爱一个人有错吗?学会示弱

 aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma?bulunshiyijingchuzaidanlianqidenvhai，huanshiyijingzhuiqiuwanmeinanhaizidanquemeijieguodenvshi，yidingdoufeichangxianglejiezheiyinanhaiziduizishendeguandian。keyinweichenwenxiusedeyuanyin，juedaduoshunvshidoubukenjijilejielingyifang，zhongjiuqinglvdelejiehuichuxianyidingbeijujuedefengxianxing，yinci zhiweiyongbiedefangfalailejiezheiyinanhaiziduizishendexintai。neimeaiyigerenyouduoku?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerenyoucuomadewenzhangba。

 danzenyangcainenglejieyigenanshengshibushixiaizishenni?shijishangnichedinenggouguanxinxiabianzheizhongguanjiandian，laixiezhuzishenxunzhaoyaoxiangdehuida!

关键点一：他刚开始对给你关注的行为

 dangzheiyinanhaizigangkaishiduijiniguanzhudexingweishi，niyidingyaozhuyile，henyoukenenglingyifangzaoyigangkaishiduinidongxinle。aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma?nanhaizidequeshineiyangdeweishengwu，tamenhuibusuibiandongxin，danzhenshideyidongxinbianhuimashangtouru。

 neimaduitaeryantourudediyigerenxingweizeshigangkaishiduiniguanlian，jingjingdichengxiantadeguanai。henyoukenengzaiyikaishininengganjuedajiazhishihaopengyouzhongjiandehuxiangzhaogubale，danxixinxiangyixiangquehuifajue，shijishangtaduinideguanzhuhezhaoliaozaoyirongjindaoneixinshenchu，tadewenhao，tadeguanaiyuju，jiqitadeyijuyidong……jinidadong，jinidakaixinfei。

关键点二：将你当做倾吐的目标

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 dangtaxiaochenshi，zaitayaozuochutiaoxuandanbixubierenzhidaoshi，dangzheiyinanhaizixinliyouyujuyaoxiangqingtushi，tangruotagangkaishiyueni，xiangyaobaxinlingshenchuquanbuyujuduinishuoshi……neibiaomingtazaoyijiangnidangzuolenenggouqingtudeguanjianhexinrenwu，niyizhizaitaxinlideyingxianglidangranyexianeryijian。

关键点三：每日都坚持不懈让你通电话

 qudelianxigan，yiyangshinengtuidongxianghujianqinmiwujiangan，lajinnanrenhenvrenjianjudefangfa。tangruozheiyinanhaizimeiridoushihuirangnitongdianhua，youqishizaimeirifanmangpilaoyitianhouhainengjianchibuxielianluoni，bajinrichanshengdeshierduinishuo，wenhaoguanyunideyiqie，neizaitaxinlihaowuyiwenzaoyijiangnidangzuoleyaoxiangguanzhuderen。

 nihaowuyiwenyehenxiangyouzhezheileixianghujiandegoutongjiaoliufangfa，tangruolingyifangyouneiyangjijidegerenxingwei，niyaoyidingyaoaixi!

关键点四：他刚开始在乎自身的品牌形象

 chukaishangbianzheizhongguanjiandian，shijishangniyaonenggouguanxinyigegengjiaxianzhudetedian，neibianshizaizheigenanshengxihuanxihuannizhihou，huigangkaishifenwaizhongshizainiyanqiandepinpaixingxiang。

 aiyigerenyoucuoma?weishenmeshuojinyounvweiyuejizherong?shijishangnanhaiziyehuichuxianneiyangdegerenxingwei，dangtagangkaishiduinizaochengyuzhongbutongdeqingganshi，neidangranhuiyaoxiangbazuixingfudeyimianzhuyaobiaoxianrangni，weicilaixiyinzhunidemuguang，yinci zainifajuezheiyinanhaiziyingduinideqingkuangxia，manmangangkaishizhongshizishendewaizaipinpaixingxiang，erbushizaineibanaizengfenmingshi，neimahaowuyiwenbiaomingtazaoyiaishangleni。