情商培养,如何处理阴魂不散的前任?

 qingyuyu，hunhouchuguishizhongbuyizhiai。haosiyibibuyizhicai，rangmeiyigegudutanyuderenyanqianyiliangshuangyanmaoguang。eryidanqintun，jiuxuyaotouruqianbaibeidechengben。neimeqingshangpeiyangyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanqingyulidewenzhangba。

haogemenlaoxubangwojiangletahaogemendexiaogushi：

 yhetshiyiduizhongnianfuqi。hejuedaduoshuqishiniandaichuchushiderenyiyang，xunguidaojudechuduixiangwanhun、erlizhinian。danwojuedefangaitamenshirangrenxianmudeyiduibiren。ygaodaweimengnianfuliqiang，txiuwaihuizhongwenrouwumeidongren。jiehunhoudisannian，ykaijiangpitudicidiaoleguoyingqiyedegongzuozhong，qingyuyu，gangkaishichuhaizizhuchuangye。tdalizhichilaogong，yigerenjianfuqijiazhongliliwaiwaidechicunshiwuguanli。

 ychushengxiangcun，renlaorenyuanganyushengli，weirenzhengzhidaqikangkaizhangyi，qiyexunsujinxingzhaoxiannashi，zhujianburuzhenggui。haizichushenghou，tyemingzhengyanshun

 dicituinvbailinggongzuozhong，shuxinxueqijiatingzhufu。haoqiziyizuobianshibanian。nanrengongzuoganderuhuorutu，zaibenshengkaiguojigezigongsi，xiaohaiyezaitdexixinzhaoliaoxiashenxinjiankangzhangdale，jiazhongcongxiaokangshenghuotaruzhongchanjieceng，yiqiedouyulaiyuquyuwanman。

shuodaozheier，woxunwenlaoxu：yeshinanrenfuyouhouyiqingbielianwaiyudegouxueju?nvrenbianchengrenlaozhuhuang，nanrenlihunle?

laoxubaitou：haizhenbingbushi。

 zuomaimaiderendangranlibulejiuchang，yemianbulejiaojizaihongdengjiulvfengyuewubiandediqu，jianguoxuduomeimouliupandemouguang，shoudaoguoxuduoshuobuqingdaobumingdeanshizhe，huijueguozhongduojijidaozhuideyingyan，nengbaozhengruci，yyesuanzuogenannengkeguidehaonanren。shouhouqizideshijianbenjiuyuelaiyuedi，tazishizhizhongxinxin，nengshouhaozuoweilaogongdezuorendedixian。

ertadexinxin，zaijiehunhoudishiyigenianfenqingketanta。

 yigewuxingjijiudiandamenkou，enaduozidetzouchuhongsebaoma，lingwaixiacheshide，yeyoulingyigenianqingxiaohuozi。zaijiudiandatingdamenkou，xiaohuozijibukenaiderewent，suihouquqiantaijiedaibanlishouxu。

erzheiyiqie，beiyde2gehaogemenqinyanjiandao。

 laoxujiangdaozheier，woyishunjianxiangxianglezhongguoxianggangheishehuidianying：2gemazibujingyizhongpengjiandagedenvrenyulianrensitong，simuxiangduimeishaojinzhou，xishengwen：“xubuxuyaogaozhigege?”taiyangyanjingxiashierzhangqinglengdelian。

laoxushuo：nijianzhidianyingguhuozikanduole。shijiyoushihoubiyingpianhaicanren。

 yqingrenzhuizonglet,diaoyanletaquanbudeshoujitonghua、duanxiaoxijilu、qqxianliao。xiaohuoziyutzaiwangluoshanglejie，duiwaikaifangyixiongmeixiangdang，tzaizhengzhishangjiguotazhizhu，yilaierqu，lianggerentishenglejiexian。

zongsuan，ynazheyizhangchuandetonghuaqingdan、yitaxiangpian、yifenlihunxieyishu，shuaizailetdeyanqian。

tmiansecangbai，rentigangkaishiduosuo，jiezhetongkuqilai。

quanbubiaoshudoujiejiebaba，bujinrenyi。quanbuhenbaoqian，dibuguoyigebuzhengdeshishi。

tyicicikenqiuy，qidaitakanzaixiaohaidefenshang，yuanliangyishidefangsi。

danshi，meiyounanrennengchengshouyidingyuyucongcongdezheyangmaobeiyizhengciyandidaizaizishentouding。

ylisuoyingdangdihuodelexiaohaidehaizifuyangquanhejuedaduoshuzichan。jiaojityitaoxiaowuziheershiwan。

 shenqingbanlichedibubanlishouxuhou，ykanjiantrouruoderenti，yinchuoqiersongdongdejianbu，neiyishun，tajibenshangxiangzaifuxiabanshenjitayigeyiruwangxidexiangyong。erzuihou，tazhouzhemei，shadoumeiyouzuo。

tzuizhongshuo：bushiwonannai，wozhishigudu。

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 jinbaniandeshijian，ychukaiquanyuegongchu，bianshijiaojidaoshenye。tzaimanmanzhangyelimiwang，zaihunhuneelimitu。gangkaishicheyenanmiandikandianshiju、guanjinheiwuzilikankongbupian，xunzhaoyiqiehenyoukenengdecijixing。

tagule2gejiatingbaomu，congjiawuhuodaoxiaochongwu，wuyibushikuanchangmingliangjingranyouxu。

 tabanle50haojizhangvipka，zuolemeironghufuzuomeijia，paowanwenquanlianxiyujia。tajiaolehaoduogegouwudarenaibaguadenvpengyou，guangkeyiledaxingshangchangjiuxiangjudahundedaozhongguoxianggangmigou。

jinjinzheizhong，jiefugaodibupingtaxinlidegudujimo。duikuzaodeshenghuoheyichengbubianderichangshenghuo，tayecengchangshigenggaiguo。

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tamailaixingganshuiyi，zhidaoshenyeerdian，ylanzuirunidaochuangjiushui。

tabaoleyueshitangpin，jiaoyhuijiachifan，yshuozaishuobamangzheni。

zuizhong，tayongyongliuliudijiangzishentoushenyuzaidahaishenchuyiyangdehulianwangli。

 tajiejiaolenagenianqingxiaohuozi，wennuanxiyuhexiangshoushouhourangtaruzhuiwenrouxiang，nianqingrentishifangchulaidereqingrangtamohuan，haoxiangbianhuishibasuishaonv。

 chongdong，shiyikuaishenleyingsuhuadexiagan，toushiyikouhou，neileirangrenfangsiyouzhaojiabuzhudexingweierbianhuichuxian，zhidaobianchengyanyin，jiangquanbulixinghaoguang。

 hunyinshenghuoshiyichangyongxinrengandiyuedeqiyueshu。yidanhuihuai，bianshibeipaodandazhongdeyushijingzi，congcipinchubulaixiangxidequanqiu。

lihunzhihoudeybianchengzuihuoredezuanshiwanglaowu：40zuoyou，shenjiaganwan，qiuaizhetabianmenkan。

lihunzhihoudetbianchengjiuyouziqudedianxingxing：dujushenghuozai60pingdelaofangzili，tiantianjingshenhuanghu，zhuihuimoji。

laoxushuo：zhencan，fangzhehaohaodidedanshenfupobushan，feidezishenzuo。

woxunwenta：ruguonishiy,huikuanrongtma?

他思忖后摆头：难!

xiangxintashinanrendezhenxinhua。

nvrenbinanrengenghaipagudu。danzaiyingduiwaiyunantidexintaishang，nanrenbinvrengengjuejue。

laoxugenwoshuo：dajianvrenruhekantzheijianshiqing?

 wojiang：wokeyilejietadegudu。danchengrendeshijie，yaojiangbiaozhun。buguannanhaihenvhai，zuocuoshi，jiuxuyaodanfubuliangyingxiang，fuchuyingyoudedaijia。

 xilashenhualiyouyigeyouguanhaiguaidexiaogushi。tanenggouzuoqiweimeirenyu，xingzouzaiyanjiaohehuangdaozhongjian。tayouwuyilunbiderongmaohetianlaibandesangyin，yimiaomangechangyinyouwangrideyuanyanghangxingzhe。ruohaiyuanlingtingshishenfazuo，shangchuanbiangeqianyanmei，renherenlunluohaiguaideduzilican。

 dangyingxiongrenwuaodexiusilvjianduilijingmoxinayaoudeqingkuangxia，shiqianhuozhilehaiguaidexiaogushi，tatizaocaiyongletifangduice。zaichuanboshijingaishuiyuyiqian，aodexiusimingrenjiangzishenshuanzaichuantoushang，ranghaiyuanmenyongladuzhuerduolimian，haiquanjietamenbubilicaizishendeyiqiezhilingheshoushi。

 xunsu，shuishangchuanchuhaiguaimeilidongrendegechang。tadesangyinzheibangourenxinpo，rangrenhunqianmengying。aodexiusigangkaishiquanlizhengtuo，xiangdapojushu，yaohaiyuanmenshiwanggechangdehaiguai，erhaiyuanmenbingbulicai，anjidinghangxianzishizhizhongwangqian，gechangjianxingjianyuanzhidaoxiaotui，tamencaijiaodexiusifangkai。

zuihou，tamenanquanshilizheipianfengxiandeshuiyu，eraishangleaodexiusidehaiguaishiluozisha。

 “nitingjimozaichangge，wenroude，fengkuangde。qingyuli,youshangyulaiyukegumingxin，zenyangcainengrangtatingni。”woxiangdaozheige。

hunyinshenghuoli，liaoboneixindegerangrenweiqumandileiliuchenghe，zheiyihaiguai，quanmingshigudu。

dangreqingbianchengzuoshouwoyoushou，danglanmanbeiyidijimaotidai，sheiganshuomeizaoshouguogududemihuo，meitingdaoguohaiguaigechang?

 qingshangpeiyang,chongdongshimozhang。zaimouyishike，tazuosiyouxiangwumeidongren，lingrenbaizhuanaoxinwufahuijue。dengxianzhibeibingbushiaodexiusi，pingfahunyinshenghuowufachengzaiqiqingliuyudeduoyuanxing。youxierenyinhaoqixinheyumeiermoquancazhang，youxierenmingzhidaotanxianrengpianxianghushanxing。erhaiguaizhongguishihaiguai，tazhuangbanchengaiqingdemoyang，baimeiqianjiaoyihoubianshixuependakou，zhidengzaianyelijiangrentunshi，leileideshigu，qiongtumolu。