情商培养,所有的相遇其实都是蓄谋已久

 qingyuyu，libaitian，bawoayantuoqukandianying。daodeyoudianerzao，liquchangyeyousanshifenzhong，jiuzuozheyibianzhuanxinzhizhidichibingjiling。bianshangzuoxialaiyiduiqinglv，shuobujuedelangqingqieyi。neimeqingshangpeiyangyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanqingyulidewenzhangba。

 dan，bansuizhenanrenjieleyigedianhua，lianggerendeqingkuangkuaisugenggai，congerbinsimodaobingrongxiangjian，yinweilidetaijin，tamenfangdidezhengchaohuanshiqingchudichuandaowoerduolimianzhong。

nvhaiyazhizhunuhuowen：“dajiabingbushizaoyifenshouma?tahaizhaoniganshenme?nishenbeiwohetalianluolejihui?”

nanrenbiaoshuzhe：“naliyoudeshi，womenfenshoudoukuai2nianle，tayaowobianshiqujieyixiatadepenyou，bingbushijietazishen。”

nvhaichedibulicaizheileibiaoshu：“jiesheiguanjianma?neiquanshitadeshi，yuenigansha?dajiashifouhaijiuchanbuqing?”

 nanrendahuwuxian：“wohetazaoyiguoqu，xianzaiwoaideshini，shiwangzangouleduitayidianerqingganyemeiyou，zhibuguoshibatadangzuoyigeyibanpengyoubale。”

nvhaichedibuxiangxin：“jiranmeiqinggan，weiheyeyaolianluo?nijitadagedianhua，jiaotazhihoubiezaidadianhuajinini。”

 nanrenbuyuanyi，liangrendezhengzhigangkaishishengji，nanrenganjuenvyoumanbujiangli，nvhaiganjuenanyouaimeibuming，xiangshengyezhujianbiandaqilai。

nvhaijitamenxiatongdie：“nidabuda?nimeidada。”

nanrenyenule：“nihaohaodewoweiheyaogenbierendaneiyangdedianhua?nizenmeneimemanhengwuli?”

zheijuhua，zongsuanrenaolenvhai，tadanudao：“haishuodajiameiguanxi，nijuranweileaiqingmawo?nijiwogun。”

 nanrenkenengyeyaodianqingmian，jianhenduorenchaozheilikan，lazhenvhaiwangwaizou，liangrenpokoudama、qingyuyu，tuotuozhuaizhuai，lianyingpianyemeiyoudangzuo。

 wohenlejiezheiweinvhai，yousheikaixinzishendenanyouqujieqiannvyoudepengyou?jieqianrennvyouzijihejietayagenmeiyoushizhidechabie，buquanshitadeshima?

 danzuilingrenyanfandehuanshizheigenanren，jiranzaoyitichufenshou2nianle，hekuhaiqianchebuqing?xiangzuopengyou，quantiandineimeduonanrenhemeinvdounenggouzuopengyou，weihefeideheqiannanyouquzuopengyou?xianshixinxizishenhuodadaduhuanshirenpinhao?

 henyoukenengyeyourenyaozheiyiqianrennvyouyebudidao，jishitabaituobudiaoshen，nandaoshuojiumeiyouqinrenpenyou，feidequzhaotichufenshou2niandeqianren?jiranyitichufenshou，hekuzaiqudajiaotarenderichangshenghuo?

danruoxinrenyoufencun，shijishangqiannanyouquandouzuobule，qiannanyouyouduofan，zaiyuxinrendexintaiyouduonuanwei。

 ziran，bushishuo，quanbufenshoudelianrenjiubukeyizaiheqiannanyouyouyiqiechupeng，danjiaruzishenrujindeqinglvduiyucishifanyingfeichangda，jiuyingdangjianjueheqiannanyoulaosibuxiangwanglai。chufeishilianggedoudanshen，neiaizawanjiuzawan，zongzhisunhaibushangbieren。

danyaoshiyongyouxindeganqing，jiuyingdangheqiannanyouhuaqingjiexian，tashichuduixiangdejichuwenminglimao。

nanrenduinvrenjiaoda desunhaizhiyibianshiduiqiannanyouxintaiweizhi，dangduanbuduan。

wodehaopengyouxiaojyiqianmishangguoyigeliyinanren，cihoutaderichangshenghuopimeibadianhuangjindang。

zuixian，tawuyuanwugubianchengdisanzhe，tadeshineikongjianlibeibierenshualeping，shuotaqiangtarenzhangfu，zaobaoying。

 xiaojshigecongmingderen，mashangcaidaohuoxushitaqiannanyou，dannanrenyizhengciyandifoudingshuo：“butaikeneng，jinguandajialilehun，dantakendingbingbushizheileiren。”

 xiaojnagefanmena，yinci，zhaoleyigediannaozhuanjiadepenyou，bangtagenzong。suihoubayidiezhijiezhengjufangjinnanrenyanqian，nanrendangtademianjiqiannanyoutongdianhua，qiannanyouzaidianhualigaohanwuxian：“zheishiwoshibujiulejie，jiushiwoyihaoguimihenqi，woyijinggaozhitabiezheiyangganle。”

 nanrenxiangxiaojquebao，zhihoujuebunengzaichuxianneiyangdeshile，shihaoguimigande，bingbushiqiannanyou。xiaojfanmendechadianerqunaoqiang，zheinanrenzhishangqingshangjiujingqianleshiduoshaofeiya?

 suihou，qiannanyouzhengerbajingdilaizhaoxiaojti“haoguimi”zhiqian，xiaojxintailengleng，nanrenhaiguaitaguoduxiaojiaziqi，bierenbudoulaizhiqianlemeiyou?genghekuanghaibingbushibierenzishengandeni。xiaojwenxiangxinshihaoguimigandema?wojiangyigeziyebuxiangxin，xianbuyongshuoyoumuyouzheihaoguimi，jishijianzhihaoguimigande，yaoqiannanyoumeizheiyisi，haoguimicaozheiyifenxin?shuoqihaoguimishanzuozhuzhangdilaiduifuzheinanren，tazhiqiandeduozhaorenhenya?

 yihou，qiannanyouweilegenghaoditianbuzishendeguocuo，qingyuli,jiqingyoujijidigaozhita，nanrenyoushenmexihao，shenmebihui，liru：tabukeyiheliangdeniuru，yihehaowuyiwenhuifuxie;tazuifangantianpin，naizhilianchuangshangneidianshiyegaozhita。

 xiaojmeirijiedaotaneiyangdeguanzhu，yiyuzhengdebuhao，shexiang，nilianrendeaihaoyanfan，queyaoyoulingyigenvrenkankanertandiduinishuo，tashizhongnaxiedejuede?

 xiaojbazheizhongduanxiaoxijiaojinanrenkan，qidainanrenlejieqiannanyoujiujingzaiganma，jieguozheinanrenkanguoxinxi，yizhensisuohouaitan：“xiangbudaotanishifouhaijidezheizhong。”

qingshangpeiyang,xiaojyikoulaoxuemeipenchu，meiduojiuhou，zongsuanwanquanbaofa。