第三者插足应该怎么处理?结婚后如何防第三者?

在这个感情经受不住考验的时代里，第三者是感情的威胁。遇到第三者插足应该怎么处理?结婚后如何防 第三者 ?

一、如何处理第三者插足

1、大吵大闹要不得

 faxianzijideairenyoule“disanzhe”，kaofapiqi、dachaodanaobingbushijiejuewentideshangce，yebuyidingnengzouxiao，fanerkenengdaozhinideta(ta)poguanziposhuai，shiqingyuefabukeshoushi。

 ruguonigenbenwufajieshouta(ta)duinidebeipan，juedingfendaoyangbiao，neiyouhebieyuzhidouqishangshen，gaizabanzabanhaole，ruguoxiangwanhuiniyutadezheiduanyinyuan，mingzhidezuofashizijixiankezhiyixiazijideqingxu，ranhoujingxiaxinlairenzhenfenxiyuanyin，bulushensedicongduogecemianlejiediaocha，zhaochunimenfuqishuangfangshifoucunzaiwenti，shizijidewentihaishiduifangdewenti。

 jiexialaijiuyaoyouzhenduixingdizuogongzuo，keyixianduinideta(ta)pangqiaoceji，shengdongjixi，shuomingdisanzhechazuduiyigejiatingdeweihai，tongta(ta)huiweiyibiannimenlaizhibuyidejieheguocheng，xiaozhiyiqing，dongzhiyili，rangta(ta)zijixingwudaoyudisanzhefazhanxiaqukenengshijiatingpolie，rangqizijizhudongziyuandiqujiejuediaozijirexiademafan。

2、yudisanzhezhengmianjiechu

 liyongniyijinglejiezhangwodexinxizhaodisanzhetanhua，tanhuadetaiduyaochengken，haishiyaojianchixiaozhiyiqing、dongzhiyili，xianyaorangdisanzhelejienimenfuqishuangfangdelianailicheng，rangta(ta)qingchunimenganqingdeshenhouchengdu。zaitanhuaguochengzhong，yeyingdangjingshidisanzhejierubierenjiatingdelihaiguanxishenzhiyingchengdandefalvhouguo。

3、xunqiudisanzheqinshufangbangzhu

 zaiyudisanzhezhengmianjiechuweinengchedijiejueshi，keyizhaoqiqinshuxunqiubangzhu(zhuyi，zheilideqinshuzhideshidisanzhedefumu，ruguotayishiyoufuzhifu，qiejibuyaoquzhaoqinanfangjiqijiashu，neiyangyoukenengqieduantadehuitoulu，shishiqingyuefananyiwanhui)。

 xianjiangshiqinggaozhiduifang，qiuquduifangqinshudezhichi，rangqizuotongdisanzhedesixiangjiaoyugongzuo，shidisanzheduizijibudaodedexingweirenshidegengjiashenke，yibanlaishuozuoweidisanzhedeqinshugengjiajihuizijidezinvfanzheizhongcuowu，gengnengrenshengdisanzheduishuangfangdoucunzaideweihaixing，tamenduidisanzhedejiaoyuliduhuigengda，xiaoguohuigenghao。

二、怎么防第三者

 1、nvrenzhangwocaizhengdaquan。nvrenbuguannishiyouzijidezhiyeyehao，haishiquanzhitaitaiyehao，niyaozhangwojialidecaizhengdaquan，zheilidecaizhengdaquanzhideshizhangfuhenideshouru，nibixuqingchuzhangfuzhuanduoshaoqian，chuqujialidemeigeyuedekaixiao，meigeyueshengduoshaoqian，bunengxilihutudeguorizi。yaomingbai，zhangwolecaizhengdaquan，nijiuwozhuleyizhangwangpai。

 2、shikebaochijingjue，yudaoshiqingyaoduoxiang。nvrendezhijuewangwangshihenzhunquede，birushuozuijinlaogongweishenmezongshizaochuwangui，zuijinweishenmezongshidingzheshoujikanbutingni，keyidianhuazengduole，zongshizaijialixinbuzaiyande，zhurucileideqingkuang，nvrenyidingyaojiaxiaoxinle，henkenengshinanrenyoudisanzhefachudexinhao。

 3、xuehuidanding。qianwanyaochenzhuqi，buguanniyouduomenaohuo，shouxianyaoziwofansiyixia，daodishizijishenmedifangchulewenti，daozhilaogongyoulewaiyu，haishidisanzhezhudonggouyindelaogong，manmandishoujilaogonghedisanzhezhijiandezhengju，dengdaoheshideshiji，wenlaogongwengeqingchu。

三、《第三者的爱情》

《disanzhedeaiqing》shilianzaiyuhongxiutianxiangwangdeyanqingxiaoshuo，zuozheshiliuruyan。

 shenghuozaizheigeyuwangchengshi,zaizheigerenrenkansidouhenguangxiandechengshi,youduoshaodixialianqingshengcunzaijianbudeguangdejiaoluo,neiliyinan、chaoshi,meigerendelinghunbuzhihequhecong,zuichuchunjiedexinyangjianjianbeiguangguailulideshenghuozaotademianmuquanfei。renmenzongyiweidisanzheshizuikechide,keshi,disanzheyeyouzijidejianchiyuzhizhe,yeyouzijiduiaiqingdeyifenzhongzhenhejianding,tazhidao,henduoshiqingzijiyinggaizuoquemeiyouzuo,youzuolehenduobuyinggaizuoquezuoledeshiqing,houhui,wanhui,keshi,tazhidao,fazizhenxinde“woaini”tazheiyibeizizhishuoyihui……