老公出轨第三者后该怎么办？丈夫出轨怎么办？

 laogongchuguidisanzhehougaizenmeban？zhangfuchuguizenmeban？ruguoyinweidangchudeganqingjichubujieshouta，zuihaoxiandiaozhenghaoxintai，zaihelaogongzhongxinkaishi。fouzelianggerendemaodunhuiyuelaiyueduo，zuizhongdaozhihunyinpolie。

第一，心里想清楚，你能不能接受你老公。

 zheiyibuhenzhongyao。duimeigenvrenlaishuo，qipianzhangfushiyigejudadedaji。youxienvrenxuanzezaicijieshouzhangfushiyinweizaihumianzi，youxieshiyinweibuganxin，youxieshiyinweijinqiandenggezhongyinsu。raner，zheizhongjieshoushiduanzande、fuqiande。

 zhiyoufazineixindejieshou，hunyincainengzhangjiu。ruguoyinweidangchudeganqingjichubujieshouta，zuihaoxiandiaozhenghaoxintai，zaihelaogongzhongxinkaishi。fouzelianggerendemaodunhuiyuelaiyueduo，zuizhongdaozhihunyinpolie。

第二，和老公达成协议。

 laogongchuguibushiyiciliangci。ruguomeiyouyidingdekezhi，tahenkenenghuixiguanxingchugui。yinci，youbiyaojianliyixiezhidulaiyueshuzhangfuhuiguohoudechuguixingwei。

xuyaogenjushijiqingkuangzhidingguiding，biruwanshangwaichu，bixuzaishenmeshijianzhiqianhuijia。dadianhuayidingyaohuifu。

 tongshiyeyaozhidingyixiechengfacuoshi，birufaxianzijiyouchuguile，fangzihaiziguiwo，chuguideyifangganjingliluodelikaijia。youlezheixieguidingdeyueshu，mianduiyouhuotahuidongdekezhiziji，buhuiqingyichugui。

第三，选择原谅之后，出轨这件事就要翻盘了。

 zhangfuchuguihuidaojialihou，tayiweiyiqiedouhenpingjing，danyouxienvrenxinlizongyougenci。meidangtamenchaojianaomaodundeshihou，jiuhuifanchutalaogongchuguideshiqing。qishizheishiyizhongbuhaodexingwei，ruguoniguoquzongshitiqitachuguideshi，yongtalaixiuruta，zeguaita。

 jishitaxiangbiandegenghao，nizongshizheimeshuo，tayehenrongyipanni，daozhitazaicichugui。erqie，meidangmaodunchuxianshi，jielubierendequedianyeshiyizhongbuzunzhongdexingwei。