发现老公出轨第三者要揭穿他吗？正确的做法是什么？

 faxianlaogongchuguidisanzheyaojiechuantama？zhengquedezuofashishenme？zheishiyigehenduoqizidoubuyuanbaoludewenti，danxinhuiyoubukewanhuidehouguo。ruguobujiechuan，haidanxinlaogongyuexianyueshen。bijingwohaishibuxiangbahunyintuixiangsihutong。neimewomendaodiyinggaizenmezuoni?wohuijiaonizenmezuo。

不管他有没有出轨，都要先保持冷静。

 faxianlaogongchuguidexiansuohoubuyaojiyuxingdong，lengjingyizhou。diyi，jizijishijianlixingsikao，quanhenggefanglibi。dier，shoujizhangfuchuguideshijizhengju，zaijieluqichuguixingweishiyeyouzhengjukexun。

理性看待出轨。

 yigerenyishengzhendebukenengzhiaiyigeren;chengrenchuguibuweifa，shirenxing;renshidaojisufenmishuipingbutong，youxienanrentianshengjiuyouhuaxinjiyin;renshidaohunyinbaohudebushiaiqing，ershifalvguanxi;yishidaolianggerenzoudaozuihou，shibaguanxizhuanhuachengqinren、mengyou、huoban。yishidaozheixieshihencankude。yishidaozheixiekenenghuirangniduirenxingheshenghuogandaoshiwang，danjueduihuirangnijuedenilaogongmeineimekee。yuanlaitazhishigeputongren，jincieryi。

做出理性的决定。

 lengjingsikaohou，xuanzepuguanghuiyouliangzhongqingkuang。yizhongshinilaogonghenisipolianpiguoduanlihun，yizhongshiqiqiuyuanliang，danliangrendeliehenhuiyuelaiyueda，chengweimingyishangdefuqiguanxi。ruguonihaibuxianglihun，zuihaobuyaodangmianbaoluduikang，xuanzegengrouhedefangshi。

拐弯抹角是最好的提醒。

 jitadiananshi，rangtazhidaoniyijingzhidaotadechouwenle。zhierbuyanqingchu，jinengdadaotixingdemude，younengbimianshuoqingchudeganga。kantadefanyinghexingweishifouqutong。ruguotahenzaihunihetadejiaren，yibanlaishuo，nidefangfakendingshiyouxiaode，suoyimeibiyaotanpai，burannizhendehuirangtameiyoutuilu，zhendebatabidaoneigenvde。ruguotazhendebuaini，erqiezheigefangfayebuguanyong，neinijiuzhiyouyitiaolukezoule，lihunyebuchi。

谈出轨不要有第三者在场。

 zhidaoderenyueshao，nanrenyueyoukenenghuitou。shidukongzhizijideqingxu，guoyulengjinghuirangnanrendiguduinideshanghai，dashengkuhuirangnanrenhaipahuitou。shuochuzijidebumanheqidai，nachuyuanliangduifangdechengyi。gulinanrenshuochuchuguideyuanyin，buyaohaipazhenxiang。ruguobunengshuohua，keyixuanzefenkaiyiduanshijian，lengjingxialaizaitan。

不要扩大形势的影响。

 buyaodaochuzhaorenqingsu，chufeinishishoukourupingdeguimi。yifangmian，bierendeyanlunhuiwudaonidepanduan。erqietamenbingbushizhendezhidaoshiqingdezhenxiang，nigaosubierendeshihouhuixuanzeliubai。zheizhongqingkuangxia，bierendejianyiyiyibuda。lingyifangmian，zhidaoderenyueduo，zhihuijianqingnilaogongdehouguzhiyou。benlaitapatongshi，papengyou，palinju。xianzainizhudongweitagongkai，wuyiyubayigezhinengzaianyeqianshoudedixiajumiantuidaoyangguangxia。