当男人心里没有你时，如果男人对你感情变淡了怎么办

 jushuonanrenhenvrenzaiqingganshangguanzhubutongdeshiqing。nvxingqingxiangyuguanzhuguocheng，ernanxingsihuqingxiangyuguanzhujieguo；nvrengengzhuzhongganqing，ernanrengengzhuzhongganqing。ruguonanrenduiniganqingbiandanlezenmeban？

erqiedangyigenanrendasuanfangxianideshihou，tatongchanghuiduinishuozheisangezi。

nvrenxuyaotigaojingti，duiyuzheiyangdenanren，womenbuxuyaojixu。

一、你真的很烦人

tongshixiaoyanghezhangfujiehunyinian，haimeiyouhaizi，liangrendouyouzijideshiye，pingshigongzuoyebijiaomang。

youyici，jiabandaohenwandexiaoyang，zouchugongsidamen，faxianwaimianxiazhedayu，tameiyoudaisan。

 tashituzuochuzuche，danzheibiaomingyou100duorenzaipaidui，tadeduziyizhizaijiao。weilejieshengshijian，tawancanzhichileyikuaimianbao，xianzaiele。

tajuedezijidengbujile，yibaiduoren，gujilundaotadeshihou，kongpayijingeyunle？

yushi，tajiaozhangfukaicheguolaijieziji，dianhuaxianglehenjiucaijie。

 dangzhangfudezhiyaozaidayuzhiyekaichequjieqizishi，tadeyuqikaishixiandebunaifan：“dayutian，wozenmekaiche？lushangyidingshiduche。ninkeyixiangtongshijieyibasan，chenggonggongqichehuoditiehuilai。”

ta：“gongsilimeiyouren，woshizuihouyigelikaide。”

ta：“ranhouhuigongsikankanqitatongshidegongzuozhanyoumeiyouyusan。zheimedadegongsi，liansandouzhaobudao？”

ta：“gongsidousuomenle，zenmehuiqu？nibunengqujiewoma？”

ta：“zheimedadeyu，wokaichechuquhenweixian。”

ta：“suoyiwozaiyuzhonghuiqubuweixianma？”

ta：“nizhenfanren。”tarengxiazheiyangyijuhua，congconggualedianhua。

yitiancenglebantian，zhanzaiyangtaishangkanzhewaimiandoulidaxiaodeyudi，tayoukaishituisuole。

zuihou，tahaishimeiyouqujieta。

 tabuzhiyicididuitashuozheijuhua。meidangtayoushiqingyaoxiangtaxunqiubangzhu，huozhetashuolexieshenme，tabumingbaitaxiangrangtajieshishenme，tajiuhuishuo。

qichu，tabingbutaizaiyi。raner，suizheshijiandetuiyi，tacaifaxian，yuanlaitaduitadeaizaoyibianzhi。

taduitazaoyishiqulezuichudereqinghejiqing，yemeiyouzuichudetitiehenaixin。

tachangchangbazheijuhuaguazaizuibian，rangtaxinlitinglehenbushiziwei。ruguonanrenduiniganqingbiandanlezenmeban？

yehenshangfuqizhijiandehexie，gengtixianletaduitadebunaifan，tixianletaduitadeganqing。

二、你真的很无聊

haokandepinangqianpianyilv，youqudelinghunbailitiaoyi。

meigerendouxihuanzhaoyigepinanghao、linghunyouqudebanlv，huozhechengweibierenkouzhongyouquderen，jibierendailaihuanxiao。

zaimeiyiduanganqingdezaoqi，nanrendouhuiduinvrenshuogezhongtianyanmiyu，huishuohenduohaotingdehua。

biruhuikuatazhangdehaokan，nidexiaorongzhendehencanlan，nideshencaiguanlidehenhao，nizhendeshiyigeyoumoderendengdeng。

danshisuizheshijiandetuiyi，zailianggerenxiangchudeguochengzhong，youxienanrenhuichanshengyixiebutongdepingjia，biruzuichudezanmei。

 liru，dangyigenvrenxiangrangtapeizijiqukandianyingshi，taqingmiedihuida：“nizhenwuliao。dianyingyoushenmehaokande，zaijiakandianshibuxiangma？”tinglezhihou，nizhinengzhendezitaowuqu。

yigeduiniruchujiandenanren，tabuhuijujueniderenheyaoqiu，gengbuhuishuoyixienantingdehua，rangnixinshizhongzhong。

haiyouyigeduinishuo“nizhenwuqu”zheiyangyijuhuadenanren，daduoshuomingtaduinideganqingyijingdanle。

tabuzaiyuanyipeinizuonixiangzuodeshi，ershibiandelanduo，zhixiangdaizaijiali。“tangping”。

 huixiangdangchu，takenengyecengfashiyaopeinizuorenhenixiangzuodeshi，chirenhemeiweideshiwu，kanrenhemeilidefengjing。xianzaiyijingbucunzaile。

三、你真的很坏

meigerendouxiangchengweibierenyanzhongneigehenyouquanshideren，doukewangchengweiyigeyouxiuderen。

danshi，wangwangyoushihoushiyuyuanwei。danzaizheigeshihou，nidelingyibanzongshixueshangjiashuang，wanquanfou，shuo:“nizhenchajing。”

yigezhenzhengainidenanren，tabuhuishuozheimenantingdehua。

yinwei，zaitayanli，tadelingyibanyongyuanshizuihaode。

jishiouerzuodebuhao，tayehuijiyuguliheanwei。

ruguoyigenanrennengtuokouerchuzheiyangyijuhua，shuomingnizaitaxinmuzhongdediweiyijingbuxiangyiqianneimezhongyaole。

 erqieruguobanifangzaixinlidezhongyaoweizhidenanren，zaishuomeiyijuhuazhiqian，douhuizixikaolv，huiyouxiankaolvnideganshouhexiangfa。

wulunruhe，tadouhuikongzhizijideqingxuheyanyu，jinliangbushuoyixienantingdehua。

 ershuozheiyangyijuhua，bujinwanquanfoudingleduifangdenulihefuchu，yeyingxiangleduifangdexintai，shitaxianruleziwofoudingheziwohuaiyidejingdi。

suoyi，dangyigenanrenduinishuozheisanjuhuadeshihou，niyinggaizhuyi，zheidaduoshuomingtaduinideganqingyijingdanle；

不管上面哪句话，我们听了之后都觉得心里很不好。

yucitongshi，shuochuzheiyangyijuhua，bujinyingxiangduifangdexinqing，yeyingxiangduifangdeganqing。

 ruguonanrenduiniganqingbiandanlezenmeban？renshengruozhiruchujian，heshiqiufengbeihuashan。jiarumeiyiduanganqingdounengxiangchujianyiyang，neigaiyouduohao？