想要智斗第三者怎么办

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一、想要智斗第三者怎么办

1、维持理智

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在获知出轨老公以后，最先应当维持理智，立即管理自己的心态，理智的选准自身的部位所属，认清出轨老公的形势，变积极为普攻，防止盲目跟风出招。 想要挽回出轨的老公?立即预约咨询快速 挽回婚姻

2、把握住自身做为原配的优点，变普攻为积极

 dezhilaogongchugui，xiangyaozhidoudisanzhezenmeban?hedisanzheduibi，yuanpeishifeichangzhanyouyoudianyingxianglide。tongchangzhuangkuangxia，yaoshiyuanpeinengzhangwojihui，busuibiansheqihuoshicaiyongbuzhengquedefangfa，jibaidisanzhebingbushifanxinshi。

 haipadejiushishuoyixieyuanpeichenbuzhuqi，yingduidisanzhejiuluanlezhenjiao，zuochumouxiepianjideshierlai，biru“qudisanzhehuoshizhangfudeqiyeyingchuang，naizhibaodade……”

 jinguanjianghuihuizhaolaimouxierendekanrenao，huodetarendelianminheshiyong，wojuedetaquesangshigengweiguanjiande1gerenyugengweiguanjiande1geyingxiangli，zheiyirenjiushishuotadezhangfu，zheiyiyingxianglijiushishuotazuoweilaopodehaoranhebaorong。zheibanyinao，yanzhiyoulijiubianweilebuli，ziweijiubianweilejingong，buliangyingxiangyincishirenweiyinsunanyicaozongde。

3、掌握第三者，适度的向第三者学习

 zhengshuobaile“zhibizhijifangkebaizhanbudai”，kandaidisanzhedoushizheiban，zhinengruguonichongzuzhangwotadeyoudianhequedian，nicailejiewucongxiashou。

 lingyige，disanzhenengjiangzishendezhangfunadao，chukaihunyinchuxianlenantiyiwai，zheiyidisanzhehaowuyiwendoushishiyoududaozhichude，neimazuoweiyuanpeiweihexiangdisanzhexuexipeixunni? xiang1gehuihuaizishenhunyindedisanzhequxuexipeixun，kanqilaishizheizhongcanren，qidanshiyaoburan，tashizheizhongziwofansidezhihuixing。

 renwuwanrenshunengwuguo?congguzhijinrenfeishengxian，yaoshishiduizishenyouxiaode，nengtishengzijide，wojuedexiangsuoyourenxuexipeixunyebuquru。fanguolaidi，xiangdisanzhexuexipeixunbixushizuihelideyanlidajitayuzhangfude“touqing”defangshi。

4、把丈夫往里拉而非往外推

 dezhilaogongchugui，xiangyaozhidoudisanzhezenmeban?wulunniduizhangfuyoushizaitaixinhan，keshizaizheiyijinyaoguantou，zuixianyaochulideshidisanzhedenanti，rangwaibixianannei，yaoxiangzhanshengdisanzhe，wubijinzhuazhangfu。

 zheishi，zhangfudaduoshuduinijijiazhongshineijiude，yunyongzheiyidianer，tangruozuoweiyuanpeidenikeyigengweiwenrou，yibaorongzhangfu，neimazhangfubixuhuizhandaonizheili。ruciyilai，yongyouzhangfudeshiyong，duifudisanzhejiugengweiruhutianyile，yibandisanzhezishenyehuiganjuefawei，jinertiaoxuanchoushenle。

 zaijiejuehaodisanzhedeshieryihou，zuoweinvren，bixuyaoxixinkaolvdaozheixiehunyinshibushizuigaizaici。yishengbujiu ，qianwanbieyouyugujijiazhonghuoshixiaohaiercuoguoyibeizidexingfukuaile。

 yiyangdi，yebubiyouyuyishirexuefenhaobujizhangfuchanhuidejiyu，renshunengwuguoni?yaoshitanengzhengqueduidaidaozishendebuzhengque，erqiequebaojianglaibuzaicifashenggaileibuzhengque，youzongranbukeyijitamen1gejiyuni?keshibuguanzenyanghunyinchuxiandisanzhedisanzhechazu，bixuyaoxiangjinbanfaxianjiangdisanzhejibai，zhenghuizuoweiyuanpeigaiyoudezizun。