第三者劝退师可信吗？

 niyoumeiyoutingshuoguodisanzhequantuishi？disanzhequantuishizongtilaishuoshiyigejiaoniruhezhidoudisanzhedezhiwei，leisidehaiyoudisanzheluntan。

一、定义

 disanzhequantuishi，yeshiqinggandaoshidetudi，nengjinxing“hunwaiqingchuli”，lijianji、jingjiliyou……tamenshenhuaisanshiliujibangzhuyuanpei“quantui”disanzhe。zhengge“hunyinzhuangkuangzixun”dao“hunwaiqingchuli”，tuanduichengyuanzhongbaohanlvshi、xintaizixunshidengdeng。

二、收费

 hunyinzixunmeixiaoshisiwubai“waiyujiaozhi”gaodajishiwan“womendefuwuxiangmuyouhunyinweihu、weiquan、qingganshudao、waiyujiaozhideng。tamengenjunanyichengdu，shoufeishaozejiqianyuanduozejishiwan。erchengbenkaizhizhuyaobaokuolezheisanbufen：gongzuorenyuandegongzi；gongzuoqijianchi、hedenghuodongfeiyong；haiyoujiushiduidisanfangtourudefeiyong。”ershenmeshidisanfangtourufei，yufengjieshi：jiushizai“quantui”disanzhedeguochengzhong，youzhuanrenquyu“disanzhe”jiaopengyou，erzaijiejiaodeguochengzhongkenenghuitourudefeiyong。putongdehunyinzixunshishoufeishi400yuan/xiaoshi，shouxizixunshishoufeizewei500yuan/xiaoshi。”zhongqingjialijiawaihunyinjiatingfuwuzhongxingongzuorenyuangaosujizhe，shoufeileibieshang，chuleanxiaoshishoufeiwaihaiyouxieyishoufei。

 “zhuyaozhenduiwaiyujiaozhifuwu，jutifeiyonggenjufuwunanyichengduerding，congshiwanyuandaosansishiwanyuandedouyou，xieyishoufeijunweitigongfuwuqianyicixingshoufei。”cihunyinfuwuzhongxindeshouxixintaizixunshiyufengtidao：quanshiyou20duojiaxiangsijigou，danshiduoshuzhinengzuohunyinzixun，zhiyoutamennengtigonghunwaiqingdabaofuwu，yejiushi“quantui”disanzhedefuwu。

三、工作方法

 jizhecaifangzhongfaxian，hunwaiqingchulijigouzai“quantui” disanzheguochengzhongyijingxingchengleyizhengtaode“bingfa”，yingduibutongdehunyinzhuangkuangyoubutongdechulifangshi。biruduixingshenghuobuhexiexingcaiyongyiyanfa、duiliangdifenjuxingcaiyongyiweifa、duigoutongbuchangxingcaiyongyiqingfadengdeng。

 paizhuanrenjiejiaodisanzheyouyizhengtao“bingfa”lai“quantui”。hunwaiqingchulijigouzai“quantui” disanzheguochengzhong，yijingxingchengleyizhengtaode“bingfa”，yingduibutongdehunyinzhuangkuang，youbutongdechulifangshi。biruduiliangdifenjuxingcaiyongyiweifa、duixingshenghuobuhexiexingcaiyongyiyanfa、duigoutongbuchangxingcaiyongyiqingfadengdeng。

四、行业“九项注意”

 zaikaizhan“disanzhequantui”gongzuozhongbixuzunshou“sandajilv”、“jiuxiangzhuyi”，qizhong“sandajilv”weirenzhenweihu“yifuyiqi”dehunyinfalv;jueduibaoshou“ernai、disanzhe”degerenyinsi;yangezhixing“weiqingyongxin”、“weiquanyongfa”dezongzhi。er“jiuxiangzhuyi”zewei：“quantuiyanxing”budeciji“disanzhe”;“yiqingliaofa”budeaishang“disanzhe”;“yiweiliaofa”budeqipian“disanzhe”;“jieruliaofa”budeweixie“disanzhe”;“yaneliaofa”budewuru“disanzhe”;“xushiliaofa”budetongqing“disanzhe”;“tidailiaofa”budewudao“disanzhe”;“mingliliaofa”budeyouhuo“disanzhe”;“zhengnianliaofa”budetanhu“disanzhe”。

五、行业争议

 “disanzhequantuishi”dechansheng，shishichangxuqiuzuoyongdejieguo。raner，meiyigexinxingzhiyehexinxingxingyedechuxian，doucunzaiyidingdefazhanfengxian，ruguobujishiguifan，jiuhuichanshenggezhongnanyiyuqidewenti。tongshi，youyugongzuoneirongdeteshu，zai“quantuidisanzhe”deguochengzhongzhonghenkenengshejidaojianting、genzong，shenzhishirenshenanquanwenti，suishiyouweifandaodehechufanfalvdefengxianhekeneng，xuyaoyincicongyezhe、xiangguanjigoujixiangguanbumendezugouzhongshi。

 xinxingxingyeyaoxiangchixufazhan，bixuyaoyouwanshandezhiduguifanheyueshu。zheijiuxuyaoxiangguanbumenyaojinkuaigenju“disanzhequantuishi”degongzuoshiji，zhidingcongyebiaozhunhegongzuozhunze，guifanqigongzuoxingwei。tongshi，jinkuailuoshiduigaixingyedejianguan，binghuyujiaqiangxingyezilv，yindaoxingyeanquanjiankangfazhan。ciwai，haikedui“disanzhequantuishi”jinxingxiangyingdezhiyezigerenzheng，duimeigecongyezhedejishushuiping、zhiyedaodedengfangmianjinxingkexuepingjia，yibaozhengcongyerenyuandeyewusuzhihenengli。

六、专家观点

 shanghaihengjianlvshishiwusuohehuorenpanshuhongrenwei，chuxianyihunyinjiatingweijingyingyewudeqiye，shexianfeifajingying，weituofangheqiyefangdouxuyaoshenzhongxingshi。

 panshuhongshuo，qiyezaigongshangzhucehou，xiangshehuiminzhongtigongshehuigonggongshiwu、falvshiwudeng，zaishijicaozuozhong，jingchanghuishejiqinfandangshirenyinsi。dangxia，zhongguojuyouhunyindiaojiequandeduoshishequjuweihui，sifaxingzhengjiguanxiashedesifasuo、diaojieweiyuanhuidengyouquanjigou。qiyeyongshichangjingyingxingweicanyuzheigewenti，tahuaiyishejifeifajingying，shejiweifafanzuidengwenti。

 shanghaidaxueshehuixuezhuanjiahushenshengzerenwei，shehuichuxian“disanzhequantuishi”henhuangtang，henhuangmiu，youhuazhongquchongdexuetou。qiyedazhe“quantuidisanzhe”zhishihuangzi，zhuanqiancaishizhenshideyitu。“disanzhe”wangwangshiyinbifang，zhengshifaxianzhangfuyou“disanzhe”，tongguoqiyejieruquantui，caiqushouduanhefangfashibushifalvyunxude。

disanzhequantuishihedisanzheluntandounengjiaoniruhezhidoudisanzhe，danshiyigejiagegaoangyigezhenduixingdi。