发现老公出轨第三者该怎么挽回老公的心？

 faxianlaogongchuguidisanzhegaizenmewanhuilaogongdexin？henduochuguidelaogongdouyouyouzhilaogongdexingge。tamenjiuxiangshixiangyaobeifumuzhaogudehaizi。ruguonimangyujiawu、yuer、gongzuo，tahenkenengweileyinqinidezhuyierchugui。

1、正确认识出轨责任方。

 zaiyishangguanniandeyingxiangxia，wolaopohuizuodejiushirenweichuguishizijidecuo。zaixiaojidexinlianshixia，tamianqiangrongrenzhangfuchugui，rangtagengjiasiwujidan，nimendehunyinjijikewei。zhengquedexintaishizhangfuyoubuketuixiedezeren，qiziyezhanyibufenyuanyin。

 conggenbenshangshuo，guanxizhongderenhewentidoushinanfangzaochengde，yinweitameiyoujinliquyindaonvren，daozhitawuruqitu，dabudaogongtongdemoqi。suoyihunyinguanlibuhaoshilianggerendeshi。qingtingzhizize。nibuxuyaoweicigandaoneijiuhexiuchi。shuoshenme，zuoshenme，zenmezuojueding，doushinishuolesuan。nibuyongkaolv“bimianranglaogongbukaixin”“ranglaogongjuedezhannifu”zheizhongshiqing。

2.抛弃老公出轨是我的错。

 mianduiqizidetiwen，youxienanrenhuijiwenroudeqiziguanshuzuieganhexiuchigan，lizhiqizhuangdishuo:“wochuguishinidecuo。”。zaiduinvxingdejiaoyushang，henduojiatingbayuanliang、huoda、bufapiqidangzuomeide。“nishinvsheng，bunengzheimeguzhi。”“jiuzheiyang，yuanliangtajiuhao。”;ruguoshinansheng，nikeyishuo“nihendiaopi”，nvshengbuxing。

 zheixiejingliyiciyouyicidejilei，rangnvxingyangchengleyayifennuhekuanrongtarendexiguan。suoyi，ruguobunengyuanliangduifang，jiuhuiduizijideyanxinggandaokuijiu。“zheizhongshiwoyinggairenzhe，weishenmewobunengyuanliangta?”wojuedewoshiyigehenkepaderen，weicigandaoxiuchi。

3.不要假装不知道。

 henduochuguidelaogongdouyouyouzhilaogongdexingge。tamenjiuxiangshixiangyaobeifumuzhaogudehaizi。ruguonimangyujiawu、yuer、gongzuo，tahenkenengweileyinqinidezhuyierchugui。yejiushishuo，ruguonijiazhuangmeifaxiantachugui，henyoukenengzhuzhangnilaogongdeguduganhefennu。ruguobufaxianlaogongchugui，huirangtagandaoshiwang，xianrugengshendekunjing。

 danshi，zhidaozhenxianghenkepa，buzhidaozhenxianggengkepa。xiwangninengjizhuzheijuhua。ruguonibuzhidaozhenxiang，nihuiyongbuhaodefangshisikao，zheibujinhuirangnitongku，haihuirangnidezhangfuchengdanchaochushijixingweidezuize。ruguojuedelaogongxingweikeyi，zhijiewenta:“nizuijinjingchangjiaban，henxinku。”“nizongshiguanxinyoumeiyouduanxin，zenmele?”nizaidanxinshenme?”zhangfushengqicankuideshihou，yongpingshideyuqishuo“buxiangshuoshenmeyemeiguanxi”，xinpingqiheshuangkuaidetuichutanhua。