如果男朋友不主动联系你怎么办，聪明女人会如此处理

 niyoumeiyouyudaoguonanpengyoubulianxinideqingkuang？nishizenmechulide？cengjingyouyibuhenlaodegangtaidianying，jiangleyigebeishangdegushi。ershisuishi，nvzhujiaodeayimilianshangleyiweiwaiguoyingxing。ruguonanpengyoubuzhudonglianxinizenmeban？

 youyicifeichangourandejihui，zheiweiwaiguoyingxinglaidaozhongguoxianggangyanchu，ernvzhujiaodeayiyeyinweijiarenjieshaodeguanxi，yuzheiweiwaiguoyingxingdanshenxiangshi。

 yingxingduinianqingpiaoliangdeayiyinxianghenhao，haiyuetachuquchifanyici，dangshitalikezhuiruaihe，bingxiangxinwaiguoyingxingsuibianshuodehua。

tashuo，rangtadengta，taxiacizailai，xiacizaihetayuehui。

 zaizheijuhuazhong，wogumayibeizidouzaidengta。tayibeizidoubaocunzhetamendeheying，meiyouzaikanbierenyiyan。danzheiweiwaiguodianyingmingxingcongweilaiguo，yemeiyourenhesirenxiaoxi。

 jibianruci，guguyiranjianchizhongshenbujiehun。pingshi，tazhinengzaidianyingpingmushangkandaozheiweidianyingmingxing，ayijiuhuijuedehenkaixin。

ayishigelangmanyoushaqidenvren，duiba？danshizaiwomendexianshishenghuozhong，youhenduonvrenbizheigeayigengben。

 xiaofeizuijintanlianaile，nanyouyikaishihenreqingzhudong，meishideshihouzonghuilaizhaoxiaofei，erxiaofeiyelezaiqizhong，xiangshouzheaiqingdetianmi。

 danguoleyiduanshijian，tadenanpengyouzhujianbiandelengmo，jingchangwufalianxi。zheishixiaofeidediyicilianai。tabuzhidaogaizenmeban，suoyitayongyizhongfeichangyuchundefangshilaichulita。

 tameitiantadouhuijinanpengyoufahenduoxinxi，daochujinanpengyoumailiwu，shenzhixuehuiweinanpengyouzuodangaohexiaoliwu，duociweitakuanggong。

 danzheixiexishengzaitananpengyouyanlisuanbuleshenme，duifangyemeiyoubeixiaofeigandong。tarengranzouzijidelu，bulixiaofei。zaitashengbingqijian，tashenzhimeiyouwenhou，shenzhijingchangshiqulianxi。

guoleyiduanshijian，nanyoutichufenshou，liyoushixiaofeitaichanren，bushiheziji。

xiaofeihenshangxin，bumingbaizijizuocuoleshenme。

houlai，yiweijiejiegaosuta，dangnanrenbuxiangzailianxitashi，zuihaodebanfajiushibuyaojiuchan，fangshoucaishizhengquedezuofa。

 shishishang，duiyuyigebuaizijiderenlaishuo，jishiwomenfuchugengduo，yeshitulaode，yinweiwomenwufadadongtamen，shenzhihuiyinqiduifangdeyanjuan。

 nanrentaoyanzongshichanzhezijidenvren。tamenyehuibishita。tamengenbenbuyuanyihetazhongguiyuhao。suoyidangyigenanrenbuzailianxinishi，nikeyiyongyixiasanzhongfangfalaitashigecongmingdenvren。

01：主动沟通，询问原因

 zaixiandaishenghuozhong，meigerendouhenmang。womenzuixihuandeyijuhuashi“shijianjiushishengming”keyikanchu，henduorendabufenshijiandouhenmang。

youshihou，ruguonanpengyoumeiyoulianxini，youkenengshitazaijiaban，huozheyudaoshenmeshiqing，yishiwufalianxini。

 dangnidenanpengyoushiqulianxishi，shouxian，niyinggaizhudonggoutongbingxunwenyuanyin。buyaoshengqi，husiluanxiang，yinweinijigexiaoshidoumeiyoulianxini。goutongshichuliganqingdeyizhongfeichangzhongyaodefangshi。ruguonanpengyoubuzhudonglianxinizenmeban？

jiaruduifangzhendehenmanghuozheyoushi，neimetayidinghuimashanglianxini，xiangnijieshi。

danshiruguoduifangyinweibianxinhuozhexiangfenshouerbulianxini，neimeniyeyinggaihetagoutongqingchu，buyaolangfeibicideshijian。

congmingdenvren，huixianzhudongyuduifanggoutong，erbuhuimashangxianruhuandehuanshideqingxu。

02：不要纠缠，及时止损

ruguoduifangzhendebuxianghenijixuxiaqu，neimenijiuyaoxuehuibuqujiuchanduifang，yaoxuehuijishizhisun。

 xuduonvrenzaizhuiruaiheshidouhenyuchun。tamenrenweiduifangduizijibumanyi，suoyitamenshitugaibian，zhidaoduifangmanyiweizhi。xuduonvxingshenzhiyinweizheigexiangfaerbeinanyouqudaipua，jingshenshangdeshanghaihenda。

 dangnanyoubuzailianxizheixienvrenshi，tamenhuibutingdifaxiaoxihedadianhua，shenzhidaogongsiheduifangjiamenkouquzulantamen，shituwanhuizheiduanganqing。

tamenhuigengjianulidiweiduifangzuogezhongshiqing，baibantaohaoduifang，qiturangduifanghuixinzhuanyi。

 danshitamenwangjile，ruguoyigerenbuzaiaini，zaizenmenuliyemeiyouyong。shenzhi，nishiqulezunyan，rangduifanggengjiakanbuqini。

 nanpengyoubuzailianxini，zheiyiweizhetabuxiangzaihenizaiyiqile。nibunengmanzutadexuyao。zheibushiyinweinibuhao，ershiyinweitashiqulexinxiangan。taxiangzhaoyigegengshihetaderen。

 zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，buyaoqusichanlanda，eryaohuishouxiaosagaobie。huijiananguoyihuier，ranhouzhongxinkaishi。yinwei，xiayige，huigenghao。

congmingdenvren，yongyuanbuhuiquwanliuneigejijianglikaidenanren，ershihuizhudongfangshou。

03：调整心态，专注于自己

 zhangxiaoxianshuo，aiqingbushishenghuodequanbu，aiqingyebushishenghuodequanbu。shilianshi，jidediaozhengxintai，buyaoxianruyuanfudeqingxu。

 beinanrenpaoqihou，henduonvrenhuichengweiluxunbixiadexianglinsao，daochubaoyuannanpengyoudequedianhezijidelianmin。danshishishang，qitarenbingbuzhenzhengguanxintamendebaoyuan，zhishibatamendangzuoliuyanfeiyu。

 yeyouhenduonvxingzaishilianhouchengweifeichangguwurenxindebangyang。tamenhuinulitigaoziji，dabanzijidewaibiao，fengfuzijideneizaizhishi，rangzijikanqilaixiangyigeshanshanfaguangderen。

zaizheizhongshihou，nihuifaxiannishenbianyouhenduogenghaodenanren，niyijingkanbuqineigepaoqinidenanrenle。

 suoyi，nikeyibashiliandangchengyizhongdongli，erbushiyizhongyuanhen，nikeyibatadangchengyizhongdongli，nikeyi“yaorangtahouhui”zuoweiyigemubiao，nulichaozhetaqianjin，rangzijibiandegenghao，nandaobushidexuanzema？

congmingdenvren，huinulirangzijibiandegenghao，huodegenghao。

 zhengquekandainimendeguanxi，buyaorangbuheshidenanrenganshenimendeshenghuoheqingxu，yebuyaozuochuhaowuyiyidejiugeheziwoxisheng。dangduifangbuxiangzailianxinishi，nihuizhudongfangqizheiduanguanxi，yongyuanbuhuishiqurenhedongxi。

 ruguonanpengyoubuzhudonglianxinizenmeban？buyaozuoyigeyuchundenvren，buruzuoyigecongmingmirendenvren，yixiyinneixiezhenzhengaini，buhuilikainideren。