如何面对男人的婚外情，怎样处理婚外情

 zaiyibenshuzhongkandaolaoshiguanyuhunwaiqingdeyijuhua，henyoudaoli：womendoutingguoyigechengyujiaopaoqiqiziheerzi。paoqiqizishibeipan，paoqierzishiburendaode，suoyiwoyidianyebuxiangxin。nikeyishuonibeihulimizhule，danpaoqierzishiwogengguanxinde。zenyangchulihunwaiqing？

 youxienanren，tahuipaoqitadeqizi，takenenghuizanshibeiyigenvrenzhemi，shuowoxiangzhaodaoai，huozhegengzhijie，wozhishixihuanxinde，taoyanjiude，dantabuhuipaoqitadeerzi。qizishirenxingdedixian。weishenmebushisuoyoudehunwaiqingdounengbeiyuanliang，guanjianshifangqihaizi，tashifoushejidaorenxingdedixian。

 woshenshendirenwei，ruguoyigerendebenxingyouwenti，tajiumeiyoujihuimibuzijidecuowu。yexuzaixuduonvrenbeizhangfubeipanhou，tamenhuiyiqitamendehaizirengranbeiyuanliang，dandangnihuiyiqitapaoqierzidezhenggeguochengshi，nihuifaxiantashiqulerenxingzhongzuijibendedongxi。

现实生活中遇到婚外情要离婚，通常会出现以下三种情况

 diyi：youxierenhuiyinweizuobiergandaoneijiu。tamenhuizaijingjishanghuxiangmibu，bingjinzuidanulijuzaiyiqifenshou。jishilihunhou，tamenyehuijixuzaihaizimianqianchengdanzeren；

 dier：suiranyouxierenzhidaozuobishicuowude，dantamenbuyuanyichengdantaiduodejingjisunshi，dantamenzaimianduihaizishirengranhuichengdanzijidezeren；

disan：erqieyouxierenfanlecuowu，jibufangguocaichan，yebuyuanyizaihaizimianqianchengdanzeren。

 disanshiwomensuoshuodeshiqurenxingzuijibendedongxi。yigerenlikaitadeqizikenengshiyinweitazhendebuai，danruguotapaoqiletadeerzi，tazhendeshiqulezuijibendeliangxin。fanlecuowuhou，tabuzhidaoruhechanhui，yebuchengdanzijidezeren。zheiyangderenshiziside。jishitajianglaiguixialaiqiqiuni，niyebunengyuanliangta。nizhidao，

yidanniyuanliangle，jiujiletadiercishanghainidejihui。

buyaoxiangzhezhongdaofuzhe，yinweitabunengweinihehaizigaibian。

heshangshusanzhongqingkuangyiyang，diyizhongkeyiyuanliang，dierzhongkeyikaolvyuanliang，dandisanzhongyongyuanbunengyuanliang。

 wozheipianwenzhangshiweiletixingyihunnvxing:mianduinanrendehunwaiqing，zheizhonghunwaiqingshiyongyuanbunengyuanliangde，paoqiqiziyemeishenmehuaichu，shejiqizi，yongyuanbunengyuanliang。

 zaidianshilianxuju《wodeqianbansheng》zhong，yikaishiwomenhuirenweichenjunshengshigerenzha，dankanwanzhengbudianshijuhou，nihuijuedechenjunshengzhishibeilinglingmizhuleyiduanshijian。chenjunshengshigehaoren。yuluozijunlihunhou，tahuijiziqunqian，bingchengdanqizhaogupingerdezeren。tabingmeiyouzhenzhengshiquliangxin。

 yigezaizhaoguhaizifangmianrengranzhidaoruhechengdanzerendezuobinanren，ruguotajianglaihouhui，nirengranyouganqing，zheishikeyikaolvheyuanliangde，yinweizhiyaobushejirenxingdedixian，tajiuhuizhenzhengfansizijidecuowu，jiabeimibuzijidecuowu。

zailuozijuntuibianzhihou，chenjunshenghouhuile，tahaishuoleyijuhua：“woxianghuidaoguoqu。”

dangshi，chenjunshengzhendeyishidaolezijidecuowu。nixiangyuanliangyigerendebuzhongma？nixiangkankantashifouhaiyouzuijibenderenxing。

 xiaoronghexiaoshuaishiyiduibaishouqijiadeputongfufu。tamenyiqizhuzaichuzudefangzili。tamenguoquguodehenjiannan。xiaorongjiajixiaoshuaishiluotijiehun。xiaoshuaishenzhimeiyoumaijiezhi。tafashiyaoduixiaoronghaoyibeizi。ruguoniyouzugoudeshui，nvhaizainianqingdeshihouzongshihuibeichonghuaide“qiongxiaozi”beiaiqingsuomihuo。

 tamenzhendeguodehenhao。congjieshangbaitandaohoumianyoujijiadian，rizizhongyulaile。xiaoronghennengchiku。jiehunqianjinian，taweileshiyemeiyouhaizi。dangtaxiangyaohaizishi，tayijing32suile。

zidaxiaoronghuaiyunhou，xiaoshuaijiuburangtashangbanle，haishuo：zhengqianyouwo，nixiangshouqingfu。

 xiaorongzhenderenweitajiaduileren。meixiangdao，dangtahuaiyunliugeyueshi，tafaxianxiaoshuaizuobile。dangtayongsuoyouzhengjuzhiwenxiaoshuaishi，xiaoshuaishuo“sheirangnihuaiyunle？wozongshiyaojiejueshengliwenti”。zheijuhuachedirenaolexiaorong。

jiaruxiaoshuaiyikaishiqiurao，xiaorongyexuhuiyuanliang，danchujirenxingdedixian，xiaorongshizaishoubule。

 xiaoshuaidexingweijiushiwomensuoshuodepaoqiqizihehaizi，tashiyigehuaiyundeqizi。yinweitatantuhunyinzhiwaidecijihexinxiangan，lianhuaiyundeqizidoukeyihulve。gengzhongyaodeshi，xiaorongconglingkaishihetazaiyiqi，dantashitadeenren。yigerenshenzhishiqulezuijibenderenxing。youbiyaoliuzhuzheiyangderenma？

yinci，mianduinanrendehunwaiqing，daodiyaobuyaoyuanliang，nengbunengyuanliang？yaokaolvliangzhongqingkuang：

 shouxian，congnizijishenshang，kankannishifouyoulihundenengli；dier，kankantashifoushiqulezuijibenderenxing。ruguotanengrenshidaozijidecuowu，bingzaizuobihouduihaizifuze，tazhendekeyikaolvyuanliang。

dangran，wulunshenmeyangdekuanshu，nidouyaocongzijixingfudemudechufa，qianwanbuyaorangzijishouweiqutaijiu。

“womenbuyinggaizhishijihuahekaolvweilai，huozhechenniyuhuiyiguoqu。yongyuanbuyaowangji：xianzaishiweiyizhenshihezhunquede。”

如何处理丈夫的婚外情

 meicibeiwendao，wodouhuixiangqishubenhuashuodehua。shishishang，meigerendoumianlinzhebutongdeqingkuang，chulihunwaiqingdefangshiyebutong，danwuluncaiyongshenmefangfa，douhuiyouyigejibendian：

yejiushiniyaoduokaolvzijideliyi，kanshenmeduinizuiyouli。zenyangchulihunwaiqing？

 dangwomenzaiqingganshangbeibeipanshi，paoxiaohedaoluanshizuiwulide。nibixukaolvxiayitiaoluzenmezou。woconglaimeiyoujianyinvxingzaifaxianzhangfudehunwaiqingshizhizaomafan，yinweizaiwokanlai，zhizaomafanzhishiyizhongzanshidefennu，bunengqidaohendadezuoyong。ruguonixiangdaonizijihenidehaizi，nizhendebunengzhizaomafan。

zanshideyinren，bushiyizhongwonang，ershiyizhongdazhihui。

 womendoutingguoyijuhua，chuguihuirangrenshangyin，danshishishang，bingbushimeigerendouhuizheiyang，zheiqujueyuta“chugui”beiyuanliangdetaiduhedaijia。hunyinzhongdeyixiecuowubunengqingyiyuanliang。mianduiqipianzhedekenqiuhekangfu，nixiangjitayigejihuima？buyaotingtashuoshenme，ershikantazuoleshenme。

 nvrenyinggairuhechulizhangfuzaihunyinzhongbeipanshishifouyinggaiyuanliangdewenti？worenweidiyijianshishilixingdizhenglizijideqingxu，diaozhengzijidexintai。niyinggaiqingchudikaolvnishifouyoulihundenengli，lihunhounikaoshenmeshenghuo，nixianzaidezhangfushifouhaiyouziji。

 lingwai，niyaofenxiyixiachuguidelaogongshishenmeyangderen？tanuliwanhuihouzuoleshenme，duihaizizuoleshenme，yizhidoushiyigechengzhidefuqin。

 hunyinzhongyoubeipandewenti。womenbunengtingbierenlihundezhijiechongdong。nibixusheshenchudiweizijizhexiang。bijing，qitarenzhishizaiyishunjianshuohua。nibixuweinidexuanzechengdanyiqie。zaizuojuedingzhiqianyaokaolvqingchu。mianduiqipian，nibujinyaoganyujieshou，haiyaochulixiayigehunyinwenti。

mianduinanrendehunwaiqing，zheiyizhongyongyuanbunengyuanliang。

nayige？neizhongpaoqiqier，youqishipaoqierzi，ranhoushoucuohouqiuniyuanliang。

 zenyangchulihunwaiqing？nvrenyinggaijianqiangziji。wulunnizuoshenmexuanze，nidouyinggaicongduizijihaodejiaoduchufa。woxiwangninengzuodehao，bushijinanrenyigejihui，ershikankannazhongxuanzenengrangnideshenghuogenghao。