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dajiazaicuzhuangdebeikaoyibian。

1.yaoyongyuqizhuci——ngaewo，kejiazhanyinjinkenengjiazhanyin。

2.yaoyongyiwenjutidaiqishiju。bashuinajiwo，gaiwei：“shangpin，keyibashuirangnikuaikesidexifuma?”

3.yaoyongdieci。“”chengzuo“qianbiande”，“”chengzuo“gou”。

4.bimianzangkou。“fangnidepi”gaiwei“pila”，“gun”gaiwei“fangan”deng。

5.kendingbunengyongdisanrenchengchenghuziji，neibushidia，shichun。

 dajianishifouhaijidezheizhongma?jiarushangyibenshuxuexipeixundefeichanghao，neimajinri，jiaoshijiulaitianbuyixiejishuxingdexiaotishi。

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“bierenyaoshengqilee。”

“weiheyaoneiyangshuobierenla?”

 “qinaidede，rengzaishengbierendeqima?”wowufalianaideliyoushishenme？diergefangfani，bianshi“ena”，tashijiaoweigaojidexianghupeihezishidemaimengfangshi。

birulazhenanyoudegebo，shuawulai：ng(diyisheng)……

maimeiweide：ng(diersheng)……

mailaidaomeiweide：ng(disisheng)……

guanjianshi，huaizhenanyoudeshoubeimeifang，huoshitouzaitahuaizhongceng，huoshicongshenhoulanzhutacenglian。

 zongeryanzhi，budamudibieting，lianxuchuanchuzheilei“ena”sheng。biewenwojibenyuanli，wobuzhidao，wozhilejiemeiyicineiyangdoushihuiqudechenggong!

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 xuduo nvshengjishixuehaoshangbiansuoshuode，yeganjuehenshengse。neima，jiaoshiyaojiaodahuoeryigejiaoweilanduodefangshibianshi——zhongguotaiwanqiang。zaiwodexuduo shipinxiabian，douyouxierenzaiwen：“nibenlaishidaluren，weihejianghuayiguzhongguotaiwanqiang?”duila，woshiyaozhongguotaiwanqiangruhela。dajiashiyishi，bazheijuhuayongputonghuafanyiyibian：“woshuohuajiuxihuanyongzheiyifengge，ruhe!”shifouxiongxuduo 。

 nanhaierzhongguotaiwanqianghenniang，nvshengzhongguotaiwanqiangjiuhendia。kaiqisuiyiyigezhongguotaiwanouxiangjuhuoshizhongguotaiwandeyulejiemu，wuxukan，jiufangdaobianshangting，jiugenliantingliyiyang。zhangqixingtaoye，niyejiuhuilianchuyikouzhongguotaiwanqiang。biehaipashenbianderenquruni，queshi，dengdaonidekoutouyucong“xuenixinbu”bianwei“bierenhaonanshoue”，niyejiuchenggongle。

 nanrenkendingbinvxingyeshitingjuexitongxiaodongwu，weishenmeshuozuitiandenvshengguodehao，youyujishinijuededequanshihuanghua，quanshipihua，yaoshishihaotingdehua、biaoyangdehua、ruanmianmiandehua，jiuyouxierenshiyong。

 wolianaiworongyima？anzhaoguanli，songyigejingdianhuayujidajia，meiyicixiangdongnudeqingkuangxia，bukeyidongshounengli，bukeyimacuhua，yaotian、diadidongnu，dajiayingdangruheshuoni?qingjilaozheiyiyuju：“nizenmekeyineiyangyijianshi!”(xianghupeihedanzutiaojiao。)