在婚外恋中关于男人的真实心理变化，婚外恋男人的心理变化

 hunwailiannanrendexinlibianhua，tamenbuzhidaoruhechulizheigewenti，yebuzhidaoyigebeipanjiatingderennengfouyuanliangta？huidaojialishizhendema？neigenanrenaishei？rangwomentantanwomenshifounengyuanliangta。

nengfouyuanliangdebeihou，shejidaoyigezhibuzhideyuanliang，xuyaonigenjuduitadelijie、jiazhihetaidulaipanduan。

 nimenshifuqi，riyexiangban，shuizaitongyizhangchuangshang。jishitabeipanlejiaren，yehuiyingxiangniduitadekeguanpingjiahezhiqiandelijie。yinci，dangnilengjingxialaishi，zheishishouxianyaofenxidewenti。tazhidema？nizaijitayicijihui，biruxingge、zhihui、piqidengdeng。

haiyaokantazijidejiazhi，zuizhongyaodeshiweijiatingchuangzaojiazhi，lengjingxialaizaiwenziji，jiatingshifouxuyaozaijitayicijihui。

 liru，suirantadexinggemeiyouwenti，dantayizhiduijiatingmeiyougongxian。zainidezhichixia，tayongyuanbunengzhiwangjiatingjianshehuosuosuidejiating。yinci，ruguonixiangyuanliang，niyinggaizixikaolv，yinweicongjiatingdejiaodulaikan，meiyouyuanliangdejiazhi。

 fanzhi，ruguotaduijiatingjianshezuochulejudadegongxian，chuangzaoleyidingdejiazhi，huozheshuojiatingdefazhanlibukaita，keyikaolvyuanliang。

zuihou，genjutafancuohoudetaidu，kantashifouyuanyijizijiyigejihui。

 ruguotabuxuyaonideyuanliang，neimenideyuanliangjiumeiyouyiyi，jiletazuorenhetaxiangzuodeshideziben。niyinggaizhidao，fancuowuderenbushini，tashizhenzhengxiangzuoshenmederen，suoyizheiqujueyutaruhejiejue，erbushinixiangruhejiejue。

zaizheisangetiaojiandoumanzudeqingkuangxia，yuanliangkeyisuanshizuihoujiganqing、jiatinghebiciyicijihui。

fouzeniyemeiyouliyouyuanliang，gengmeiyoubiyaoyuanliang。

yixiashidiyirenchengguanyuyigehunwailiannanrenzhenzhengdexinlibianhuaguocheng，yexunihaiyouqitayiwen，keyicongzhongzhaodaodaan。

guanyunanrenzaihunwailianzhongdezhenshixinlibianhua！

 hunwailiannanrendexinlibianhua，zaiyuqizijiehundediliunian，wozaiwaimianyoulehunwailian，gangkaishideshihou，wohenqingchuzijidedongjishishenme，zhishixiangjizijiwuliaodeshenghuozhaodiandiaoweipin。

yushibaozhejiaoxingxinli，kaishileneiduanzhangdaliangniandehunwailian(womeixiangdaohuizheimejiu)。

 dangshiwozhendexianglexiang。jiqingguohou，wolijituichu。woshenzhijianyizijibuyaodongzhenqing，danwohulveleyijianshi，neijiushirenshiqinggandongwu。jishitamenhexiaomaoxiaogouzaiyiqihenzhangshijian，tamenyehuiyouganqing，ranhoutamenhuiyouyixiliedeaihehen。

youyuzhujiangandonglezhenqing，yeshiwodexintaihesixiangzaibuzhibujuezhongfashenglebianhua。

 zaijiexialaidehenzhangyiduanshijianli，woyuelaiyuexinshanghunwailianduixiang，danwoyuelaiyuebuxihuanwodeqizi。zhidaoxianzai，wocaiyishidao，zheibingbushiyinweiwoyouduoaihunwailianduixiang，ershiyinweitazhicanyulewoshenghuozhongdelangmanbufen，erbushiwoshenghuozhongdebufen。

 birumeidangwohuidaojia，laopoyinweiyixiexiaoshiduiwolaotaobuzhi，marendeshihou，hunwailianduixiangdehao，zaiwozheilimashangjiuhuibeiwuxianfangda。

ganjuetabiqiziwenrou，tabiqizixianshu，yebiqizigenglejiewo，gengguanxinwo。

 wojingchangbatahewoqizibijiao。wobijiaodeyueduo，wojiuyuejuedetazaigegefangmiandoubiwoqizihao。shishishang，woyongtadeyoudianlaibijiaowoqizidequedian，zheidaozhiwodangshiduiwoqizitebietiaoti、bumanheyane。

manmandi，woduizijidehunyinyouleyizhonglengmodetaidu。

 wobuxiangweiwodejiatingmaidan，yebuxiangweichifuqiguanxi。zheiduanhunyinderenhefangxiang，tebieshidangwoheqizichaojiashi，dangwobeiqizideguodulaotaojinushi，wohuikaolvlihun。buguanzenyang，woyijingzhaodaoletuilu，ranhouzhengchaodeshengyintigaoleyidian。

neishihouwobupalihun，douyoutuiluhaipashenme，weiyishiyoudiangujilihundedaijia。

 zuihou，zaixinxianganwanquanxiaoshihou，woyishidaojiazongshihaode。zaiwoqizifaxianzhiqian，wozhujiancongyiqiandesiwujidanbianchenglekonghuang。wodanxinwoqizizhidaohouhuihewolihun。

zuihouqizihaifaxian，suiranwoyehuidaolejiating，danyefuchulecantongdedaijia，yiqiandehaorizizaiyehuibuqule。

 tinglezhihou，wobuzhidaoniyoushenmeganjue。shishishang，zheirengranshifeichangzhenshide。conghunwailiankaishidaojieshu，suoyoudexinlibianhuadoukeyizongjiechulai。yexuyihouhuidaojialidexinshizhende，danzhishaodangnizhemideshihou，nidexinlimeiyoujia，nibunengrongrennideqizi。

suoyihuidaojialishiyinweizhidao，zijizhendeaiqizima？

 wangwangbushiquanbu，zhishiyinweitazaijialinengzhaodaoyidingdeanxinhetashi。zhiyutaaishei，takenengzhigengaiziji。jishitaaiziji，tayemeiyouneimeshen。

fouze，tabukenengzhidaohuishanghaidaoqizideqingkuang，haishineiyangzuo。

shuomingtazongshibazijideganqingfangzaidiyiwei，weilemanzuzijidesiyu，buxishanghaiqizi。

 shenghuozhongyouyizhongqingkuang，youxienanrendehunwailianwangwangshicongtaduilingyigenvrendeguanxinkaishide，danshinanrenyoumeiyouxiangguoweishenmehainengguanxinlingyigenvren？

zhengrudongyeguiwusuoshuo：“nenggouzaiwaimianguanxinbierendenanren，tongchangdouyouyigexingfudejiating。”

 yinci，niyinggainenggouyishidaoniyouyigexingfudejiating。zheigejiatingyongyuanbuhuibeicuihuiheshanghai。nicongjiatingzhongdedaodesuoyoumeilidouyinggaihuikuijinidejiating。buyaobenmodaozhi，zheiyejuedinglenixiayitiandeshenghuo。

 hunwailiannanrendexinlibianhua，aiyuwennuankeyichuandi，danyuanzeyujiexianganzongshicunzaide，zhongchengshiyizhongxuanze，yeshizheizhongxuanze，diandinglerenshengdejichu。