如何智斗有孩子的第三者

 congmingqizizenmezhidoudisanzhe？congmingyuanpeizenyangzhidoudisanzhedeshiliwomenqishiwulunzaixinwenshanghaishixianshishenghuozhongdouyoutingguohenduo，danshizhenzhengfashengzaizijishenshang，nanmianhuishouwuzucuo。nanrenchugui，nvrendouhuihenqifen，sheidoubuyuanyilaogongbeiqitanvrenfenxiang。danlaogongyoudisanzhejiusuanle，guanjianshidisanzhehaiyoulehaizi，neimezheishiyuanpeigairuhezhidouyouhaizidedisanzheni？

一、如何智斗有孩子的第三者

1、和老公好好沟通

 congmingqizizenmezhidoudisanzhe？buzhidaolaogongwaiyu，keturandaizhehaizichuxiandedisanzherangnicubujifang，nixintong、nifennu，zhongyubaiganjiaojizhihounibaofale，kandaolaogongnijiurenbuzhuxiangyaochongshangqubaodatayidun。danzheiwanwanbuke，yinweizheiyangbudanbunenganzhaonideyisilaichulixiangguanshiyi，fanerhaihuiehuashiqingdejieju，suoyiyaoxiangjiejuezheijianshiqing，nijiubixulengjingxialai，helaogonghaohaogoutong。

2、共同安抚第三者

 ruhezhidouyouhaizidedisanzhe？disanzheganghuaihaizi，laogongyebuyuanyilihun，neinikeyichangshishuofuziji，changshizhezaijitayicijihui。nanrendoutaoyanmafandeshiqing，ruguoliangbiandoushiyiyangdefenliang，geshiyigenvrenheyigehaizi，neitayidinghaobuyouyudixuanzegengaigengzaihudeneiyifang，erneiyifangyidingshini，yinweitabuyuanyilihun，suoyizhiyaoninenggoushuofuzijijieshoucengjingbeipanguoaiqingdeta，nimenhaishinenggouhehaoruchude。

 congmingyuanpeizenyangzhidoudisanzhe，jiranlaogongbuyuanlihun，neimenijiukeyixunqiuyixiezhuanyerenshidebangmang，zhiyaofuqitongxinxieli，duifudisanzheshifeichangrongyideshiqing。zhiyaonimenshanglianghaolegongtongchulizheijianshiqing，disanzhetayemeiyoubanfajiuchan，gentashuoming，ruguolaogongburenzhang，tabahaizishengxialaiyezhishizijijizijizhaozhaozuishou。