初恋情人说一直在等我，情人要跟我分手我舍不得怎么办

 wocengjingshenaidediyigeqingrenzaiciwenwoshenmeshihoulihun，danwokanzhewoshushuidezhangfuhehaizi，danwowufaxiadingjuexin。suiranwoyidianyebuaizheigenanren，danwomenzaiyiqiduguole10nian。youyiduanshijian，wojuedehennanfangqi。wogaizenmeban？qingrenyaogenwofenshouwoshebudezenmeban？

 wohewodechulianqingrenzaidaxueshijuzaiyiqi。duifangdejiatingtiaojianhenhao，danwozhishiyigelaizinongcundenvhai，suoyiwozongshigandaozibei，duizheiduanguanxibutaiqueding。yinci，dangtazhunbeichuguoshi，tazhudongfenshouyibaohuziji。

 zheishi，yizhishouhuzaiwoshenbiandezhangfuchuxianle。tabujinbangwoduguoleshilianhoudeshiguang，haishengleyigefeichangkeaideerzi。danshizuijin，youyujingjiguanxi，wozhangfudegongsichuxianleyixiewenti，jialideqifenzhendebutaihao。

 jieguo，wodetongxuejuxingleyigejuhui。woyudaolewodechulianqingren。xianzaitakaileyijiafeichangdadegongsi，tadeshiyexiangdangchenggong，tayijingdanshenzheimeduonianle。zheixienianlaiworengranaita，danyinweiwozhidaobukenengyizhiwodeqingxu，ruhexuanze？

woxiangxinhenduochengnianrendouyudaoguonixianzaimianlindemaodunxinli。

我们可以理解这种纠结的心态

 diyi，yinweiniyijingyouleyigeerzi，ruguonidemuqinheqitananrenyiqilikai，henkenenghuijinideerziliuxiayinying。gengbuyongshuonizhangfumeiyouzuocuorenheshi。jishimuqianjingjikunnan，tayekeyiyiqiduguo。qingrenyaogenwofenshouwoshebudezenmeban？

 dier，haiziyijingchengweinixianzaizuixuyaodanxindewenti。ruguonizailihunhoudainideerziquzhaonidediyigeqingren，tanengjieshounidemuqinheerzizhijiandejiatingchongtu，rangniweichizheiduanguanxima？

 disan，nishihaiaizhezheigechulianqingrenhaishia，aizheguoqudejiyi，haishiyaohaohaoqufen，kaolvdaozheigeshehuidegezhongyulundounengchengshou。

 congnidemiaoshuzhong，nikeyiganjuedao，zaizheimeduoniandexiangchuguochengzhong，nirengranduinidezhangfuyouhenduoganqing，dandangnidaolezhongnian，nideganqingjinruleyigepingdandeshiqi。zheishi，turanchuxianlexindeciji。

男人和女人都很难冷静下来

 diyi，zaishenghuodeguochengzhong，womenyinggaihuxiangfuchu。congwomenjiehundeneiyikeqi，womenjiuyinggaimingbai，womenbuyinggaiheduifangshenghuozaiyiqi。zheiyang，ruguowomenzaishenghuozhongyudaozhenai，womenhenkenenghuifancuowu。

 dier，buyaoyinweixiguanlejiujianchihezheigerenyiqizouxiaqu。ruguonizhendebunengjixuxiaqu，nikeyigenjuzijideneixinzuochuxindechangshi。bijing，mourendeqizihemuqin，nihaishiyigeren。

 disan，qingrenyaogenwofenshouwoshebudezenmeban？zaizuochurenhejuedingzhiqian，nibixuqingchudikaolvsuoyoudehouguo。buyaochongdong。tongshi，niyeyinggainongqingchuxiayigenanrenshishenmeyangzide。buyaozhishitingtashuodehua，juedetamendoushizhende。