情商培养:对恋人洗脑的方式

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erqie，zaishuodongtarendeqingkuangxia，tamenhuibujingyidixuanyonglexinaodefangshi。

bulunshiquntixingdexinao，huanshiyiduiyidexinao，wubikaolvhaoduogebiaozhun：

亲密关系

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qinmiguanxishuliquanwei。tabidingyaoshuo，zishenkendingqiadang，bingqieqigongxinlikendingbukeqinhai。

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