男人最怕的三种婚外情人，忘掉婚外情男人最好方法

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第一种，伤自己的威型

这种女人通常很固执。如果她认识到一件事，她不会轻易放弃。因此，她不会觉得自己参与了别人的婚姻，这在道德上是不合适的。相反，她觉得自己的幸福应该被抓住，这与别人无关。

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第二种，挑战原型

这种女人比上一个女人高。她对自己太自信了。她认为男人溺爱自己，愿意为自己花点钱，或者抱怨婚姻中的一些不满，所以她忙着考虑自己的地位。

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第三种，闹事或闹家庭

所有五星中最可怕的婚外恋情人都出现了。这真的不是最令人不安的，只是更令人不安。这种女人，对于婚外情，不仅固执，只是一种走向黑暗的方式。她想，如果你不爱我，不想嫁给我，你为什么要再惹我？

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