duifuchuguinanrenzuidufangfa,zaishenghuozhong,yidanyigenanrenyouhunwaiqing,yigenvrenhuichongmanfennu,fennu,danzaiqingxupingjinghewendinghou,mianduiruhehuidaotadezhangfu,youhenduonvrencaiquhenduobumingzhidefangshihuobuhaodefangshilaiduidainanren。
liru,yixienvrenrenweinanrenweizijigandaonanguo,suoyirongyifangshou,taibianyi,duizijizaochengrucidadeshanghai,meiyoushenme,gandaoxinlibupinghenghezhixi,suoyizongshishitubaofuzheigechounanren。
ruhezhetengheqinglizheige“meiliangxin”dier,rangnanrenyougengzhangdejiyi,yihoubunengzaifanzheigecuowu;disan,weileposhinanrenzhenchengdihuigui,guoshangmeihaodeshenghuo,zheishiyigerenzaishoudaoyanzhongshanghaihoudezhengchangxinlifanying。zheiyangzuoyeshirendebenxing。
zheishikeyilijiehekeyilijiede,danzheijiangshixuduonanrenwufarenshou。zuihou,tamenzouzijidelu,rengranhewozaiyiqi。youxierenyouduikanghepannixinli,tebieshiyuqizizuodui,jializhengtianchaojia。
youxierenshenzhijixuhunao,youxieqizijianchizhangfudechuguixingwei。tamenrenweiyounanren“babing”zaishouzhong,takeyizuoweizhifunanrendefabaoheliqi,buduandinachudongxi,rangnanrenditou,zairenheshiqingshangdouxiangzijituoxie。jieguo,nanrenmengandaofannaohetongku,bingquchuguixunqiujietuo。
ciwai,xuduonvxingdezuofaqiaqiaxiangfan“huairou”zhengce,yongyingxianghedadongnanrendefangfa,renweinanrenchuguideyuanyin,shizijiduinanrenbugouhao,duinanrenbuhao。
suoyiwoxiangshandainanren,xiwangwennuanhegandongnanren,ranhouzhenchengdihuilai。nandaonibuzhidaozheiyangzuohuirangyixienanrenganjuelianghao,ziyiweishi,wujietamenqizidezhenshiyitu,renweitamenfanlezheimedadecuowu。
shijishangshoudaoleyoudai,suoyitamengandaoziman,wangjileziji,zhidaozijidecuowu,bugaibiancuowudengdeng,zheixiezuofabujinmeiyoudadaoyuqidemudadaoyuqidemubiao,yemeiyoudadaoyuqidejieguo,erqieyouxiejieguoshideqifan。shishishang,nvxingyongzheiliangzhongfangshiduidaichuguinanrenshifeichangyouxiaode。
第一种“无所谓”
yejiushishuo,taduinanrenchuguihoudetaidubiaoxianchuyizhongbuzaihudefangshi,bubatadanghuishi。buyaoguyiherenleizuoyixiebugaizuodeshi。taduinanrenjibuqianxuyebuaoman。tayouhenhaodeguimohepanduanli。zheiduinanrenyougenghaodexiaoguo。
duifuchuguinanrenzuidufangfa,zheishiyinweinanrenchuguihou,tamenhuicaicehexiangxiangshijianfashenghoudegezhongkenengxing,fenxiqiziduidaizijidefangshihefangfa,tayehuisikaogezhongyingduicuoshi,ranhoushiyingbingmianduifashengdeshiqing。
raner,ruguoyigenvrenzaitahuilaihoubiaoxianchumobuguanxindetaidu,tahuirangyigenanrendediergeheshanggandaokunhuo。liru,tabuzhidaoqizidezhenshixiangfaheneixinhuodong,yebuzhidaoqizidezhenshiyuanwang。tabuzhidaoduifanghululimaileshenmeyao,yebuzhidaoqizishifouzhendeyuanlianghejieshouleziji,rangnanrenbuzhisuocuo,buzhisuocuo。ciwai,tazuoleyixiebuhaodeshiqing,youyizhongzhaiwu、neijiugan,shenzhiyouyizhongneijiugan。tahuijinliquyuehequyuetadeqizi。
nikeyitongguozijidebiaoyanlailejieniqizideyitu,lejiezhenxiang,bingshizhongxiaoxinjinshen。zheiyang,nijiuhuibaochizijideanquan,biandechengshi,buganqingjuwangdong,dadanxingshi。ciwai,zhengshinidetaidubuyuan、buleng、bure、bure。
zheiduinanrenlaishuoshihennanshiyinghejieshoude,yeshibukejieshoude,yinweichuguidenanrendouyouyixiangqingyuandexiangfa,yejiushishuo,dangtamenchuguishi,tamenkeyikaolvneibuhewaibu。yidanbeizhuazhu,tamenkeyihuitouhuidaoqizishenbian。
shiyongyixieshouduanhecelve,jishishihongpianhechuguiyekeyijiejuenideqizi。nideqiziyehuikaolvfuqiguanxi,buzaiguanxinziji。zheiyang,nijiunengganshoudaoniqizidewenrou,dedaoguanxinheai。yiqiedouyiyang。raner,huilaihou,nideqiziduizijimobuguanxin,meiyouwennuan。
tadezuofayuguoqubutong,shenzhiyuguoqubutong,zheishidenanrennanyizhuomo,wufalijie,wobuzhidaoruhexiangyiqianneiyangduidaiziji,suoyiwobuzhisuocuo。wobixujinwozuidadenulizuowoziji,yibuyibudikan,dengdaiwoqiziderenke。
第二种“找自我”
juguji,daduoshuchuguidenanrendouchengtamendeyuanpei“huanglianpo”,yehuizaiqingrenmianqianshuohenduoqizidehuaihua,zheilishuo“huanglianpo”zheijuebushiyigeteshudehanyihegainian。
zheibujinjinshiwomentongchanglijiedenvxingbuzhuyibaoyang、buxihuandaban、choulouhelatadegainian,ershishuangfangzaiyiqihenzhangyiduanshijianhouchuxianganqingwentidelenvxing,buxihuanqizi。shishishang,womenbingbufourenyouxienanrenmeiyoujiatingzerengan。
youxierenmeiyouzhuanyideganqing,quefadaodeguan,youxierenshenzhiweilexindecijihezijideyuwangerhushuobadao。raner,bupaichuyixienanrenchugui,yinweitamendeqizizaihunhoubuzhuzhonggerenxingxiangdesuzao。
yexueruoletigaogerensuzhideyuwang,hushileziwosuzhihenenglidetigaohepeiyang,keyishuotamenyijingzouxiangleziji。suizheshijiandetuiyi,tamenxingdeyaoqiuheqiwangxiangqushenyuan,yuzhangfudechajuyuelaiyueda,zaizhangfumianqianzhujianshiqumeilihexiyinli。
yinci,rangnanrenmanmanshiquxingquhereqing,chuquxunzhaoai。suoyiwulunruhe,zhiyaozhangfuchugui,yinggaijingti,kaishilejieziji,faxianziji,kaishizhuyizijidewaibiao,zuomeironghexingzhuang,suzaowanmeidexingxiang。
zuonixihuande,zhaodaonixiangyaodeshenghuo,buduantigaoziwoxiuyanghesuzhi,peiyangziwonengli,shenghuoxindeziwo,shenghuomeihao,chuangzaozijidutedeqizhi。
rangzijichengweiyigemirendenvren,xiangxinnisuozuodeyiqiebushiweilerenheren,yebushiweileniziji。suizheshijiandetuiyi,nidenanrenhuiyouyizhongsantiandelibiegan。dangtamenzuoqilaizhuyiduifangshi,tamenyekaishiduinichongmanganjiheqinpei。
duifuchuguinanrenzuidufangfa,zaizheigeshihou,tamenqunali,tamenduinideganqingruhebingbuzhongyao,yinweinizhaodaoleziwocunzaidejiazhi,guozhexingfudeshenghuo,guozhezhangfubuzhidedeshenghuo。zheishiduidainanrenchuguidezuihaofangshi。
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