精神出轨的婚姻还值得继续维持吗，精神出轨算不算背叛婚姻

jingshenbeipanshichuguima？meiguoxinlixuejiazhichu，buliangbeipanwangwangbuxuyaorenheshentijiechu，yinweizheiyiweizhedangshirenquefajingshenhegudu。jingshenchuguidebeihou，baoluleduihunyinyuwangdebuman。jingshenchuguisuanbusuanbeipanhunyin？

yinggaishizaixunzhaoxindeguanxi，haishizaijiudeguanxizhongmibugaishan？

“worenshihaizidefuqinyijing17nianle，wodelianggeerzifenbie12suihe8sui。tamenduihunyinzongshizhongchengde，bishineixiezaihunyinzhongchuguideren。jishizaizheixienianli，taleduanduanxuxudelengbaoli。

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zaibierenyanli，womenshixingfudejiating。

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kongpawowufakongzhiziji，wogaizenmeban？”

jiarunizhendexihuanyigeren，youbuxiangpohuaihunyin，xuyaozuodaoyixiasidian：

内心独立

zhiyouduliderencaihuimingbai：zijidaodiyaoshenme，yinggaiweichishenme？

yigejingshenkongxuderen，daochuzhuazhejiumingdaocao，henrongyibarenhetingxialaitingtaderendoudangchengzhiji，congerbazijizhiyuweixiandejingdi，huozhewanquantuikainengbangzhutaderen。

tahenrongyibabierendangzuotaobiwentidebinansuo。buguo，meiyourenhuixihuanshouliuyigezhihuisuoqubuzhidaoruhejiyuderen。

yinci，yongyuanbuyaogaoguzijidikangyouhuodenengli。yaozhidao，congjingshendaoshentilunxiandedaolu，youshishiyizhangzhidejuli。

保持距离和边界

nixuyaoxuanzebuzaijianmian，rangzijiyuanliduifang，huidaozijideshenghuo，baochiyidingdejiexian，buyaozaiguanxidedingweishangzhizaohunluan。

nimendeguanxikenengbiputongpengyougengqinmi，danyidingyaobiqingrengengyuan，zheiyangdedingweikeyirangnibimianxuduobubiyaodejiuchan。

自我成长

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勇敢结束

zuihouyizhongkenengshinideganqingyijingqingxiangyuhunyinzhiwaideren，hunyinduinilaishuoyijingshiyigekongqiao，wufawanhui。

suoyiqingzaikaishixindexuanzezhiqianjieshujiudeguanxi！

yexunidehunyinyijingxianruweiji，waizaideyouhuozhishijieshutadejiekou。wulunruhe，yigechengshuderenhuiyilixingdefangshigaobiejiushiguang。

buhuiyinweimimangershiquduihunyindekeguanpingjia，yongjimaoshanghaiyiqiandeqinren。zheiyang，jiehunhou，nikeyigengjialengjinghekaifang。

yeyouhenduoren，zaijinglilewaimiandefengjing，jinglileneixindeqifuzhihou，caifaxianshenbianderenbingbushiyiwushichu，ershigengnengkandaobanlvdepinzhi。

jingshenchuguisuanbusuanbeipanhunyin？ruguonengkangqizheiyangfenglangdeguanxi，neimenimendeguanxijiuhuigengjialaobukepo。