我无法恋爱的理由 为什么你会找不到对象？

 wowufalianaideliyoushishenme？buguanzaiqinpenghaoyoujuhuihuodongshang，huanshizuozhexiezilouxiabiandexingbakekafei，nichangchangtingjianyichuanxiangjindemaiyuan，liru：“worenweizishenkanqilaihaibucuo，gongzuozhongyefeichanghao，weirenzhengzhihenjiqing，weihebianshizhaobuzhenanyou?”“woshouyiyouliang，jiashixiaokangshenghuo，weihebianshizhaobuzhemeizhi?”neimewolianaiworongyimayounaxieyinsuni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanxiayicilianaidewenzhangba。

 shijishang，renfeichangrongyiganjuezishengecengmiandouhenhao，shenpangdabufenpenyouchuziyuxiandailiyi，ziranbutaikenengduinishuoaitongdekeguanshishi，zongshikuanweini“aiyo，quanshitamenyanxia”，nantishi，tamenqueshixialegouyanma?wobingbuneiyangjuede。

 renmenyexuyumeiwuzhi，keshibenxingzhongdetanyu、yangzhangbiduandebennengfanying，shiwomenyiyanjiunengkandechuhaochanpin。niyizhixiangtanlianai，queyouzhaobudaonanpengyou，quchuyunshiyuanfenzheileideyaosu，bidingyoubenshendeyuangu。

缘故一：你一直瞧不起身边的人

 bulunshinanhaizihuanshinvhai，dayuecongchuzhonggangkaishi，bianhuijingchangmaiyuantongnianlingrentaihaiziqi;wowufalianaideliyoushishenme？zhangdahou，youhuimaiyuanshejiaoquanzideyixingpengyoubuzuhao。

zheishiyigefeichanggangadezhuangkuang。

 yibandeyixingpengyouniqiaobuqi，ganjuelingyifangtailoser，jimeiyoukuxuandegongzuojingyan，zhuandeyebuzuduo，jiazhonghaiguodupingfan;nijuedelingyifangbuzufujianv，buzushanjierenyi、xianshuquwei。

 ruguoniyangtouwangshangkandeqingkuangxia，fajueyouyiqunchongzuhaoderen，tamen99.9%manzunidezhaoduixiangyaoqiu，buwanmeideshi，tamenbutaikenengjiangnidangzuozhenshidexiangchumubiao，yinci jiugengbieshuotanlianainaxiedele。zheixienvwanghegaolengnanshen，budanchengjileyouliangdeyichuanjiyin，lingwaihaihuaxiaoxuduo shijiancaibianweixiangduixingwanmeideren;jibian tamenxincunzhencheng，zerenxinfanlanchengzai，qianjiuminsudekunku，doubudaibiaozhetabianhuihenizaiyiqi。

jiarunizhengzaoyugaobucheng，dibujiudezhuangkuang，youlianggetiaoxuan：

xiahenxin，xixingemian，bianshiyaozhaoshide。

mianduixianshi，gangkaishitihuishenpangrendeyoudian，tiaoxuanyigeyunizuibodianhuade。

 woyebuzhidaoyoujigehuitiaoxuanyi。qingbiebulizhidixiadingjuexin“likejiuxuyaoqubaofudaobanxuexipeixun”“wolikexialoutipaosanshiquan”，jiulianmalubianmaihongshudexiaohuodoulejie，jianchibuxiebaitanercaikeyizhuanqianyangjia。yiyang，buduanxuexikuozhanshixian，shoushenmeibaibaochijiankang，meiyouyiyangshifeichangrongyide。

 jiarunizuobudao，neimejiuxuandiertiaolu，zheitiaodaolubuyidingbutaihao，zhibudingyihuishou，jiuyouyigehaixiu、shanjierenyigangzhengbuadexiaohuoerzaineilidengni。

ziran，yuewangshangsheng，jiuhuiyouyuekuankuodejingse。gaolengnanshenquwei，zhishiyuanbo;nvwangwanzhongfengqing，conghuibaorong。

 palei，buyuanyiwangshangshengyebuyidingshiyizhongcuo，hexiankuanghemuxiangchuyeshiyizhongrenshengxuanze。ziran，haikeyitiaoxuandanshenxialai。jinjinnixuyaohaijide，niyaoxiangduomehaodewupin，jiuxuyaotouruduoshaodechengben。

缘故二：你的疯狂吓退了任何人

 wodehaopengyou，zaiyicizhutihuodongzhonglejieleyigenansheng。nanshengzhangfayudewenwenerya，keshilianggerendouhaimeiliaoyiliangju，nanhaizimashangjiugangkaishikuangchuixunvhai，shuohenduocuirenleixiaroumadeqinghua。wodehaopengyoubeihesile，xiayicilianai，henbunengxianchangjinghuangshicuo。

niyiweijinyounanhaizihuizuoneiyangdeshier，nvhaiyehui。

 daidaoyigenansheng，yitianershisixiaoshifengkuangdisaoraota，yaoshilingyifanglveweixiedaiyiju(benlailianggerenyoumeiyouteshuguanxi)，nvhaijiugangkaishigezhonggeyangbiequnaomaodun，bayiqiedougaodejinankanyouwuyuanwugu。

 womenzaidianyingzhongkanlereqingzhuiqiuwanmeidejunxiudejinsetoufaqingshaonian，zhouyenanmian，chukaixieqingshimingju，bianshilizailoudixiachangqingge;zai《yiwendingqing》zhong，nvyihaoweilegenghaodituifangaolengnanshenxuehuifangxiazizunhekeguan，zuihoudedao happyending。

keshizaixianshishenghuozhong，yibanninengbeishizuofengzi。jiaruneirenbujiangnidangfengzi，neitayelingrendanyou……

 zheijiushiweihedajiachangchangjiandao，henduofengkuangyoufenbugushendeganqing，weiheyizhiyitichufenshoujieshu?youyuxunsimihuo，fengkuang，zishenbianshiyichangzishenyanchu，he“ganqing”meiyouhendaguanlian。

 yixingpengyoushinenggouzhuide，tashiyijianhenyouqudeshier，keshinibunengfengkuangdaofukuadeshuiping。zuishaonixiangaogaoqingchulingyifangshishenmeyangderen，zaibiaoshuhaogandudoubuchi。

 wolianaiworongyima？juedaduoshuguodufengkuangdeganqingyuanyuyuxiangxiang，zishenxiangxiang，shiguoduoqueaidebiaoxian。fengkuangzongshiranglingyifangganjuedanxin、taozou，suihou，niyejiuzhaobudaonanpengyoule。baochilixing、weichiluojixing、weichiyiqiezhengchangzishi，huirangnikanqilaigengyoufengcai。