到底情场失意碰到第三者危机该怎么办?

 xuduo qingkuangxia，disanzhedechuxiancushijiazhongliekai，qingchangshiyijinridajialaipouxixiadisanzhegonglvezhichuxiandisanzhedejiejuejihuafangan，qingchangshiyiaishishenmeniqidainengbangsichuzaiyilvdeni。

“第三者”出現后，最先必须剖析

 jiaruzaimeiyouwanhundezhuangkuangxia，yexunenggouhensatuodishuotichufenshou，youyudajiameiyouyigejiazhongbixudanfu，danjiarujielehunchuxianneiyangdezhuangkuang，ruguotiaoxuanbulihunbufenshou，neimajiudengtongyuanshizhelingyifangwaiyu，rongxuyijiaocailiangzhichuan。

shubuzhi，duixuduo nvxingeryan，xiayirenbuyidinghuigenghao!

zaicike，nixuyaozuochuyigejuece，“quhuoliu”?

 yingduizhezheigewentishi，yidingyaoduixinlichengxin，zunzhaozishendetihuiquzuo，wenyiwenzishen：niaitama?ruguoai，neimayingduizhelingyifangzuochuneiyangdeshi，nitiaoxuansheqihuanshiwanliu?suihouzaiquxiangyixiangruhebadisanzheganpao。

假如你确定挽留，那麼下边的全是对你的挑戰

 1.renshizijiyoudian;ganqingjichu、jingjifazhan、xingshenghuo、xiaohai、penyouquanshidajiadexiangjiao，xiangjiaoyueduo，wanliuyuefeichangrongyi。xianmingquezishensuoyouzhedequweiyoushi，xiangtamenqiuzhu。

 2.pouxidiren;direnshiyigeruhederen?shitianqueshimeishaonvhuanshixionghandelaofunv?wenroushanlianghuanshikekebagua?zhiyijingzhidaobihenzhongyao，nixuyaoduiyutaqunidingquanbufangan，juebuyunxuyingyongbuzhengquededisanzhejiejuefangfa。

 3.pouxilianren;nideta/tashiyigeruhederen?chiruanhuanshiying?xihuanshenme，qingchangshiyifangannaxie?ruanzhushisha?meifaquefanaxie?

disanzhegonglve：chuxiandisanzhedeqiadangjiejuejihuafangan-yingduidisanzhedefangshi

 4.fansiziji;zhengsuoweiyigerendegudu，liangrendecuo，yiduanhunyinpoliele，biranqingyoukeyuan。zaijialinishipengtougoumian，yilianhuangdian，huanshiwulunmenkoucemen，nidourongguanghuanfa?yifukuziduozhangshijianmeimaixinde?zhuangmianduozhangshijianmeihuaguo?fubudezhuiroushifourijianzengjia?jiarujiandaonineiyang，lingyibanyaoquzhaoyigexindemubiao，dangranyejiukeyilejie。

 zuizhongdeguanjianshi：zhaodaoqingganzhuanbiandedaohuosuo，yunyongniquanxinshengjidezhuanbianqucijixingta，zaishiyongjiazhidetigaoshangjibaita，yongxiaohai，weixinpengyouquan，jingjifazhan，quxiandingta，rangtakuibuchengjun。

怎样解决第三者，在其中有两个点是尤其必须记牢：钱和子女，是另一方的软助。

 1.weijiajiziji。niyizhizaixunzhaohunyinwanhuiquanweizhuanjiabangzhushi，yaozhengqiuquanweizhuanjiadehua，ruhezhuyaobiaoxianjuzhidedang，qizhigaoya，yigezhichengdianquanjiarendepinpaixingxiangnengjuyouwendingjiazhongdegongxiao。gengweinenggouzhizhangjiazhongjingjifazhan，lingwaijiyuxiaohaishifendeguanhuai，cushibicizhijianlianluogengmibukefen。

 2.jiandingbuyidebiaotaifayan，tanrandezishi。bubimanhengwuli，niduitashuoyinweiniwaibianyouxieren，aishishenmenidanniyaoqingxineiyangzuoyihouchanshengdebuliangyingxiang，woyijinglihunxuyaotiqianzhunbeiwupinsuoyouzhunbeihao，jiudengzhenijuece。tashiying。jiarunipaguoduqiangshi，neimanigaibianxianzhuangdewaiguanshejiyizhe，shizishengengjuyoufengcai，lingwaiguanhuaixiaohai，cushiguanliangengjiamibukefen，zaizaijiashangquyuelingyifangdefumu，cushitongyiqianxian，quancengmiankaolv，shitazishenjianjiandihuijia，tashiruan。