多次出轨的女人还值得挽回吗？怎么挽留出轨的女人

 duocichuguinvren，haifeichangzhidewanhuima？keyihaowuyiwendeduinishuo：feichangzhide！tamengaosuwodeyinxiangshenkedeyijuhuabianshi：woconglaimeiyouhouhuimojiguowanhuita，jishinidangshiquanwoxuehuifangxia，wojiumeifaquanzishenshenmeshidoubuzuojiufangdexia。zenmewanliuchuguidenvren？

silexin，shizhengtuoguoquleyihou，caihuishunlide。

buran，nizenmeyebusizheitiaoxin。tahuibianweiquehangensuiniyibeizi。

给大家说个故事吧。

xiaoyuandeqiannanyoujiaoxiaoyuan，yikaishilianggerenqingganfeichanghao，keshizhihouxiaoyuanmanmanchajuezijibianchenglexiaoyuandebeiyongtai。

 xiaoyuanchushizaiyigefuyudejiatinghuanjingli，zixiaobianshijiarendezhangshangmingzhujiaju，xiaoyuanjinjinyigepingchangdeshichangxiaoshou，gongzidaiyuhenbuwending，xiaoyuandefumuyuanbenjiubutongyitamenzaiyiqi，yincichangchanghuijixiaoyuanxiangxijieshaoyixietiaojianhaodenanhaierquxiangqin。

 xiaoyuanfajue，xiaoyuanchangchanghuijiedaozhenguilipin。youyitian，xiaoyuanshuozishenxiabanleyaopeigukeyongcan，danshidaoleshenyehaimeihuijiale，dadianhuajitayebujie，xiaoyuanzailoudixiapengjiantacongyiliangbaomaqicheshangchulai，haigenneiyigejiachedenanshengjudongqinmiwujian。

tamenzhengchaole，keshixiaoyuanmeigai。

 tayiranhuijiedaoyixingpengyousongdelipin，naizhisongtahuijialedecheyeyulaiyugaoji，wentazheidoudaodishisheisongde，tabianhuishuochengfumudehaopengyou。xiaoyuanhenshengqi，dantaxiaixiaoyuan，tamenyeshizaifumudizhideqingxingxiazaiyiqi，tabuganxiangxinxiaoyuanqueshihuiwaiyu，ningkejianxinquanshixiaoyuandefumuposhitaquxiangqinde。

 zhihouqingxingyuelaiyuejilie，meiguidousongzhijiazhonglaila，xiaoyuanxiangzhuangkanbudaoyebukeyile，takebeidefajue，zishensihubianchengxiaoyuandeyigebeiyongtai，wulunzishenduitaduomehao，tashenpangzongshifashengqitayixingpengyou，taquandoubieryuanzhi。bingqietayeburongyiyangaizishenquxiangqinhegennanpengyouchupengdekeguanshishi。

 tawangwangmeiyougenxiaoyuanfenkai，jinjinyouyutadouhaimeixunzhaoneizhongjiduitahao，younengdadaotahuaxuewuzhiyaoqiudemubiao，zhidaoneiyici，tadefumujitadaguoyitongjiaozhangdedianhua，tacaitichufenshou。

xiaoyuanlejieziyibingbushitadezuijiatiaoxuan，yemingbaiziyideqingkuanghenbunansheng，hendijian，keshitahuoshiwangbudiao。

确实忘不掉，谁劝也不好，外遇也可以饶恕

ganqing，shizuiyuanshidechongdong。

jiaruqueshiwangbudiaoyigeren，tawenyingbuyinggaiwanhuideqingkuangxia，shijishangzhixiangyaotingjiantarenweitahaowuyiwendehuida。

 yingduineiyangyigejiaocailiangzhichuan，duociwaiyudeqianrennvyou，xiaoyuangenwoshuoyingbuyinggaiwanhui，tahuoshirenbushangganqingdebulizhi。

 xianshishenghuozhongshijishangbuquexiaoyuanneiyangdenvsheng，tayexuhaokan，jiajingyefeichanghao，dantayouxurongxinyoutanyu，yaoxiangdeshiwushifenduo，yincitacaihuibalaogongdangzuowujianyiyang，huobisanjia，zeyouluyong。

 xurongxindenvhaizixinlidoushiyoumeiyouanquangan，xianggenjuhuaxuewuzhilaitianchongzishen，junshizishenxinlingdebuzixin。tamenhenzaihupangrendeyanguang，haoguimizhaolefuyoudezhangfu，pengyoumailekuankuodedahuxingdeng，doushihuirangtaduirichangshenghuozaochengbumanyi，tarenyoudetayexuyaoyou，youyutadanxinbeitarenxiaokan，tabixudedaotarendehaowuyiwen。

 gengkongbudeshi，xiaoyuanneiyangdenvsheng，yexuguannianbulezishendezisizili，tameiyicixiangqinyuehuishijishangshizaiwanxiaoyuandexin，kejiuyouyuxiaoyuanxihuanta，duitawanbanrenshou，tajiukeyineiyangyicicisunhaitama？

 dangtabuyongyangaidejiaodengjigechuandeqingkuangxia，haoxiangbianshizaiduixiaoyuanshuo：niaiwo，jiuyingdangchengdanzheizhong！ninanguo，neijiushinitongyide！niaiwo，yincinihuogai！

jiushizheiyangdeyigetiaozhandajiadaodedixiandenvsheng，xiaoyuanshuoyaowobangtawanhui，wochadianermeibeitaqifeng。

 danwozhongjiuyeshiyoudianerzhiyesuzhide，zhanzaixiaoyuandefangxiangshangxiang，taaiyigeren，buyuansangshiyigeren，chuzaiqinggandediwei，beilingyifangmotouzhule，xiangwanhuishichuyouyin。

为何忘不掉，由于甘心情愿被拘束

 shehuixinlixueshangyouyigecaigenikejiyixing，shishuodajiaduimeiwanchengdeshier，yizhihuihaijidegengweishenru。huanjuhuashuo，quehan，yizhinanyiwanghuaide。youyumeiyouhuodeyigewanmandejieguo，yinciqipancaihuiyufademingxian。

bujinruci，xiaoyuanneileiduiquehandetianbuzhiqing，jiazazhedaliangdeganxinqingyuan。

 meigerenqipanjuyouyifenwanmeideaiqing，qidaizishendelingyibanbudanyouzhekeyixiyinzhuzishenderengefengcai，haihuijixuduiziyihao，duizishenzhongshi。

 kezaiwomenzhenzhenzhengzhengpengdaoganqingyihou，dajiahuifajue，benlaineixinzheixiezhaoduixiangdeyichengbubiandouhuaweilexukong，dajialianshangdeshimianqianneiren，naizhihuiweilegenghaodiguanzhelingyifang，ertiaoxuanqubiaozhundekuanrongta，duitahao。

 meiyiduanganqingdebuduandoulibuleganxinqingyuansigezi，xinganqingyuandetouru，ganxinqingyuandejienalingyifang，ganxinqingyuandejienajushu。kedangzaiqizhongyigerenbuhuizaiganxinqingyuanleyihou，ganqingjiufashenglebianzhi。

 xiaoyuandewentiqujueyu，tabaganqingdangzuokeyiyongwuzhishenghuokaoliangdewupin，sheidebiaozhunhao，tajiuyusheipeidui，tabahuaxuewuzhiyaoqiudangzuolerenhedeyaoqiu，neishiyouyuxiaoyuanzaoyinengdadaotadejingshenxuqiule，dangtasangshizheiyiqiedeqingkuangxia，tayidinghuiyishidaozheiyi。

 erxiaoyuandewentiqujueyu，tamingzhidaolingyifangzaoyizhujianpanbianqinggan，dantaqueziquqiru，duobishiqing，renpingzheiyisunhaizaici。

 shuodaodi，huoshiyouyudajiameigerenmeifamengpianzishendexinli，ganqingzheiguyuanshidechongdong，poshidajiaaiwosuoai，wuluntashizenyangde，wuluntashibushiyeshouyiyitongyangdeai，dajiadoushihuizaicizhuiqiuzheiyilianren。

忘不掉的人，非常容易找代替品

queshiwangbudiaoshiyizhongnaxieqingkuangni？dayuebianshirenhedongxidouzuoshibai。

 xiaoyuanyiqiangenwoshuo，tayouxiangguoxuehuifangxia，tingwenbaituoyiduanqingganzuihaodebanfabianshijinxingyiduanxindeqinggan，yincitaquzhaoleyigexindenvyou。

 suihouwentijiulaile，rutong《qianrensan》liyande，mengyunhelinjiafenshouzhihou，xiangchuleyigexindenvsheng，dantazongbazheigenvhaidangzuolinjiadedaitipin。

xiaoyuanyeshineiyang，hexinnvyouxiangchuyihoufandaoyuelaiyuegengweitongchu。

 xinnvyoudeshenshangzonghuiyouxiaoyuandeshenying，dantamenkanqilaibingbingbuxiang，tazongshihuizaixinzhongmomodijiaowei，yitianbiyitiangengqingxi，zishenwangbudiaodeneirendaodishishei。

 zailianaixinlixueli，zheijiaofantiaoguanlian，yueaiyigeren，jiuyuefeichangrongyijindaofantiaoguanlian，xiaoyuanjienabushangfenlichulaichanshengdetongchu，xiangxunsudezhaoyigerenlaixiezhutaduguofenkaiqi，danzheiganghaozhengshitawufazouchuqu。

rutongtadangshizijipianzijiyiyang，rujinzhaoyigedaitipinzaicihuozaimengli，，xiaoyuanneixingaoqingchu，zheizhishangyoushangji。

怎样挽回

chuziyuxiaoyuandeqiangliejianyi，bangtachulewanhuijihuafangan。

yijuxiaoyuandejiatingqingkuanghexinggetezheng，jianyishuoxiazheiyangdeshiqingdewanhuiguanjian。

diyi，gaizhenglingyifangrenzhinengli，kaiqixintaidetupodian

 xiaoyuanjiaoguan，ergenziruan，feichangrongyibeifumujianyiweihai，zheileirendetezhengbianshiniantoubianhuaduoduan，meiyoujingshenzhizhu，feichangrongyibeishangxia，yinertacaihuizaizhuduoyixingpengyouzhongjianyouyubuding，jiaocailiangzhichuan。

 yinciwanhuitadeguanjianhuanjie，bianshigaizhengtaderenzhinengli，rangtaganjue"duiyuwoeryan，shuoaiwoderenzuizhongyao，tanyuburongyiyaowodedaodaliang，wokeyizishenhexinzishenderichangshenghuo"。

xiaoyuancengfaduanxinjixiaoyuan：

 woduinihenhao，nishixiaodede，niyongyuanbuzhidaodeshi，nixiguanwoyizhiduinihao，yinciniwangjilezheijianshiqing。dangshidajiagangzaiyiqideqingkuangxia，dajiahuiyiqiqudagongzhuanqian，weilegenghaodimeihaodeweilaiyiqinuli，nifumubutongyi，niyefeidegenwozaiyiqi，youyuduinieryan，xihuanyigerengengguanjian。rujinyinweinifumurangnijiangjielegengqiangderen，nijiuxuyaogenwofenkai，niqueshihuixiaineibanderenma？nihuoshixiaopengyouxingqing，tarenshuoxieshenmejiutingnaxie，dajiahainenggoudanghaopengyou，keshiwoshibuhuisuishidaimingle，zuoweihaopengyou，wojuedequanni，xianggaoqingchuzishenyuanyidejiujingshishenme。

 zheitiaoxinxineironglimeiyouguitiannan，chedishilixingdezhengqueyindaodeyudiao，youyulingyifangjiarutaobini，huoshidichuni，niyidingyaoqujijicijixinglingyifang，lingtaduinizaochengxintai，zaochengyaoqiu，neiyangcaiyoujinyibukaiqigoutongqudaodejiyu。

第二，达到他人要求，给另一方复建归属感

 woqianbianshuoguo，xurongxindenvshengquefaguishugan，huibaanquanganjiyuzaiwuzhishenghuoshang，yinertahuihushiganqingdehexin，chixuquzhuiqiuwanmeibiaozhungengkuaidenansheng。jiaruninengzaigegefangmianjizutaguishugan，neimalingyifangjiufeichangrongyizaidubeiyaobaibuding。

 lirupeilingyifangguodutejieri，songlijilingyifang，lipindeshiyongjiazhibukeyidi，yucitongshibixupeiduilingyifangdeyaoqiu。zheiyilipinruguoshinihaofeijidaxiangfamainadaoshoude，neimalingyifangzaisongliwudeqingkuangxia，budannengdedaobeiguanxinbeiguanaidedadao，haihuijixuzaochengyidingdekuijiugan，kuijiuganyeshiyigezaiduyaoqingdetupokou，liruyiju"woneimejianxingoumaidaodewupinsongni，nixiagexingqishifouyingdangqingwoyongcan"，dandatichuyaoqiu。

zaizhenggeguochengzhong，bukeyizaibazijidezhuangtaijiangdi，wulunzenyangyaoxuehuixianglingyifangyaoshouyi。

 wodezhidao，guancheluoshidaoxiaoyuandeshenshangdeguochengzhonghenqudechenggong，zaisanciyouhuiyihou，xiaoyuanqueshiyaobaibudingle，taganjuezheixiexiangqinyuehuidenanhaizimeiyouxiaoyuanduitayongxin，yincitahuoshijuecegenxiaoyuanzaiyiqi。

keshizuizhongxuanzefangshoudeshixiaoyuan。youyuzaihehaoyihoutafajuexiaoyuanhuoshimeiyougenzhiqianlejiedeyixingpengyouwanquanduanjuelianluo。

 dangxiaoyuanganjuezishendezhenxinshiyizaidubeicaitadeqingkuangxia，xinlaiwanquanxiaoshile。chengxinchengyidegoutongjiaoliu、kuanrong、guanzhe，jiaruhuoshibukeyihuandelingyigerendetanchengyidai，neimajianchidaodiyeyoushenmeyiyini？

 tawangwangquwanhui，shiyouyujianxinzijizhiaiderenyeshitongyangdeaizishen，jiusuantayouquexian，fanguoshi，zishenyexiangyaoyuanliang，danzuizhongxiaoyuanfajue，xiaoyuanshitagenggaibushangderen。zenmewanliuchuguidenvren？

 xiaoyuangaosuwotabuhouhui，jiarumeiquwanhui，tajiumeiyoufuhexingdeqidai，lingyifangburongyijijihuijiazhaota。fuhexingyihoudeneiyiduansuiyue，tahenaixi，jishizaoyimingbaishirucidejieguo，tayiranhenxingyuncengyouneimeyiduansuiyue。

 jiarumeiquwanhui，tayeburongyifajuezheigerengenzishendequebushiyi。jiarumeiquwanhui，tahuizishizhizhongwangbudiao，zhidaorujin，tacaikeyishuxindequzhaoxindeyouyuanzhiren。congjintiankaishi，ganqingkeyicongtoukaishi，sheiyebuhuibianchengxiaoyuandedaitipinle。

wanhui，yikaishiqiudeshijieguo，keshizhihou，nijiuhuifaxian，wanhuishijishangqiudeshiquanguocheng。

 youderenhuizaiquanguochenglifanshengziji，jiuzhengzishenfanxiadebuzhengque，youderenhuizaiquanguochengligaoqingchu，youyixiewentizhongjiushinanyijiejuede，yeyouderenhuizaiquanguochenglimanmanxuehuifangxia。wulunzuizhongniyoumeiyouwanhuiqudechenggong，zuishaonizuochuleqinfen，zuochuqinfenjiubidinghuichuxianhuode，youshouhuojiufeichangzhide。

 zenmewanliuchuguidenvren？ganqing，nengrangrenxunsudefazhan，jiaruniqueshiwangbudiaoyigeren，wulunshiweishenme，wohaiqidaininengyingyongyici，wanhuiyihui，youyuwobuxiangnicuoguolecicifazhandejiyu，yebuxiangniliuyouquehan。