第三者是什么意思？

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 disanzhe，shitongguohulianwangliuxingqilaideyigeci，shidui“disanzhe”debiancheng。disanzhezaizhongguofalvshangdehanyishizhichuantonghunyinjiatingguannianyubugu，pingzijigerenxihao，siyiqinfantarenjiating，zhidaochaisantarenjiatingderen。zaiminjianhaiyou“hulijing”（yisixianghulineiyangmihuonanxingdenvxing）、“xiehua”dengbiancheng。ganqingshang，disanzhedingyibujinpohuaibierenjiatingderen，haibaohanjierubierenlianqingderen。yucixiangguandeduanyuyou“disanzhezhuanzheng”、“zhuanzhenglededisanzhe”deng。

 disanzheshishenmeyisi？zaixueshujieyecunzaiduiruherending“disanzheshenmeyisi”youzhengyi，danbingweijianmingquedui“disanzhe”degainianbenshentichuyiyide。yourenjianyijiang“disanzhejieru”degainiangaiweitongjianpinju，danbingweiqudegejierenshidegongren。chengran，“disanzhejieru”xingwei，bixushitongjianpinjudexingwei，erbushiyibandehunwailian，danzaisifashijianzhongbingbuzhuzhangbasuoyoudetongjiandourenweishi“disanzhejieru”hunyinjiating。yinci，“disanzhe”degainianzaifalvshang，sihuyijingtedinghuale。

 disanzhebenshenbingbuweibeichuantongdaodeguannian，yebunengshuoweibeishehuigongdede。danshiduigeren、jiatingheshehuidouyoujidadeweihai。shiyigeshifenrangrentoutengdewenti。

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