婚外恋怎么才能更长久，男人说全在女人怎么做女人表示不服

 hunwaiqingnengfouzhangjiuyoushenmejueding？yidanxianruhunwaiqing，buguanshinanshinv，daduoshurenxinlidouhuixiangdaozheiyangyigewenti——“womennengyizhizheiyangxiaquma？zheiduanganqingnengzhangjiuma？”danxindeshideganjuehuirangrenyizhigandaohenjiujie。hunwailianzenmecainenggengzhangjiu？

 ruguotamenxiangfenshou，tamenjiubunengfangshou。ruguotamenxiangjieshu，tamenhuidedaoyigeganjingdeshike。tamenhaipazijiwufarenshouxintongdetongku，dantamenwufarenshouzaiyiqi，suoyitamenbudebumianduigezhonggeyangdetongkuhemaodun。

有爱却得不到这个人，这是婚外情中最大的痛苦

 youqishihunwaiqingzhongdenvxing，tamengenggengzhizheyuganqing，mianlingengdadeyali。suoyidangtamenxiangdaozheigewentishi，tamenzongshichanzhetamendeairen，jiqiediwenta，“nishuowomenliangnengyizhizheimehaoma？zhendeyouzhangqihunwaiqingma？”

 nanrenhuizenmeshuo？tamenkanqilaihenchidun，wufabiaodaziji。shishishang，tamenwangwangbinvrenkandegengqingchu，xiangdegengyuan，yinweinanrenzaihunwaiqingzhongyouyigeyuce。

 zaitamenkaishizheiduanguanxizhiqian，tamenzhidaozheiduanguanxidezongtiqushihefazhan。danglianggerenzaiyiqishi，tamenzhinengxiangshouxianzai，yitianyitian。taxinlizhidaozheiyidian，dantabuxiangrangtadeairenlijie。

 suoyidangbeiwenjizheigewentishi，nanrenyaomexuanzehuibi，yaomeshuo，“fanzhengwoduiniyebuhuigaibian，womendeguanxinengfouzhangjiu，jiukannizenmezuole。”

 zheiyangdehuidafeichangqiaomiao。tabujinquyueletadeqingren，erqierangnvrenjuedetaduitazhongcheng、quanxinquanyi，zheirangnvrenfangsong，suoyitabuhuizaierbianshuohua。zheiyang，womenyekeyibimianjianglaifashengmaodunshifenshoudezeren。yinweiruguonizaiwentishangfenshou，zerenheyalidouhuiluozainvrenshenshang。

 yigeruyisuanpandenanrenshizheimexiangde，danshiyigeshenxianganqingdenvrenwangwangzhishangweiling。tahuijuedenanrendehuahenyouyong，haoxiangtazhendekongzhilezheiduanganqingdezhudongquan。

 danshisuizheshijiandetuiyi，suizheganqingdejiashenhefazhan，nihuizhujianyishidaozheiyidian。buzhibujuezhong，zheichangqingganyouxidezhudongquanyijingzhuanyidaolenanrendeshouzhong。

 nvrenyoumanyoure。tamenwufazuzhita，dannanrensihukeyiziyoudishousuoheshifangziji。shenlongkandaotouerbushiweiba。xinglaihou，nvxinghuikaishifansi。shishishang，tamendehunwaiqingnengfouchixuhenzhangshijianbingbuqujueyutamendeganqing，ershiqujueyushuangfangnengfoutongguozheisangezhangai。

 lianggerennengfouweiduifangfangxiahenduo，zuochuhenduorangbu，yuanyiweiduifangfuchuhenduo，quebuzaihu，zheiyangtamenjiukeyishaosuanji，duopinghengxinli，ganqingzaibuduandemohezhongmanmanpingjingxialai。yexuzheizhongguanxikeyiweichixiaqu。neime，shishenmewentiyingxianglehunwaiqingdequshini？zaizheiyizhangzhong，rangwomenhenitantanzheigehuati。

经济因素是最致命的

 shishishang，zaihunwaiqingzhong，suoweidenannvguanxigenbenbushiweichizheizhongguanxizhangdudezhuyaoyinsu。jinqianwangwangshiyigezhimingdejuedingxingyinsu。keyishuo，90%dehunwaiqingdoushiyinweitamenbunengtongguojinqiandetongxingzhengerfendaoyangbiao，shenzhiyinweiaihehenerconglianrenbianchengdiren。

 wozheimeshuodeyuanyinjuebushiweiyansongting。nikan，danglianggerenzaiyiqishi，tamenkenenghuiyinweiwaibiao、tanhua、shentiheqitawaizaidedongxierxianghuxiyin，yinweitamenshixinxiandehelingrenxingfende，danyidantamendeganqingshenrufazhan。

 duibicideyaoqiujiangdedaotigao。nanrenxiwangnvrenwanquanshuyuziji，nvrenxiwangkongzhinanrendefangfangmianmian，congqinggandaojingji。fouze，youshenmekeyizhengmingzheizhongganjue？

 suoyi，wentilaile。nizhishishuoniaiwo，nixinlixiangdedoushiwo。niduijialideqizimeiyouganqing，yemeiyouganqing。nimenzhishiyinweizeren、yiwuhezhaoguhaizierbuqingyuandishenghuozaiyiqi。hunwailianzenmecainenggengzhangjiu？

 qichu，wokenengxiangxinzheizhongshuofashizhengquede，danhoulaiwobudebusikao。zheizhongaishiruhetixiande？nizhishiduiwotianyanmiyu，dannizhuandeqiandoujileniqizi。zheizenmenengsuanshizhenaini？nisuoweidezhenaishishenme？

 zheikenengshinanrenhenvrenzaihunwaiqingzhongzuidadequbie。zainanrendexinzhong，jishiyouhunwaiqing，neimeqizishiqizi，qingrenshiqingren，tamenshibutongde，meigerendouyoubutongdeyongtu。

 qizishishenghuozhongdebanlv，jingjiliyi，gengbuyongshuogongtongdegutouhexueyele。suiranfuqizhijiandejiqingbuzaicunzai，danjiatingganqinghexianghuxinren，suoyi，nanrenhuigaosuqizizhongyaodeshiqing，yehuifangxinbacaichanjiqizibaoguan。

 duiyuqingren，nanrenhuijuedesuiranzheigenvrenhewoyoujiqing，keyiyiqiwangji，tashiwodeqingganyilai，shiwodezhiji，danruguocaichanjiqingren，anquanganhuidideduo，yinweizheixieshiqingkenengyutamenziji，yutamendejiarenwuguan。

 yinweinanrenhenqingchu，zheizhonghunyinguanxi，buyidingshihenzhangyiduanshijian，kenengshiyitian，buquedingheshifensan。yinci，nanrenzaihunwaiqingzhong，duiqingrenyoubaoliu，tebieshizaijingjizhong，youbiyaonaqianhongqingrenkuaile，danbuhuitouzitaiduo。yinweiqingrenhefanche，tamendecaifu，mingshenghecaifu，bushao，nanrendangranhuixiqujiaoxun。

 danshiduiyunvrenlaishuo，yinweihunyinzhiwaiyouaiqing，neimezheigenanrenjiuhuizainvrendexinzhong，bujinshizhiji、pengyou、qingren，haiyouqingren，gezhongjiaosedouhuirongweiyiti。ranhou，suizheganqingdejiashenheguanxidejiashen，taduizheigenanrendeyaoqiuhuiyuelaiyuegao，yinweiqiwangzhihuishangsheng。

 suoyiyikaishi，nvrenzhishizaiqingganshangyilainanren。dangguanxijiejinshi，tahuijuedezheigerendeyiqiedouyinggaiweiraozhewojinxing。tahuiwuyishidijiejinnanrenzhenzhengdeqizidebiaozhun。tajuedetayinggaizhanjuzheigenanrendequanbu。tabujinyaoyouganqing，haiyaoyouzhenai，haiyaoyoujingjikongzhi。

 zheiyang，hunwaiqingzhongnannvzhijiandemaodunjiuchulaile。yifangmian，nanrenzaijingjishangduitamendeairenyousuobaoliu，lingyifangmian，tamenduiairendeqiwangyuelaiyuegao，tamenzaijingjishangdeyaoqiuyeyuelaiyuegao。yinweizheizhongchayihuichanshengmaodun，nanrenjuedenvrenbuan，kaishiyuejie，ranhouzaiyiqi，zheiweibeilexunzhaoqingrendechuzhong。

 hunwailianzenmecainenggengzhangjiu？nvrenhuijuedenanrenduizijibugouzhencheng。wofulezheimeduoqian，dannanrenzhishishuoshuoeryi，danshishishangtamenduizijiyidianyebuzhencheng。zheiyang，maodunzisheng，douzhengbuduan，zheizhongguanxisuichukejian。neime，haiyounaxieyinsuyingxianghunwaiqingdefazhanhezheizhongguanxideweichi？