老公有外遇怎么办？要是老公出轨了怎么办

 ruhewanhuilaogongdexin，meiyigenvxingdouqiwangzishendehunyinmeimanxingfu，keshikeguanshishitongchangbujinrenyi，lirudangnimendehunyinshenghuozhongchuxianledisanzhedeqingkuangxia，niyexuhuitixiandecubujifanghuoshizuochupianzhigerenxingwei，zheigeshihoujiuqiahaojiledisanzhechengxuerrudejiyu，rangdisanzhegengweiyiyudequdechenggongshangtai。yaoshilaogongchuguilezenmeban？

 shijishangcikejiurutongyichangzhanshi，yaoxiangbajibaiwaizu，zuixianbukeyiziluanzhengjiao，haibixuyunyongyixiehelideduicejikezaizheiyichanghunyinbaoweizhanzhizhonghuosheng。zenyangyingduiyaoxiangshangtaidedisanzhe，wanhuilaogongdexin？

不恼不躁，不气不馁，优先选择冷暴力自身的情绪

 ruguonidisanzhezhaoshangmenlai，nihuozhizhangfupanbianlenideqingkuangxia，huichuziyubennengfanyingdezaochengfanzaobuan、yumendeqingxu，youshihounaizhihuijuedeyiguxueqizhuangjidanao，manmandeshinisangshibenrenlixing。

 dangqingxudenengliangzhanyoulehexinbuwei，cikezuochudeyiqiejuece，qichanshengdejielundoubidingbururenyi。zaihunyinshenghuofashengkunjingshi，dajiadiyibuyaochendezhuqi，jinkenengbikaizaoza、hanshizheixiezheileifeichangrongyijiajuqingxukunhuodexiaojiziranhuanjing。yaoshilaogongchuguilezenmeban？

爱她的家人们

 popoziranburuzishendeqinmuduizishenbaorongbeizhi，keshitazhongjiushizhangfudeqinmu，zixiaoqianxinwankudebazhangfuqianchechengzhangde，zainilaogongxinlizhuangtaikendingshiyouhengaodeyingxiangli，yinci，dangzheigeshihoujiarupopoxiangyaozhanchuqujinijianghuadehua，niwanliudecunhuolvbianhuigaoxuduole，zhangfuxiangyaofanhuijiazhong，disanzheyejiushunlichengzhangdexiaoshile。

与他约法三章，创建本身底线

 meiyigerenzairichangshenghuozhongdoushihuizaiqianyishizhongdiqukaoyanlingyifangdedixian，erjiaruyigerenmeiyoudixiandehua，jiudengtongyumeiyoudebiaozhun，zhinengzaitarendezhijieyingxiangxiacunhuo。zheiyangdeshiqingxia，tawaiyudefeiyongjihuweiling，tadangranhuichixuchuguile。

 yaoshilaogongchuguilezenmeban？yinci，nixuyaogentayuefasanzhang，shitamingbainidedixian，shitalejiezainimenzheiyichanghunyinshenghuozhizhong，shenmejiaokeyizuo，shenmeshibunengzuode，neiyangzaidangtapengchunidedixiandeqingkuangxia，likeduitakaizhanchayishuipingdechufa，neiyangtajiubugansuibiantiaozhannidedixianle。