老公有第三者要离婚如何处理第三者关系，聪明的女人懂得先掌握财政

 jinqichangchanghuishoudaoyixienvhaidesiliao，shuozishendenanyouyongyoudisanzhe，buqingchugaizenmechuli。ruhechulidisanzheguanxi？wojuedexianshuodeyidianshi：bubihuaizheyizhongnanrendisanzhesiyufeimingdefangfaqugoutongjiaoliu，erqie，quanbudedisanzhequanshinenggoufenlichulaide。chulidisanzhezuihaofangshiyounaxie？

jiarunifajueledisanzhe，suihouganjueyouyixindenanrenaigouyinrendedisanzhebidingyouebao，neinijiuzaoyishudiao。

 woshifenlejieni，youyupengdaoairenwaiyu，zishenhaixiangyaoxiufuganqingshiyigeshifennankanqietongchudejushi。keshiyimeizhuiqiuwanmeineixinshijiedechunzhen，daishang【disanzhehuizaobaoying】dexinlizhuangtaitichufenshou，nibuyidinghuijiandaozishenyaoxiangdejushi。

 zhangfuyoudisanzhelihunleruheyingdui?zheiyishehuifazhanzhong，zhiyouqingganshizuilingrenzhuomobutoude，zhangfuhuiweilegenghaodidisanzhehezishenliyi，neimaconghuilaopoyinggaizenmeban?kanlaiyixiaba。

1、整理自身的心态

 ruhechulidisanzheguanxi？jiaruniyaoxiangxianggeconghuidenvshiyiban，keyizaiduideqingkuangxiazuoduidetiaoxuandehua，zuixianshifenguanjiandeyidianneibianshiweichidanaodelizhijixintaideningjing。

 jinyouzailizhideqingkuangxiawomenderendedanaozishizuoyongcaiburongyicuoluan，caiyoukenengzuochuqiadangdefenbianhetiaoxuan，xintaideningjingzaizheigezhongyaoqingkuangxiaduixiaohaideweihaishijudade，xiaohaizaizheigeshihouneixinduibabamamadeguanlianshifenbijiaomingan。

 tanenggouhenqingchudeganshoudaofumuzaikangzheng，fuqindexinzaoyimeiyouzheiyijiale，erzheigeshihoutazuibixudeshimamadeshouhou，erqierangxiaohailejiejiazhongfashengshenmeshishi。chulidisanzhezuihaofangshiyounaxie？

2、不必让自身深陷混乱的焦虑不安中

 jiatingzhanzhengshimeiyouxiaoyandezhanchang，buguanzairuheguzuozhending，jiazhongdeqifenrengranshijiaolvbuaneryayigande，yuefazaineiyangdeqingkuangxiagengyaorangzishenxianggetaiyangguang，erbushipofu。

 zaochengaizaoshanghuoshiyaozaoshang，gaiqingjieweishenghuoshiqingjieweisheng，gaifangshenggechanghuoshifangshenggechang，gaichuanzhedabandehuazhizhaozhanwaichujiuyongxinchuanzhedaban。

 zheibudanrangquanbujiazhongdedongnenggengzhenglianjijizhudong，shinihexiaohaidexintaihuodegaijin，bingqieyehuirangzhangfuduinilingyanxiangkan，tayizhirenweijiushinibixuta，taburongyiyishidao，neimezhangqizhijin，tacaisuanshineiyigezuiyikaoderen。

3、把守卫资产放到第一位

 buguanzuizhongshibushiyidingliyi，keshizhenduizichanyidingbukeyicuxindayi。tajiranzaoyidaomingquetichuliyideshuiping，zhenduiqianyizichanzheileigerenxingweiyidingyegandechu。shouweihaozishenzichan，tashirichangshenghuodequebao。chulidisanzhezuihaofangshiyounaxie？

4、争得公公婆婆(亲朋好友)这张牌

hegonggongpopodeguanlianruhe?fashengneiyangdezhuangkuang，tamenkeyilizaizishendezheiyifang?

jiarudajiadeguanlianjiaowanghemu，tamenduinishifenrentong。neimazheizhenduishuodonglaogonghehaoruchushishifenyouyide。

5、到非离不能的水平，一定要争得较大权益

 jiarugenjuzishendeqinfen，wuliwanhuihunyinshenghuo，neimabibushangfangkaishou。jingxialai，zhengdejiaodadequanyi，qiefenzichanshi，yidingyaoduozhengde。

ruhechulidisanzheguanxi？ruguoyouxiaohai，zaihaizidefuyangquanshangbubiganqingyongshi，yaokaolvdaoxiaohaidexinshenfazhanqushi。