恋爱技巧:不褪色爱情的秘诀

 lianaijiqiaoyoushenmeni？“hetawanhunjiushiwoyibeizizuihouhuideshi。”neimebolatulianaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanbolatushideailiandewenzhangba。

zaishipintonghuali，cengjingdewohaoxiedechuzhongpengyousanzhezhexiufa，zuozhehunandewuzijiaoluolimozheleishuineiyangduiwoshuo。

 shuodaowozheimingpengyou，zaichuzhongdeqingkuangxiatakesuanzuogexiaoyuanneizhimingrenshi。lianaijiqiaoyoushenmeni？kanqilaimeimuqingxiubuyongshuo，tadejifuhaitebiebai，zaizaijiashangyitouwuliangfaguangdejiyaozhangtoufa，jiusuanshizainagenanhaihenvhaifenbuqingdechuzhongjieduan，yeshixuduorenyizhirentongdexiaohua。youyuzhangxiangtuxian、shenxingjiaohao，tahaibeiruxuanyuanxiaodejianshencaodui。dangtayizheshifentieshendefushi，lingzhegaixiaojianshencaoduideyiqunmeinvxiaoyuanneidechengshiguangchangshangzhandongdeqingkuangxia，huodelegaixiaoquanbuxueyuandeyanguang，nanhaizijingyang，nvhaiduji。

 tadeganqingyeyizhishibierenyanxiandebangyang，hechulianqingrencongchuzhongtanlianai，laidaogaoxiaojinguanwaididanyeyizhiqingganfeichanghao。lianggerendaxuebiyedeqingkuangxia，nanpengyoukaorulemeiguogaoxiaodeshuobolianduliuxuejiangxuejinkechengneirong，weilegenghaodixianghubufenlichulai，lianggerenguoduanwanhun，suihoutajiushenqingbanlileqinshupeiduqianzheng，hezhangfuyiqiquleyingguo。

 nishifouhaijidetakaolvqiandajiahaijuzaiyiqijitaguanche，neigeshihoudetadouzhiangyangwubi，hedajiabuduandishuozhemeiguoyouduomehao，zhangfuaibuaita。tadeaiqingjiuxiangshiyichangmeilidetonghuaxiaogushi，shiwomenzheizhongguanzhongjinyouyanxiandefener。yousheizhidaotalaidaoyingguohaibushangyinian，qingkuangjiuhaoxiangzuolechuizhiguoshancheyiyangzhoubian。

 “youyushipeiduqianzheng，meiyoubanfanianshuhuoshigongzuozhong，zhiyoumeirizaijialidaizhehunhunee。wosuoshudeshiyigexiaozhen，renkoushulianghaibushangwushiwan，renyanxishao，huangwudelebude，jiulianquyitangjinqideshangchangbixukaiyigeduozhongtoudeche。zhoubiandegebilinjuquanshilaowai，wodeyingyuyebutaihao，pingchanglianyigejianghuaderenyemeiyou。”meiyicizaiwangluoshangpengdaota，tabianhuixiangbawozhuyigendaocaoyiyangxiangwodaokushui。

 “gangkaishideqingkuangxia，zhangfuyijianshiqueshifeichanghao，maishuiguozhufanjiawuhuodougan，dantadekexueyanjiuyebijiaomang，jingchangzaidiaoyanshilidaidaoshenyecaihuijiale。womeiriyigerenliudaojiazhonggududelebude，danshitayidianyebulejiewo，yebuzhidaokuanweiwo。worenweitayagenyebugaoduzhongshiwo，hetachaolehaojihui，zuikaishitahaihuijixuhongwoyiliangju，zhihoutazhijieshuowozuo、tiaomaobing。jinqidabannian，youyulaozongdaitazuoguanjiandeshiyan，taguoduanjiuliusuxiaoyuanneili，youshihouhuijialeyeyagenbuhewoshuohua。”

 yikaishitingtamaiyuandeqingkuangxia，wodouhuihaoyanhaoyudianweianweita，keshishijianyizhang，yinweiwochibuxiaozheifanlaifanqudelaozhangheyoukuyounaole。

woxunwenta：“jirannijuedegudu，weishenmebuweizijizhaodianshierzuoni?”

“woshilaipeikaode，nengyoushenmeshizuoya?”tashuo。

“ninengxuexiyingyuya。”

 “yingwenneimenan，wobeiyingyudancizuichajingle，ruhedoubeibuchulaide。bingqiedajiazhihoukendingshiyaoguiguode，xuexiyingyuyoushenmezuoyong。”

“neizuogejianshenyundong，shiyixiayundongjianshen?”

“ayowei，congwomenjiadaojianshenhuisuojiachejiuxuyaosanshifenzhong，daoshangjiuleihuai。”

“fouzeyanjiushipu，xuexipengzhima。nibushijingchangmaiyuanmeiguocainanyixiayanma?”

“wotailanle，pingchangquanshitashaocaibangwochide，tameiyoudeqingkuangxiayinweiwobuyuanzishenshao，jiuchidianfangbianmianhaola。”

 kanjianshipinlizimingqinggao、xianzhuyouyuyouzhashipinheqianquejianshenyundongershenxingbiandayihaodewangripengyou，wodexinliwuweizachen。

 “hunyinshenghuojianzhiganqingdemuzang，aiqingzheidongxi，baocunqizhendeshiguoduanle。”zaitazaiyicixiangwosukuhezhangfudezhengzhideqingkuangxia，woqieduanletadechouqi。

 “bu，bingbushizheiyangde，ganqingyoutadeqiaomen。”wojiang。tataiqitou，yongfanzheleishuideshuangyanwangzhewo。keshiwojianduanleyihuier，jitajiangleneiyangdeyigegushi。

liuxueouzhoudeqingkuangxia，cengjingdewozaiyitangkuaguoliecheshangpengdaoyiduixiufabanbaidehelanlaofuqi。

 laoyezidaizheyidingshenzongsedeyashemao，daizheyifujinbianyanjing，kanqilaihenruyademoyang。yaowohenjingyadeshitashenpangdelaopopo，tadexiufajinguanzaoyibaile，danlianbuquekanbujianyidianzhouzhe，tadechuanzhedabanzhuangzhongdedang，yitiaohuiheisedezhangqunkanqilaibuzhangyangqueyougaoya，yijianmibaisedewaiyirangtadebiaomianduoleyifenwenrouheciai，tadebozishangweizhuyitiaomeiguihuahuashidezhensiweijin，ercongtadedeshenshang，yeshifangchuyizhongmeiguiyibandexiangqi。

 zheiduilaonianrenshouqianzheshou，weiyizaiyiqi，kanchuangwaijijimangmanghuaguo。wozuozhetamenzhengduimian，xiangshangxiyifupiaoliangeryouwennuandemeishuzuopinyiyangkanjiantamen。

 liecheshangdeshijianrongzaeryouwuqu，wobianhetamenkankanertanleqilai，zaijiaotanzhong.wolejie，zheiduilaofuqizaoyiwanhunwushiduonianle，tamennianqingdeshihouyizhilixiangzheyaozhouyoushijie，danshiyouyuyaogongzuozhonghefuyanghaizi，yizhimeiyoushijian。rujinlianggerendoutuijuerxianle，xiaohaiyezhangdayihou，tamenzongsuanyoushijianwanchengzishendelixiangle。

 “yihanrujinyanyehuale，tuiyejiangle，zhouyoushijieshibutaikenengle，yinci dajiashangyileyixia，zuizhongjiujueceaoyououzhou。”laoyezihewojiang。

woyanxiandiduiyourenshuo：“dajiaerlaodeqinggankezhenbang，zhenqidaiwolaoleyekeyineiyangxingfukuaile。”

laopopochongzhewowailuyigetianzizixiaorong，shuo：“xiaonvhai，zheijianshiqingshuojianyiyejianyi，shuonanyenanyi。”

woqiguaidixiangtaxitianqujing。

 tameiyoulijigenwoshuonaxie，jinjindixiatoucongtajingmeideshoulinbaoliquxiayizhangyixiefahuangdelaozhaopian，baifangzaiwoyanqian。wonaguoyikan，zhaopianshangmianyouyiduinianqingdelianren，tamendelianbupiaomanleqingchunnianshao，congtamendemeimujiankandechulai，zheishiwoyanxiadelaofuqinianqingshidaidemoyang。danruoshuoqitamenyunianqingdeshihouyounaxiezhuanbiandehua，nianqingjieduandelaopopobingmeiyouxianrujindetaneimeyoufengcai，fanguolai，takanqilaijinjinyigefengzihenpingnvxing。

 “zaiwomenjiehunledeqingkuangxia，jiuhuiyouhenduorenshuowopeibushangta。tashidaxuezhongsuozhouzhidejiechurenwu，youshuaiyouconghui。danliantadenvhaierkeyizhanmanbangexiaoyuannei，keshiwojinjinyigeqingjingrouruodexiaonvhai。keshibuqingchuweihe，tapianyaojiukanshanglewo。”laopoposhuozhe，kanlekanshenpangyizhiwenrouningshitadelaoyezi，liangrenxiangshiyixiao，xuduo ganqingbuxuyuyanjiuyifanying。

 “woyizhidouhenxiexielaotianyeyaowoyushangleta，”laopoporanhoushuo，“zaijiehunyihou，yemeiyourangzishenxianxialai。taxiaijianshenyundong，xiaitaiyang，keshiwoqueyizhirouruoduobing，weilegenghaodirangzishenyuelaiyuegengjianzhuangshenxinjiankang，woyegangkaishigensuitayiqijiaqiangduanlian;wodougangkaishixuexichuyi，conglaibujincantingchufangdewokaishixuexizenyanggaohaoyicanfan;woxuewudao、zhenzhipin、yingwen，suzaozishendegerenaihao。”

“tayizhihenqinfen，queshifeichanghao。”laoyezitianmanchengzandimianchazuoleyijuzui。

 “bolatushideailian,zailiangnian、shijinian、ershijinianzhihou，zheixieyiqianshuoguowopeibushangtaderenmendoujingdao。youyutamencongweijianguoyigenvrenzaigangshengwanhaoduogexiaohaiyihouhaikeyiweichiershicundetunwei;erzheiyinvxinghaikeyishougongzhizuobianzhichengzuifanghanbaonuandeweibohejiaoshoutao，huitiaowuliuzhongminzuwudao，nenghelaowailiulidishuoyingwen，hainenggouyigerenzhangluoyidunshiduoweigukedewanfan，yaolejie，fashifenggewanfandanshiyoukaiweicai、zhucan、tianpinhaojidaogongyiliuchengde……”laopopozhuiyizhezishendeyiwang，zaitarouhedexiyanzhong，wohaishikeyitingchuyisiyinyiweihao。

 “nvhai，shijishangyaoyouzheyifenyibeizibutuisedeganqingyoulianggeqiaomen。diyibianshipengdaoyifenzhenxin，tashilaotianyejide，meirennenggousheqiu。danshidierdianwomenkeyigenjuzishendeqinfenhuode，neibianshibuduanwanshanziwo，rangzishenshikeyouzhechongzudefengcai。neiyangcaikeyijiniweichiyazhi，suishisuidihuanqinidelingyibanduinideqinggan。”laopopoyijianshineiyangshuo。

 zhenzhengdeaiqingshijiezuifeichangrongyituisedehuaban，nvxingdeqingchunnianshaoyeyiyang。bansuizheshijiandeliushi，bulunshizuiyaoyandejiaren，huanshireqingruhuodeai，doushihuizhujianxiaosan，kongliuquehanheaitan。

 keshiyeshiyouyixienvxing，tamenxiangwopengdaodezheiweihelanlaopopoyiyang，jibaileshijian，youzheburongyituisederongmaoheganqing。zaibierenlaikan，zheihuoxushihaoyun，huoxushihaoming，danjinyoutamenzishenlejie，jinyouyibeizibusongxiedegaopinzhishenghuo，caikeyihuandeyishengdeyazhi。

 bolatulianai,keshidaliangdenvxingbingbulejiezheiyidian，tamenjinjinganjueshijiandaiquletamenderongmao，hunyinshenghuodaiquletamendeganqing。