婚姻遭遇了第三者，女人应当如何应对呢？怎样对付第三者？

 ganqingjishixiaxiaoyeshizisizilide，youyuzaiganqingquanqiulishizhuangbuxiadisangerenfashenghecunyoude，mianduidisanzhezhengquedeyingduifangshiyounaxie？woyejianxinzheiyiquanshijiemeiyounayigenvrenxiangyaoyuqitanvxinggongxiangziyuanzishendelaogong，eryucitongshifalvfaguiheshehuidaodeyebuyunxuneiyangdeshierchansheng，neiyangcaiyongyouyifuyiqizhi。yinci，beidisanzhechazudehunyinshenghuo，dabufenzhuangkuangxiaquanshiyichangbumeimanhunyin，youyuhunyinshenghuodefengxishimeiyoubanfachedixiufuhaode。zenyangduifudisanzhe？

 dangyigejiazhongbeidisanzhechazushi，zhengshidechulifangfayehuidaozhifeichangdashuipingdeweihai，mouyixiezhengshihuiyinerzuochujiduanhuabulizhideshier，neiyangzongshizaochengjushiyuelaiyueyanzhong，zuihouhuiyinernaodebugaoerbietaruqinggandebuguidian。tangruonidehunyinshenghuobeidisanzhechazule，niliyingzenyangtuoshanchulini？zenyangduifudisanzhe？

第一点，切勿又哭又闹，让自身变为一个悍妇。

 zenyangduifudisanzhe？youyixienvxingzaizhidaozishenchuguinanrenhou，changchangyouyumeifahuifuxinlidenuhuoerdachaodanao，chaodezuolinyoulidouhenwunai，shenzhiyouquweigongdisanzhe，bingduidisanzhezhixingeyizhongshanghuoshiwurulaipaiqi，tamenrenweineiyangjiunengrangzishendezhangfuhehaoruchu。quebuzhidao，neiyangzuozongshibazijidezhangfuyuetuiyuezhang，nidezheileizuofahuishinizhangfuganjueniqueshibibushangdisanzhe。

 mianduidisanzhezhengquedeyingduifangshiyounaxie？youkuyounaozongshibuliyuzishendepinpaixingxiang，yingduizhebaimeiqianjiaodedisanzhe，nijiaruduinizhangfuzuoneiyangdeshier，zongshishinizaizhangfudexinlibuduandikoufen，jiaruniyinerhaiqujingongdisanzhele，neimaniyejiucongshouhairenbianchenglehairenbuqiande。neiyangzuodebuliangyingxiangbianshinizhangfuhuichedimoqudiaozaitaxinliduinideyisineijiu。

第二点，切勿开演悲凉戏。

 youyixienvxingzaifajueledisanzhedecunyouzhihou，taburongyiquyoukuyounao，zhishixuanyongtuoyanzhanshu，tabianshipaodaoqinpenghaoyougebilinjusukuzhangfudezhuduochugui，bazijichedifangdaoleyigeshouhairendebuweishang，wangtugenjuzheileifangfarangqinpenghaoyouduizhangfukaizhanshijiayali。zhangfuhuijialehoubianduitashiyeshiyifupofudepinpaixingxiang，wangtushitachixudebeineijiusuocuican，zuihouchengshoubuleerhehaoruchu。

 jiaruniqueshineiyangganle，neibianshidacuotecuole，youyuwangtugenjudadonghelianminqiulaidenansheng，nishiqiubuhuitadezhenxinshiyide。zheiyicitayinergenzheiyidisanzheduandiaoguanlian，keshikendinghaihuijixuyouxiayici，neimaniyejiuhuiyibeizizaiweizheijianshiqingdanzhanxinjing，fandaonongdezishenzhongribuanning。

 shijishang，jinyourangzishencongrongdandingdegerenxingweicaisuanshibaoweihunyindezuihaoshifangfa，yexuyouyixienvxinghuiganjuezheinanyizhixin，zishendezhangfudouxuyaobeidisanzhebahunmizhule，haizenyangkeyicongrongdandingni？zheierdecongrongdandingbingbingbushibuxunidikang，zhishixuanyong“rangwaibixianannei”defangfa，yingduidisanzhezheijianshiqingyaojiazhuangmobuguanxin，zhiqianwogaihequhecongrizi，rujinhaizenmewan。yaoxiangbanfashengchanzhizaodisanzheyunizhangfuzhongjiandefenqi，rangdisanzhejuedezainizhangfuxinzhongzhonghuoshizheigezhengshigengweiguanjian。neiyangdechulifangfahuishinizhangfumanmandisangshixinxiancijixingganerjianjiandidelengdandisanzhe。jiaruyiweidiqudachaodanao，nibudanmeiyouqianghuinidezhangfu，fandaoshiququanbu，hengliangyixia，jiujingnayigehuasuanni？

 mianduidisanzhezhengquedeyingduifangshiyounaxie？zhishangzheizhongchulifangfashijishangquanshibunenggenchude，jiejuekunnandeyagenhuoshinanrenyaoyizhiyixiazishen，ernvxinghaiyaomingbaicongbenshenshangzhaozhaoyuangu，yexubenshenyouzuodebutaihaodediqucairanglaogongyouwaiyu。jiarukeyibaozhengsikaobenshen，bingjiangfajuedenantigenggaiyixia，huoxujiunengzaicixiyinzhuzhangfu，zheicaisuanshijibaidisanzhedezuihaoshifangfa。