发现男人婚外情，发现男朋友出轨聪明女人做法

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1.收集男人出轨的证据，为离婚做准备

 yourenshuonanrenchuguizhiyoulingcihewushuci。zhiyaonanrenchugui，tamenjiuyongyuanbuhuiyuanliang。dangnanrentupodaodejiexianshi，hunyindejiexianjiuhuitupo。nvrenduinanrenshiwang，hunyinwufaweichi。

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2.找出男人的婚外情对象是谁

 youxierenzhidaotamendenanrenzaichugui，dantamenbuzhidaochuguideduixiangshishei。womenchangshuoyouxiedianshijuhenxuexing。shishishang，shenghuobidianshijugengxuexing。youxieshiqingnibuxiangxin。

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 ruguotazhendechuguilenidemeimei，ernigenbenbuzhidao，bingqiexiangyiqianyiyangduinidemeimeihenhao，neimenijiuhuichengweitamenyanzhongdeshagua。ruguoyouyitiannituranzhidaolezhenxiang，bushimeigerendounengchengshouzheigedaji。

3.检查家庭资产，了解资产趋势

 buguanwomendezhangfushishenmeyangde，womendouyinggaizhidaowomenjiatingdezichan，youduoshaofangzi，qiche，yinxingkacunzhe，fangziheqicheshisheidemingzi，cunkuanshiduoshao，huazainalideqian。

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4.不要和第三者打架，私下了解第三者的背景

 womenjingchangkandianshijuheshehuiminshengxinwen。yuanlaidebisaihedisanzhedajia，shenzhiyouxieyuanlaidebisaidoubeidisanzhedabaile。zhangfuyaomezijipaodiao，buguanlianggenvrenzhijiandezhengzhi，yaomebangzhudisanzhedayuanlaidebisai。leisidexiaoxicengchubuqiong，rangrenjuedekehen。

 shishishang，hedisanzhedajiashizuiyuchundexingwei。dangwodezhiwozhangfuzaichuguishifeichangshengqishi，woguyilijiezheiyidian，danyijierguangbuhuifachushengyin。disanzhecuole，wozhangfuyebushiwugude。

 youshiwokenengwufahuanjiewodefennu，danwoyuelaiyueshengqi。liru，wozhangfubangzhudisanzhedaziji。dajiajiejuebulewenti，kenenghuishanghaiziji，zuizhongzhihuichengweibierendexiaohua。

 congmingdenvrenhuisixialejiedisanzhedebeijing，youmeiyoujiehunshengzi，jiazainali，jialiyoushei，zhuazhudisanzhederuodian，cainenghanweizijidehunyinhuoliyi。

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