丈夫出轨有孩子不想离婚，老公婚内出轨还有小孩怎么办

 “jiehunshengzi，laogongchugui，buxianglihun，buzhidaozenmeguo”。xiangzheiyangdewenti，wojingchangting，buzhixinghuobuxing，zongshibunengxiguan，meicijianmianhaishijuedexianshihenwuli。laogonghunneichuguihaiyouxiaohaizenmeban？

 wonenggantongshenshoudaoqizhongdejiujiehejuewang，suiranzhiyouyidiandian，yijinggounanshoudele，bushishijianxuanwozhongxindedangshirenwufaqinshenganshoudaoqizhongdetongku。

danzhengshizaizheiyangyixiliewentixiongyongerlaideshihou，beibeipanderenwangwanghuixiangdaoshouhujiating，baohuhaohaizi。

haiailaogongma？woxiangshide。

youhenzhangfuma？yidingyouba。

xiangguolihunma？haizihaixiao。

hainengjixuma？buzhidao。

 ruguonidezhangfuxiangzaichuguihouzhengjiutadejiating，neijiuxiangshiyongbierendeguocuolaichengfaziji。nibuzhidaonayibushicuode，nishiruhedadaomuqiandeqingkuangde。taidanxinlihunle。wodanxinwodefumuhuidanxinwodehaizi。gengzhongyaodeshi，ruguowozhangfuyuanyihuidaotadejiating？wonengjiazhuangshenmedoumeifashengma？wonenghuidaolangzishenbianma？

不知道。

lianzijixiangyaoshenmedoubuqingchu，weiyiqingchudejiushibuxianglihun。

zhangfuyuanyihuilaima？ninengfangxiaguoquma？

不知道。

 zhenduishangshuwenti，jintianxiangtantangerendekanfa，bushiyigejianyi，jiushichongmansihuodeposuiyuedu，ruguonengtigongyigexindeshijiao，neijiugenghaole。

shouxian，wobuquanliyebuquanhe。

 buyaoquanbierenshanliang，buyaojinglibierendetongku。quanfenhenrongyi，danzhiyouqinshenjinglicainengzhidaoqizhongjiujiedefenliang，birurenheshuilengnuan。

 zuoweidisanzhe，jishichuyuhaoyijichujianyi，bijingshiqingde，butongbuyang。jiranshidangshirenchengdanlejieguo，qitarenyebangbushangmangzuojueding。

ranhoubufangsikaoyigewenti：

“duiwolaishuo，zuizhongyaodeshishenme？”

 shiqingyijingfashengle，womenbunenggaixieguoqudeshiqing，danshixianzaidejuedinghuiyingxiangdaoweilai。sikaozuizhongyaodeshiqinghuibangzhunizuochujueding。

“zuizhongyaodeshibaochizheigejiating”zheishixuanzebulihun。

bulihunshidixian，shenzhiyuxingfuwuguan。

 qingzhuyi，yidannidezhangfukandaonidedixianshiyongyuanbuyaolihun，neimenixiwangtahuidaojialijibenshangzhinengdengdaitadeliangxinfaxian，zheijihushibukenengde。

yinweiniyijingdengtongyumorentakeyizuorenhepohuaiguanxideshiqing，zhiyaobulihun，nidouyaojieshou。

“zuizhongyaodeshihaizidejiankangchengzhang”-zheishiyihaiziweijueduiyouxian，morenbulihun，danbaoliulihundexuanze。

zaizheiyixuanzezhong，gerenxingfushikeyiyikaode，weihuhaizixiaoshijiedehepingshizuizhongyaode。

jinguannibushigehaozhangfu，danwoyaoqiunizuogehaofuqin。nikeyigufuwo，bunengweihaizigandaonanguo。

 zheilihulvelezaidanqinjiatingzhangdadehaizivsjiamianfuqijiatingchengzhangdehaizisheigengxingfudewenti，zhishiconghaizidejiaoduzuochuxuanze，yeshichangjiandekaolvbiaozhun。laogonghunneichuguihaiyouxiaohaizenmeban？

“zuizhongyaodeshiwodegerenxingfu”-zheishiyiziwoweizhongxindekaolv，lihunbuzhongyao，wodexingfushizuizhongyaode。

zheilixuyaozhuyideshi，「ziwoweizhongxin」feibianyi，shenzhigerenrenweipianxiangyujijiyiyi。

 womendaduoshurendoushizaishenshourujiasixiangyingxiangdehuanjingzhongzhangdade。womenyinggaijinzijidezeren，banyanhaozijidejiaose。jishiwomendezhangfuchugui，womenyeyinggaizuohaoqizidezeren，zuoyigehaomuqin，jishiwomenbudanxinwomendelaofumu，womenyebunenglihun……

woxiangxinyouhenduorenzheimexiang。

zuihou，yinweiwufamianduineixindehuaiyihechongtu，ziwofenlihoudebengkuiyebuhuishao。

 chuliganqing，zisiconglaidoubushihuaishi，shenzhikeyishuo，womendaduoshurendoubuzhenxiziji，xuehuizisi，zheishiyigezhidejingtidewenti。

chucizhiwai，nihuifaxianqitazhidezhuyideshiqing，liru：

“weilemianzi，bunenglihun”zuizhongyaodeshimianzi。

“bunengweilecaichanerlihun”qianzuida。

“bulihunbulihun”zhishibuxiangbiancheng“liyi”shenfen，buxiangerhunyebuxiangzuodanqinmama。

 zheixiebiaozhunmeiyouhaohuaizhifen。meigerendouzhongshibutongdeshiqing。guanjianshiniyinggaizhidaonizuikanzhongshenme。ruguonixuanzeta，qitaciyaodedongxikeyifangjinqu，zheishiyizhongxisheng。

牺牲痛苦？

tengtong，taiteng，meiyourenxihuanxisheng，doushibeipode。

womenrengranrenshoutongkuzuochuxuanzedeyuanyinshigengdadetongkulaiziyu

——woxiangyaoyiqie，danwowunengweili。

 woxiangyaoyigexingfudehunyin，yigexingfudejiating，yigejiankangdehaizijiatinghuanjing。woxianzaixiangrangzheigelaogongaiwo，xiwangyiqiandeshiqingdoumeiyoufasheng，zaiwodejiyilimoqu……

可能吗？

bukeneng，suoyiyaoxuanze，kanqingchuduizijizuizhongyaodeshishenme。

suiranwobunengbangnijuedingliuxiashenme，danwozaizheili“buyaozuoshenme”zaizheijianshishang，yexunengjiniyixiejianyi。

不要用别人的错误来惩罚自己

faxianbanlvchuguihou，renmendexinqingwangwangshijiqimaodunde。xiangyaohuifu，quekanbuqizijixiangyaohuifu。

 jishinixiangyixiang，niyenengganjuedaojiuchan，shenzhifenlie。meitian，nidouxiangxingshizourouyiyangshenghuozaitongkuhekunhuozhong。nijingchanghuaiyiruhejixu，nishifounengjixu，weishenmenihuizaoshouzheiyangdebeipan。

yinci，youxierenhuifansizijishifouzuocuoleshenme，zaizhangfuchuguideshiqingshangyaochengdanshenmezeren。

 woxiangshuodeshi，hunyinchuguiwulunruhedouxibudiao。takeyitichubuman，shenzhilihunhouzaizhao，danwulunruhe，hunyinchuguidoushitadecuo。

buyaoyongbierendecuowulaichengfaziji，jishinizaihunyinzhongzuodebugou，yeyongyuanbuhuigouchengduifangchuguideliyou。

不要问爱不爱

congtachuguideneiyikeqi，aibuaidouwusuowei，jishinicongtakouzhongtingdaonixiangtingdehua，yebunengzaixiangxin。

 “aibuai”suiranzheigewentikansiqueding，danshijishanggengqingxiangyuzhize，yinweixiayigebukebimiandewentishi，jiranniaiwo，weishenmeyaozheiyangshanghaiwo？

yidanshenwaduifangchuguidexijie，biranhuijizijidailaigengduo、gengjutidetongku。

 jiranchuguiyijingfashengle，jiubuhuiyinweiduifangdechengnuoerqingyijiejue。baohucuiruodezizunbicongduifangneiliqiaochuyigebuzhidaozhenjiadedaanyaohao。

buguantaaibuai，zuoweibeipiandeyifang，douyaoyouxianaiziji，chulihaozijideqingxu，bimianzaicishoudaoshanghai。

不要抱侥幸心理

 renmenzaifaxianduixiangchuguihou，chuyuhaoqihefennu，huibamaotouzhixiangdisanfang。zheibunengshuoshicuode，danshihenrongyihulvezhangfudejiaose。

 qianwanbuyaobaozhejiaoxingdexiangfarenweiganzoudisanzhekeyiwanshidaji，fouzenihuifaxian，meiyouzheisange，houmianhaiyousiwuliuqi。

 zaichuliwentishi，womenyinggaishizhongjizhubawozhuyaomaodun。yunidezhangfugoutongchuguiwenti，xunwentaduihunyindebuman，shedingchengfa，bingtichunixiwangtajiexialaizuoshenme。zuizhongmubiaoshidachenggongshi，zhongjianguanxi，fangzhileisicuowuzaicifasheng。

bijingbaxingfujianlizaiduifangdeliangxinfaxianshangshibukekaode，suoyiyaozhidingguize，ruhezuodaoshiduifangdezhuti。

beipianshiexinde，exinzaishiqingfashenghou，yijingmeiyoubanfaquanshenertui，fangfozenmexuandoushicuode。

jiuxiangqiandiaojinlefenkeng。jianqita，exin；bujian，youshebude。

yuanliangshifeichangkunnande，jishinizhudongxuanzeyuanliang，zuobuzuohaishiweizhi，erqienibunengbaozhengzijinengzaicixinren。

 zheijiushiweishenmejianyishouxiankaolvnizuikanzhongdedongxi，yinweinishifoukeyiyuanliang，shifoujixubingbuzhongyao。zhongyaodeshiniyinggaixuehuifangkaiziji，buyaoqipianzijihetaren。

chulihaochuangshang，zhongshizixin，bijingjishihunyinjieshu，shenghuohaihuijixu。

 laogonghunneichuguihaiyouxiaohaizenmeban？bushiqiangpozijijixu，ershiyouxinxindulishenghuo，buguanlihunyufou。yuanbeibeipanderennengjinkuaizouchuyinmai，huifuyongqi。