"yiriweifu,baishiweihun。bainiantongdu,qianniantongmian"。lianggerenzoudaoyiqiburongyi,danshitamenkeyixieshoutongxing,yongbufangqiduifangyeburongyi。henduoshihou,renmenshuotamenhuiyiqizouyibeizi,dantamenhuifendaoyangbiao。nanrenhunwaiqingyoushenmebiaoxian?
deque,gaobiedeyuanyinyouhenduo,danzuibushouhuanyingdeyuanyinzhiyishiduifangyoucuowudeganjue,danbeimengzaiguli,ganjuebudaosihaodefeng。
tazijidexinrengrankewangweilaihetamenmeihaodeweilai。danshixianzai,lingyibufenrendexinyijingfangzaibierenshenshanghenjiule,taduiciyiwusuozhi,shenzhimeiyouweiji。
zainimenfenkaideneiyike,nimenlikejiangzhule,yiweinimendoucuoshoubuji,danshishishangzheiyijingchixulehenzhangshijian。
ruguonijinzaofaxian,dangwentihaihenxiaodeshihou,kenenghuiyouyigejiejuefangan,keyiranglianggerenzaicizhuanshen。ruguoxuyaogengzhangdeshijian,ernizuizhongfaxian,kenengjiutaiwanle。
zheiyici,zhanzainvrendelichangshangshuo,neixiecongshihunwailian,yiweimeirenhuizhuyidaodenanren,zaisigefangmiandoubaolule。
1、故意疏远和拒绝参与亲密行为
xiaomei(huaming),yuanlai,zhangfuxiangtatichulihun,danshitameiyoushixianyishidaozheiyidian,beizheituruqilaidedajirangtacuoshoubuji。
tahezhangfujiehunduonian,guanxihenhao。tamenyiqijinglileyigedigu。tarenweitamendeguanxigengshen,danyouyitiantaturanjiedaoyigemoshengnvrendedianhua,tazhijiegaosutatahuaiyunle,xiangrangtajiajitadezhangfu。
tayiweizheishigeezuoju,qichubingbuzaiyi,danshidangneirenlaidaotajiamenkoushi,yiqiedoubiandeqingxiqilai。
然而,已经太晚了。
wowenta,duifangshifouyijinglikainihenjiule,henjiumeiyouqinmidexingdongle,lianggerenxiangchudexiangzuishuxidemoshengren。
tinglezhihou,taturanyishidaozijihezhangfuyijinghenjiumeiyouhaohaoliaotianle,yemeiyounianqingfufudetianmixingwei。qichu,tarenweizheishilianggerenjiehunhenzhangshijianhoudezhengchangbiaoxian。ciwai,tatongchangmangyushengyi,butaizaiyi。xianzaikanlai,tazhangfuxinlihaiyoubieren"bumingxian"。
shishishang,yigerendejinglishiyouxiande,bukenengzaitaiduodeyixingzhijianpaihuai。ruguotaxinzhongyoulingyigeren,taziranhuizhujiandanhuayunideguanxi,shenzhidizhiyunideqinmixingwei,zheichaochuletadexin,dantameiyouzugoudeliliang,gengbuyongshuotaxinzhongyouni,ershilingyigeta。
2、减少在家的时间,增加外出的时间
youyugongzuohuoqitachengnuo,nanrenbunengxiangtamenxiwangdeneiyangjingchanghuijiashizhengchangde,danyeyouliwai。
jiarunipingshizhunshihuijia,danshizuijinwaichushiyaoduozhuyigerenxingxiang,neimewaimianhenkenenghaiyoubieren。
congxinlishangjiang,dangyigerenxinzhongyouleduifang,tajiuhuixihuanhetazaiyiqi。ranhou,tazaijiadeshijianziranhuiyuelaiyueshao。liujitadejiekoubushimangyugongzuo,jiushiqitabukesiyideyulehuodong,shenzhishijiaqiqianlikai。
shishishang,nihuazaiwaimiandeshijianyuelaiyueduo,yinweinixihuanbasuoyoudeshijiandouhuazaibicishenshang;huijiadeshijianyuelaiyueshao,yinweinikaishibuxihuannixianzaidehuanjing,zhishiweilezhaoyigeyouyigedejiekoulaiyanshi,haipabeifaxian。
tongchang,wulunyigerenzaiwaimianyouduomang,tadouhuixiangniantadejiaren,yinweizheishitawennuandegangwan,takeyidaizousuoyoupibeidedifang,tazuixianghuidaodedifang。
raner,yidantadezhuyilifashengbianhua,tajiuzhixiangdaizaiwaimianerbuhuijia。nanrenhunwaiqingyoushenmebiaoxian?
jishitahuilaile,tayebuxihuantayiqianjianguodenvren,tazongshiyongyuanhendeyanguangkandaiyiqie。
3、开始审视自己,认为自己一无是处
danglianggerenxiangaishi,tazainishenshangkandaodeshishanliang,tahuixiangshounisuozuodeyiqie。
raner,ruguoyouyitiannimenzaiyiqihou,taturankaishikandaoni,zongshipipingni。buguannizuoshenme,tadoubumanyi,renweiniyiwushichu。yexutazaiwaimiankandaolebieren。
takandaolebierendesuoyouyoudianhenidesuoyouquedian。xiangbizhixia,tarenweiniburubieren。tashijishangkuadalenidequedian,zheiziranbaoluletadaochudeyanehechouhen。
jiarucishinirenweinimeiyoudixiandexingfuhuidedaotazaiciganxingquhuoxihuandehuibao,qishinidacuotecuo。
yinweibushinizuocuoleshenme,ershitahenni。niweitasuozuodeyiqiezuizhongzhihuibianchengyigeren"lanzi"。
jiarunibuxingchuyuzheizhongqingkuang,buyaobazerenguijiuyuziji,ershicongbutongdejiaodukandaizheizhongguanxi,kankannishiruheduidaibierende。
ruguoniduidaimeigerendouchuyutongyangdezhuangtai,chongqiliangshinizuijinxinqingbuhao;raner,ruguonizhishiduizijiyiwaidebuxihuanhepiping,nizhendexuyaozhuyibicizhijiandeguanxi。
4、一段时间经常关注你,让你觉得很有价值
lianggerengangrenshideshihou,nanrenwangwanghuizhudongdanxin,qishi,touludexinhaoshi:xihuanni。
raner,ruguolianggerenyijingzaiyiqihenduonianle,huozhebicitaishuxile,zheizhongguanxiyijingjinruleyigefeichangwendingdejieduan。dangbicidejiqingxiaotui,meiyoutaiduotianmidehualaixinrenshi,nanrenturandanxinniyiduanshijian,rangniturangandaoyoudianbushufu,buyaorenweizheishiyibiaoxian,zheiyekenengshiduinineijiudebuchang。
bijing,lianggerenjingliguo,jileilehenduo,zaiyiqideshijiantaizhangle,dangyigerenaishangbierendeshihou,xianzaimianduideshigengneixindekuijiu。
yinci,weilemibuneixindebuan,tamenkaishijiabeiguanzhu,jinvxingmailiwuhuobangzhutamenzuohenduoshiqing,huoreqingkuandaitamen。ruguotamenshuobuqingchu,tamenbixuzheiyangzuo"shuzui"xingshi,xiwangnvxingnengzaibufaxiandeqingkuangxiahuodeduanzandeshijian"anxin"。
shishishang,zheizhongqingkuangfashengdeyueduo,zaochengdesunhaijiuyueda。
bijing,xuweiheqipianhuirangduifangrenweizheishizhenaidebiaoxian,danshishishangzheiyuaiqingwuguan,ershibuxihuandekaishi。
dangniyudaozheixierendeyichangbiaoxianshi,niyinggaifenxijutidewenti,kankantamendexingweishifoufuheshangshubiaoxian。ruguoyouyilianggeren,zheizhongguanxiyidinghuichanshengliehen。
nanrenhunwaiqingyoushenmebiaoxian?ruguoshizheiyang,neimezaoyidianerbushiwanyidianzuoqueshishizuimingzhideshiqing。
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