智斗第三者挽回出轨要离婚老公

 dangfaxianlaogongchuguile，daduoshunvrendouhuibeifennuchonghunletounao，zheiyangfanerhuijiajumaodun，gaizenmezhidouchuguilaogongni，xiamian huazhenqinggandaoshi jiushuoshuozhidoudisanzhewanhuichuguiyaolihunlaogong。

一、智斗第三者挽回出轨要离婚老公

1、了解第三者

 zhidoulaogongdisanzhe，suowei“zhijizhibi，baizhanbudai”，xiangyaodadaodisanzhe，zuizhongyaodejiushiyaolejiedisanzhe，zheiyangcainengdongderuheduifuzhidoulaogongdisanzhe。lejiedisanzhebuguangyaozhidaotaxingshamingsheijiazhuhechu，gengzhongyaodeshiyaolejietademudehexinsi。meiyourenhedisanzheyuyigeanrenzaiyiqihuizuodaomomofuchu，buqiuhuibaode。huoshitancai，huoshitanming，disanzhemenchengweidisanzhezongyousuotu，fouzeyebuhuiyouneimeduodeguanyuanyinweibeiqingfujubaoerluomale。zaifaxianlezhangfuyoudisanzhedejixiangzhihou，qiziyaojinkuaichushou，pangqiaocejididatingdisanzhedexiaoxi。zheishihou，zhangfudeneixiepengyouhuozhetongshijiuchengweilezuizhongyaodetupokou。yinweiqizizongshizuihouyigezhidaodisanzhedecunzaide，duoyuzhangfushenbianderengoutong，nenggouzaizuiduandeshijianneihuoquyoulixiaoxi。

2、稳住情绪

 zaizhidaoledisanzhedemudehou，shiqingchuliqilaiziranfangbiandeduole。ercishicikezuizhongyaode，jiushiqiziyaowenzhuzijideqingxu。xuduoqizizaizhidaoledisanzhedecunzaizhihou，zuichangshiyongdeshouduanjiushiyikuernaosanshangdiao，youshinaozijidenanren，youshinaodisanzhe，zheidoushishifenbukequde。suoweidibudongwobudong，shiqingjiranyijingfasheng，qizizaizhejiyemeiyouyong，yaoxiangbaozhuhunyin，jiuyaozijixianlengjingxialai。yaozhidao，disanzhezhisuoyidangdisanzhe，doushiyoumudede，buguanshiweileqianhaishiweilemingfen。ercishi，qiziyaoguanchazhangfudexingwei，kankanzhangfushifouweiledisanzheyuanyifangqiyiqiecaichanyujiating。

 ruguozhangfubingmeiyoulihundeniantou，neirangdisanzhezijichutouhuishigenghaodexuanze。zhengsuoweimingjianyiduo，anjiannanfang。disanzhezijizhaoshangmenlai，neijiushideqingkuangle，zheiyiweizhetawufacongnanrenneilihuodexiangyaodedongxi，zhinengtongguolijianqiziyuzhangfudeganqinglaidadaomude。yinciqiziyudisanzhedandujianmian，yidingyaokongzhizhuzijideqingxu。wulundisanzheshuoshenme，doubuyaoshuochuduizhangfubumanshenzhizemadehuayu，zheihenrongyirangdisanzheyoujikecheng。zuiweizhengquedezuofashizuoerjinyouerchu，jiusuanxinlinuhuozhongshaoyebuyaobiaoxianchulai，rangdisanzhedemudewufadacheng。ruoshiyoutiaojian，badisanzheshuodehuadouluxialai，yihoubujinkeyizuoweirangzhangfuduidisanzheshiwangdewuqi，guanjianshikehaikeyibangzhuzijibaozhucaichan。

3、增加耐心

 xuduoqizizaifaxianzhangfuyouledisanzhezhihou，huoshijiqiedixiangyaolihun，huoshijiqiedixiangyaojiangzhangfulahuilai。danshiqizimenquebucengkaolv，duiyudisanzhelaishuo，tamenyoushishishenme?neijiushihunyinzheigechoumale。duiyuqizilaishuo，youlehunyinjiudengyuyouleyiqiedisanzhexiangyaodedongxi。duiyuyigenanrenlaishuo，xuanzeleyigenvrenweiqi，shijingguolexiangyu、xiangzhi、xiangaidengmanzhangdeshijianyukaoyancaijuedinglede。erduiyudisanzhelaishuo，nanrenwangwangshizaichuyureliandeshiqicaihuiduiqiziguoyulengdan。cishideqizizhixuyaodengdaizheiduanshijianguoqu，dengtamendeganqingjiangwen，zaijiayiganshe，nenggouhuodegengjialianghaodexiaoguo。ruguonixiangyaokuaisuwanhuilaogongchuguidexin，jiuyaonuliduifudisanzhele，dabaidisanzhedesigejuezhaoweinichumouhuace，chenggongganzoudisanzhe!

4、拉拢亲人

 ruguoniyugonggongpopodeguanxihenhao，neiwuxingdangzhongtamenjiuchenglenizuiyoulidewuqi。nenggouyuerxifuguanxihenhaodegongpo，zaisanguanshangjibenshangdoushizhengquede，duiyuzijierziwaiyudexingweikendinghuijiayiganshe。danshisuoweideganshe，bingbushirangzijidegongpoquzhaodisanzhenaoshi，ershirangtamencongdaodehechuantongdengzhengquedefangmianjiayiyindao。tongshi，qiziduigongpodehao，zhangfushihuikanzaiyanlide，zheixiezaibiyaoshikedoushishifenzhongyaodeqinqingpai。

 ruguoshiyouhaizidejiating，qizikeyigenghaodiliyonghaizizheigechouma。dahaohaizizheizhangqinqingpai，bushizaihaizimianqianshuozijizhangfudeduoshaobushi，ershirangzhangfuchouchugengduodeshijianpeihaizi。erzijiyekeyizhuangzuozaibujingyijianliuluchuduirucichengzhidezhangfuruhezanshangdexinsi，zheiyanghuizengjiazhangfuduiyuchuguidekuijiugan，yeyouliyuzhangfuhuiguijiating。

5、提升自己

 zhidouchuguilaogong，guanjianhaishiyaotishengziji，meiyigezaoyudisanzhedenvrendiyijianhuisikaodeshiqingjiushi，zijizhendebugouhao，yizhiyuzhangfuquzhaodisanzhema?zheizhongxintaishishifenzhengchangde，danyeshihuirangqizixianruguaiquandexintai。qiziyaoshikejizhu，wulunruhe，zhangfuzaiwaimianyouledisanzhe，tadeguocuoshidayunide。raner，nanrendouyouzheyikehaitongbandexin，youqishichuguihoubeifaxiandenanren，jiuxiangyigezuocuoshidexiaohai，zheishihoujiyutagengduodeguanxinheai，gengyouliyutahuiguijiating。eryucitongshi，qiziyaoshizherangzijiyucongqianbutong。zhenzhengyouxiudenvxingshibuhuisuizhenianlingdezengzhangerbianzhide，nvxingjiuxianghongjiu，youlesuiyuedechendiancaihuigengjiachunhou。congjuedinggaibiandeneiyikeqi，huoshimeiyueduoduyibenshu，duojiaoyigepengyou，meinianduoyicilvyou，doukeyirangniyougenghaodexinjinghegengchongshidetounao。