，zaiwenminglimaodelingwairangtarenganjuezishenhenquwei。

 •tichuwentidaliangdenantilaizaicizhanxiannidexingquaihao，shizhongbukeyiranggennixianliaodeneirenganjuenishizaiqinfendichangshiwanbizheiyiduanhuihua。

2、如果你第一次遇上他人的情况下，记牢她们的姓名。

 zheizhenduijuedaduoshureneryandoubixuxiayixieshijian，keshijiaruniyaobianchengyigeyoufengcaideren，tashichedifeichangzhidezuodeshiqing。ziwojieshaodeqingkuangxia，fanfutarendexingmingnenggouyouliyunijilaota。biru：“hai，damingchao，woshiyiduoduo。”zaijiaotandequanguochengzhongnenggouyingyonglingyifangdexingming。ruguonishuoyishengzaijianshizaifanfuyici。

 •fanfumourenmingzibuzhishixiezhunijilaozheigeren。nijuedetarenxingmingdepinciyueduo，tarenyueganjuenixiaitamen，tamenshangxinidegailvjiugenggao。

•jiaruzaidajiaxianliaodequanguochengzhongyoutarentianjia，yongxingminglaixiangxijieshaozheiliangren。

3、装作很熟。

 tashishuo，yaoyiyizhongyoushandefangfagenxinlejiederenhuoshishibujiupengmiandeqinqipengyoukaizhangoutongjiaoliu，jiufangfotajiushinideyigejiuweiledepenyouhuoqinpenghaoyou。neiyangnenggoubaituozuikaishidenankan，jinihexinpengyouxunsudiliaoqilaiqilai。xunsu，dajiabianhuiganjuezainipangbianhenshufule。

 •shanjierenyi，zaizaijiashangzhongshi，rangtarenganjuezishenshibeiaixi、beiguanzhuzhede。tashishejiaomeitizhongqiangyoulidezhuanyonggongju。

4、聊一聊跟你在一起的这个人所很感兴趣的话题讨论。

 aideyanjingjiarudajiazhishenliudongxingdequntizhong，liaoyiliaozuowandesaishihuoshishixinhuoqilaidehechangtuan。jiarudajiashizaiyigeshetuanhuodong，lejietamendegerenaihao，liaoyiliaodayu、shougongbianzhi、dengshan、kandianshijuzheixiehuatitaolun。

 •meiyourenjixiwangyuninengbianchengyigequanweizhuanjia。youshininenggenjutichuwentilaichuangjianhemudeguanlian，buyaodanxinneiyanghuikanqilainihenhaiziqi。dajiaxiaitaolunhebiaoshutamendexingquaihao，binghuiduiniyouganjuedeqingting。gengshiyouyuniduizheiyihuatitaolundexingquaihaohexiangyaocanjiazaiqizhongdexintai，caikeyijinibianweiyigeyouxiuderen。

 •youzheduiwaikaifangdexinlizhuangtai。rangtarenzuobiaoshu。jiaruyouxierenbuzhengquedijuedeniyouguanzheiyihuatitaolunlejiexuduo ，jiujianyi、zhenxinchengyishuonidezhuanyezhishishijishanghenbijiaoyouxian，danniqidainengzaiduozhangwoyixie。

5、共享相关自身的信息内容。

 aidexinhao,zhizibutizishendeshiqinghuijinikanqilaihenlengmo。zainirangtarenlaigongxianglijingdeqingkuangxia，aidexinhao,haiyaojinlianggongxiangzishendelijing，tashiyizhongchuangjianxinrengandefangfa。youyunixianggentamentaolunniderichangshenghuo，huirangtamenganjuezishenhenyouqi，zainidouhaimeiyishidaodeqingkuangxia，dajiajiuzaoyibianchenglepenyou。