男人出轨了就一定要离婚吗，出轨了其实就是不爱了吗

 hunwaiqingyichengweihunyindehexinshashouzhiyi。congdashujulaikan，nanxinghunhouchuguilvmingxiangaoyunvxing，jibenshangshinvxingchuguilvdeliangbei。daduoshunvhaijiehunshidouyoulangmandeaiqinglixiang，danhunhouquezaodaobeipan。chuguileqishijiushibuailema？

 zheishiduometongkua。xuduonvrenbuzhidaonanrenhunhouyouhunwaiqing。zheishifouyiweizhetabuaini？buxingdeshi，zheiyiweizheduifangbuaini。zhishaotabujinaini。dangyigenanrenaiyigenvrenshi，tahuizidongzhuanzhuyuzheigenvren。

1.婚姻和爱情是两种不同的情感背景

aiqinghehunyin，wanquanshiliangzhongbutongdeqinggan，aiqingshiyizhongjiqing，shiyizhongjisufenmi，tachixudeshijianhenduan。

 danshihunyinshibutongde，hunyindeqingganjichushiyizhong“liandaiqinqing”，lianggeyuanbenwuguandenannv，yinweigongtongdexueyuan，keyisuanzuoqinren。

 aiqingyuhunyindeguanxi，shiyizhongdaoxiangguanxi。nannvzhijianmeiyouguanxi，yinweiaiqingzoudaoleyiqi，zheishi，aiqingjiuhuizhibuyuci。

zailiangxingguanxizhong，aiqingzhiqidaoyoudaozuoyong，dangtayoudaolianggerenzaiyiqishi，tajiusile。danshidulasishuodehenhao:

“aiqingbushiyicaiyican，bushipifuzhiqin，shiyizhongbulaobusideyuwang，shipingfanshenghuozhongdeyingxiongmengxiang。”

nanrenhenvrenjiehunhou，ganqinghuibiandepingdan，yinweiqinqingdeaiqingshipingdande。danshineixindeaiqingquebuhuibeifuping。

2.亲情的爱，无法抚平爱情

 dangyigenanrenheyigenvrenjiehunshi，lianggerenzhijiandeaiqingjiuhuixiaoshi，querdaizhideshiqinqing，lianggerenzhijiandeganqingjiuhuipingdanxialai。

 raner，duiaiqingdekewangbuhuixiaoshi。tayizhizaixunzhaoxindedongxi。kexideshi，yihunnannvqishidouhuibeilingyigeyixinggandong。

 qinqingheaiqingshiliangzhongkeyitongshicunzaiyuyigerenshenshangdeqinggan，zheishinannvhunhouchuguiderenxingjichu。chuguileqishijiushibuailema？

yinci，zheijiushiweishenmehunhouhuiyouneimeduorenchugui，nvxingyinweidabufenhuiguijiating，suoyichuguilvburunanxinggao。

 hunqian，wulunnidebanlvduiniyouduoyouxiyinli，hunhouchuguidekenengxinghenda，yinweizonghuiyourenbinigengxiyinta，gengbuyongshuoniduitadexiyinlile，zheihuisuizhehunyindedaolaierdadajiangdi。

3.男人会出轨，至少证明他不仅爱你

dangyigenanrenxuanzechuguishi，jibenshangkeyiduandingtayijingbuzaiainile，huozheshuoxinliaidebuzhishiniyigeren。

 zaitadeshijieli，nibanyanzheqinqingdejiaose，huozhezaiqinqingzhongdaizheyidiandiandeai，tahuixuanzechugui，zhengmingtadeaiqingshilingyigechengnuo。

renxingzhongdeqingganshirucifuza。

 raner，zaiyigenanrenchuguihou，henshaoyourenhuihetadeqizilihun，yinweitazhidaorenxingdezhenxiang，tazhidaoyidantaquleyijianshi，tajiuhuihelingyigerenchugui。

zaineixinshenchu，tamenzuixiangyaodeshiqiziheqingrengongcun，yongbuxiangjian，zheiyangtacainengmanzuzijiduiguishuganhejiqingdexuqiu。

suoyi，jiranliangxingzhijianzheimerongyiyoudisanzhe，shibushizhudingmeiyouyibeiziyiduirendeaiqing？

qishishiyoude。diyizhongqingkuangshi，liangzhezhijianyouyizhonghanjiandelinghunbanlv，zheizhongaikeyifupingyuwang。

 lingyizhongshizhaodaoyigegaojiyouquderen。zheiyangderenzaiaiqingzhongzhaobudaocunzaideyiyi。suirantahunhoudeganqinghenpingdan，dantabuhuichugui，yinweitadejiqingbuzaiyunvrenhenanrenzhijiandeaiqing，erzaiyugenggaodejingshenzhuiqiu。

 congbenzhishangjiang，nannvzhijiandeaiqingshiyizhongjibukekaodeganqing，zheibunengchengweihunyindeganqingjichu，suoyiyebunengchengweihunyindeliyou。

chuguileqishijiushibuailema？zheijiushiweishenmedaduoshuyinweiaiqingerjiehundelianggerenhoulairengranchugui。