为什么会有第三者出现 ？如何对付第三者

 ruheduifudisanzhe？tiaoxuanwanhunshiyouyuai，ertiaoxuanwanbihunyinshiyouyushenme？rujinyulaiyuduodehunyinzaoshoubeiju，doushiyouyutongyigeyuangu，neibianshidisanzhechazu，neimayingduidisanzhechazudehunyinyingdangzenmechulini？

1、家中中有一方过度强势

 ruheduifudisanzhe？yiduanshenxinjiankangdehunyin，fuqijiandeguanlianyinggaishigongpingde。lianggerenzhongjianyaohuxiangzunzhong，xianghuzhijianrentong，huxiangguanxin。wulunshinanrenhuoshinvren，yebuyingdangguoduqiangshi。nvrenguoduqiangshi，nanrenhuiganjuebuzixindiumianzi。beiyapojiule，bianhuixiangqitanvrenxunzhaoyouyuegan。zheishihou，dangyigenvrenzaitayanqianzhanshichuruanruobixuweihudeyimian，feichangrongyijiubeimizhu。ernanrenguoduqiangshi，duinvrenquanbuxiangchudouqiangjiayuganyudehua，huizaochengnvrendedichu。nanrenyuefajinzhi，tajiuyueganjuecuojialeren，guodebugaoxing，zhangciyiwangyehuichuxianwaiyudejixiang。

2、两口子外地感情出现问题

 qingganshibixuguanaide，lianfenbugushendeyiguoliandoudaduoshuyouyuanwufen，genghekuangshibixuyingduiyouyanjiangcudengzhongduomoliandefuqi，yeshibukeyilianggedifanggekai。shexiang，ruguonigongzuozhongshoulebiequfanhuijiazhongshengengbanye，lianyidunrefanyemeiyoudeqingkuangxia，shifoumengranjiubiequfanbei？dangxiaohaishenyedebing，nizhiyouyigerenhuaizhexiaohaiwangyiyuanmenzhenpaodeqingkuangxia，shifouganjuehenwunai……yitiannenggou，yigexingqinenggou。dantianzhangrijiuni？zongshihuipijuan！

3、夫妻一方欠缺使命感

 fuqilingjiehunzhengdaibiaozhenaxie？chukainimendehunyinjiedaofalvfaguideweihuwai，gengdaibiaozhenimenzhongjianyongyouyiwuyuzeren。shubuzhi，youderenjiehunyihouhuoshiyirujiwangdebuchengshu，zhushiyizishenweizhudao。ruhechulidisanzheguanxi？zaitamenneixin，chedimeiyoujiazhongdedingyi。meiridianjizheruhegenjiuroupengyouxiaguang，jiazhonglaonianrenxiaohaizidouwulun，zuihouzaochengyifangxinrusihuierlingzeguanai。

4、夫妻之间不愿意沟通交流

 tiaoxuanwanhunshiyouyuai，ertiaoxuanwanbihunyinshiyouyushenme？rujinyulaiyuduodehunyinzaoshoubeiju，doushiyouyutongyigeyuangu，neibianshidisanzhechazu，neimayingduidisanzhechazudehunyinyingdangzenmechulini？

如何对付第三者

1、jiazhongzhongyouyifangguoduqiangshi

 yiduanshenxinjiankangdehunyin，fuqijiandeguanlianyinggaishigongpingde。lianggerenzhongjianyaohuxiangzunzhong，xianghuzhijianrentong，huxiangguanxin。wulunshinanrenhuoshinvren，yebuyingdangguoduqiangshi。nvrenguoduqiangshi，nanrenhuiganjuebuzixindiumianzi。beiyapojiule，bianhuixiangqitanvrenxunzhaoyouyuegan。zheishihou，dangyigenvrenzaitayanqianzhanshichuruanruobixuweihudeyimian，feichangrongyijiubeimizhu。ernanrenguoduqiangshi，duinvrenquanbuxiangchudouqiangjiayuganyudehua，huizaochengnvrendedichu。nanrenyuefajinzhi，tajiuyueganjuecuojialeren，guodebugaoxing，zhangciyiwangyehuichuxianwaiyudejixiang。

2、liangkouziwaidiganqingchuxianwenti

 qingganshibixuguanaide，lianfenbugushendeyiguoliandoudaduoshuyouyuanwufen，genghekuangshibixuyingduiyouyanjiangcudengzhongduomoliandefuqi，yeshibukeyilianggedifanggekai。shexiang，ruguonigongzuozhongshoulebiequfanhuijiazhongshengengbanye，lianyidunrefanyemeiyoudeqingkuangxia，shifoumengranjiubiequfanbei？dangxiaohaishenyedebing，nizhiyouyigerenhuaizhexiaohaiwangyiyuanmenzhenpaodeqingkuangxia，shifouganjuehenwunai……yitiannenggou，yigexingqinenggou。dantianzhangrijiuni？zongshihuipijuan！

3、fuqiyifangqianqueshiminggan

 fuqilingjiehunzhengdaibiaozhenaxie？chukainimendehunyinjiedaofalvfaguideweihuwai，gengdaibiaozhenimenzhongjianyongyouyiwuyuzeren。shubuzhi，youderenjiehunyihouhuoshiyirujiwangdebuchengshu，zhushiyizishenweizhudao。zaitamenneixin，chedimeiyoujiazhongdedingyi。meiridianjizheruhegenjiuroupengyouxiaguang，jiazhonglaonianrenxiaohaizidouwulun，zuihouzaochengyifangxinrusihuierlingzeguanai。

4、fuqizhijianbuyuanyigoutongjiaoliu

 yixiejingliguokankankekede“laofuqi”，renweijiaowangjiulejiubuyonggoutongjiaoliule。yincihuijialezhihoujiugemanggegedeshoujishang，buhuizaijianghua。benlaishi2gezuishenaideren，quehaoxiang2geluren，meitianpengmian，meitianshuizaiyiqi，goutongjiaoliuhaibibushangyibanpengyou。shijianyizhang，liangshijianyuelaiyuezaiwugongtongyuyan，xinyeyuezouyueyuanle。