第三者和原配的较量

 yuanpeibaodadisanzhezheizhongshiqingzaoyibushixinxianshile。wangluoshangyouzhongduoguanyudisanzheheyuanpeidegushi，xianglaidoushidisanzhewanshengyuanpei，xianshaoyouyuanpeizuizhongduohuizijidelaogong，laogongzuizhongfaxiancuowulede。jiusuanshiyuanpeizuizhongyingle，fuqixiangchudeweidaoyehuibianle。

 duiyuyuanpeideshiluogan，henduofuqikeyitonggangongku，quewufatonggangongxiang。neidoushiyinweiwomenzhangdale，shiqulenianqingshineixieqingse，bianchenglezhenzhengdedaren，huiguotouqucaifaxianshenbianzheiyiqiedouxiguanle。caihuijuedefawei，xiangyaoxunzhaoyixiecijihelangman。

 youhuozheshijuedeneixienianqingrenzuozhezijicengzuoguodeshi，xiangyaoshenshouqubangzhu，quexianzaileneigewenrouxiangli，chongjingzheguoquneixiewufayongyoudedongxi。yuanbenzaineixieniandoukeyifangzong，keyibuyongbeifutaiduo，zuoneimeleideshiqing。qiaqiaxiangfan，fanerzheiyangzuoquejiangshenbianderenshanghaile，ertahaiyangyangdeyi，jiangbierendeshangkousiyibokailaizhanlan。

 ruguojuedehentongku，jiufangshouba.ruguozheigenanrenaini？youliangxintajiubuhuiduinirucidecanren，buhuibeipanni，zheiyangdenanrenyebuzhideniyonghoubanyushengqubaofuheshouhou。

 erzhenduiyuanpeibiandisanzhe，zheiyechangchangrangnvxingyixiazichengweileshouhaizhe，shenzhizuihuaidejieguohuishinvxingzuizhongbuzaixiangxinaiqing。zheigeshehuiyoushihuirangniyayangyang，neijiushigongzhongduidainanxingtaiguoyukuanrong，erwangwangnvxingshishenshouqihaide。

 womenwulunruhedouyaocaliangwomendeshuangyan，jiusuanyishihutuyebuyaofangqizijiduizijideai，ziduizijideguanhuaishizhiguanzhongyaode，dangtianheishi，jideweizijiliuyizhandeng。aiqingjibulezijide，yaobashijiantouzizaizijishenshang，qianwanbuyaonashijianquguoduodeshanggan、yuanhen。

 youxierenkenenghuijuedezheishihennandeshiqing，mingmingjiushidisanzhedebuhao，pohuaibierendejiatinghexie，nashenmequkuanrong。shenzhiyouxierenjiandisanzhejiugenkanjianzhanglangyiyang，henbudelimajiangtamenjiejue。

 yushiwangshang、shenghuozhongjiuhuicunzaigezhongyuanpeibaodadisanzhedeshijian。zuoweinvxinglaishuo，womenyaodongdewenzhuqi，qiaqiashiyinweiwomenshiyuanpei，caibuzhideyudisanzhejijiao，yaoburan，disanzheheyuanpeiyidaqilai，zhenbuzhidaoneigeshidisanzhe，sheicaishiyuanpei。genghekuangyiduanhunyin，nengbeidisanzhechaisande，yebuzhidequwanhui。

安全感自己给自己的，是别人夺不去的。与其花时间去跟老公讨论爱不爱对方，倒不如，每天问问自己，今天的自己有没有得到提升，有没有更爱自己多一点，心灵的宝藏，任由再多的第三者都是夺不走的。而当原配变第三者这种戏码落在自己身上，也能够学会心平气和，自万物烦扰，我自享受生活的境界。