情商培养:慎防亲密关系中的洗脑

 qianwanbierenwei，meiyigerenchuangjianqinmiguanxiquanshiweilegenghaodishixianrenshengjiazhihehuanle。fanguolai，henduorenchuangjianqinmiguanxijinjinweilegenghaodicaozongbingcuicanlingyifang。neimeqingshangpeiyangyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanqingshangjiaoyudewenzhangba。

dajiachangchangzhuyuanlianaizhongderen：“xiwangnixingfu!”“zhunikaixin!”

 keshi，bingbushirenherenchuduixiangquanshiweilegenghaodishixianrenshengjiazhihehuanle，henduorenshijishanggengzaiyishizhongqiadang。tamenchuduixiang，haoxiangshiweilegenghaodihezheigerenchuangjianneiyangyizhongguanlian：nishizhongbuzhengque，keshiwoshizhongqiadang。

 tashiyizhongxinliniuqudexinlizhuangtaibixu。youzheileibixuderenyoumingxiandechongdong，yaozaiqinmiguanxizhonglunshuzishenshizhongshiduide。weilegenghaodizuodaozheiyidian，tamenhuiduiqinglvhuozhixiqinshuzhixingxinliniuqudecaozong。

 qingshangpeiyang,yiweijiaorosedeyueduzhebangwojixinshuo，laogongchangchangzhiwenta：“kuaishuo，shibushinihezheigenanren‘youyitui’?”

 yuanxian，zaihelaogongchuduixiangqian，rosetanguotanlianaibingheqianrenjinglixingxingwei。lejielaogongbinggangkaishichuduixianghou，yitianlaogongwentadelianaishi，tajiangle。tazhiwentayoumuyoudengguochuang，tayerenkejingli。jieguotashuodao，tashitadechulianqingren，tajinguanzaiyitadeyiwang，dannengchengshou，danshiguidingtazhihoushenmeshiqingdoutingtade。manhuaiyanegan，rosetongyile。

它是恶梦的刚开始。

 congneishiqi，tabuduanwenrose，haiheshenmenanshengxiangchuguo，weiheneimezuo，youmeiyoushenmebuweirenzhideshiermeiyoujiaodai……roseyoushihouganjuehaofan，huijuehuiying，zheishihoutabianhuidanaopiqi，shuo“nizheileibuqingzhengdenvxing，younaxiezizhiyijianshinaopiqi”。

 zheidazhonglerosederuanzhu，bingqietaxintaijiweiguoduan，roseyincijinkenengbiezhubuhetajiangzui，tawenshenmejiuhuiyingnaxie。yidanwenchuqutaheshenmenanshiyouxiangchu，tabianhuiwen：“zheinishibushidelianren?shibushinigenta‘youyitui’?”jiarurosehuiyingdeyanfan，tajiuyaoshuoroseyoushenmewenti，yidingshi“youyitui”de!

jianjiandi，youyuxianmafan，rosehequanbudenanxingpengyoudouyibuwanglai，yejinkenengbuheyixingpengyouxiangchu。

 rujin，tamenjielehun，eremengrengzaici。wulunfuqiliangchanshengyiqiezhengchao，laogongdoushihuiquchurosejinglilianaishizheijianshiqinglaiquruqizi，bingguidingtameiyouliyoutingcongta。jiarutabutingconghuojiangzui，tabianhuihuomaosanzhang，zhizhirosechengrencuowutacaikeyipingjingxialai。

meiyici，buguanchanshengnaxiemaodun，buguanyouyushishenmeyuanyinzhengchao，zuihoudejieguoquanshirosexianglaogongchengrencuowu。

keshi，tarujinganjueshifenyayigan。“wojingchangxiangqisi。”tazaixinshangshuo。

 zheileiguanlian，feichangrongyibeidajialejieweiduji，juedeshirosedelaogongguoduzaiyiqizidezhenjie，erduiqiziyuyixingpengyoudeguanlianguodubijiaomingan。

 danzheijinjinbiaoxiang，shishishang，qizidelianaishijinjinyigeqihao。yexu，zheiqueshishitajuedeshangxin，dangenggaodekenengshi，tashiyunyongzheiyidianlaiyizhiqizi，rangzishenshizhongzaizheigeguanlianzhongzhanyouzhuzhendi，rangzishenshizhongqiadang，erqizishizhongbuzhengque。

buran，jiarutaqueshizaiyiqizidezhenjie，tachedinenggouzaiyikaishilejieqizidelianaishishi，jiutingzhizheiyiguanlian。

 naizhi，qingshangjiaoyu,worenwei，tazailejieqizidelianaishishi，huijinbuzhuyouyizhongjidong：wozhongyuxunzhaolieshile，wozhongyunenggouhezheiyilieshichuangjianyigeguanlian。zaizheigeguanlianzhong，woshizhongdounenggouyizhilingyifang。