不幸因为第三个人，男人变心怎么做

 quanbunvxingdouqipantianmideaiqinghehunyinshenghuo，danshijishang，renshengdaoluquezongbingbushineimayifanfengshun。aishishenmenizhenduinvxingeryan，hunyinshenghuozhongdejiaoda deyanlidajibiranjiushilaogongchuguile，cikedajiameinvmenyaozenyangzhidoudisanzhewanhuihunyinni?chuguinanrendeqingkuangxiazonglingrenjuedexiangfashengbianhuayigeren，yexushiwuqiongdelengmo，nanrenbianxinguoqudeguanxintitiexianrujinkanshangqujiuhaoxiangchaoxiaohejifeng，youyexushiyongxinshougongbianzhihuanghua，haosiyichunyibanmamuqueyoushangjinxingan。chuguinanrendeqingkuangxiajiujingyaozenmezuo，caikeyijibaidisanzhe，wanhuihunyin?

掌握第三者

 shuobaile“zhibizhiji，baizhanbaisheng”，yaoxiangjidaodisanzhe，zuizhongyaodebianshiyaozhangwodisanzhe，neiyangcaikeyimingbaizenyangmiediaodisanzhe。zhangwodisanzhebujinyaolejietaxingshamingnajiazhunali，gengguanjiandeshiyaozhangwotademudihesixu。meiyouyiqiedisanzheyuyigeanrenzaiyiqihuibaozhengmomofuchu，wusifengxiande。huozheaicai，huozhetanming，disanzhemenbianchengdisanzhezongyouyidingdetu，buranyebuhuiyouneimeduodegaoguanyouyubeipintoujianjuerluomagaoguanle。zaifajuelelaogongyoudisanzhedezhengzhaoyihou，laopoyaojinzaoxiashou，guaiwanmojiaoditantingdisanzhedexinxi。cike，laogongdezheixiepenyouhuoshipengyoujiubianchenglezuizhongyaodetupodian。youyulaopoyizhizuihouyigelejiedisanzhedecunyoude，duoyulaogongshenbianderengoutongjiaoliu，keyizaizuishaodeshijianneihuodeyouyixinxi。

控住心态

 zaizhidaodisanzhedemudihou，shierjiejueqilaidangranbianjiededuole。ercikezuizhongyaode，nanrenbianxinbianshilaopoyaokongzhuzishendexintai。henduolaopozaizhidaodisanzhedecunyouyihou，zuichangyingyongdefangshibianshiyikuernaosandiaosi，yeshinaozishendenansheng，yeshinaodisanzhe，zheiquanshishifenbukequde。shuobailedimeidongwobuhuidong，shierjiranzaoyichansheng，laopozaixinjidoumeiyouyong，yaoxiangwanjiuhunyinshenghuo，jiuxuyaozishenxianpingjingxialai。yaolejie，disanzhewangwangdangdisanzhe，quanshiyoumudide，wulunshiweileqianhuanshiweilegenghaodimingfen。erzheishi，laopoyaoguanchalaogongdegerenxingwei，kanyixialaogongshibushiweilegenghaodidisanzhexiangyaosheqiyiqiezichanyujiazhong。(meiyouganqingdehunyinshenghuohainengzaicima?kanlejiulejie，mashangzixunganqingzixunguwenshoujiweixin：813656726)

 jiarulaogongbingmeiyouliyidexiangfa，neirangdisanzhezishenzuoyouhuishigengqiangdetiaoxuan。zhengsuoweimingjianyiduo，anjiannanfang。disanzhezishenzhaoshangmen，neibianshishidezhuangkuangle，zheidaibiaozhetameifacongnanshengneibiandedao yaoxiangdewupin，zhiyougenjutiaobolaopoyulaogongdeqingganlaizuodaomudi。yinerlaopoyudisanzhedulipengmian，yidingyaokongzhizhuzishendexintai。buguandisanzheshuoxieshenme，doububijiangchuduilaogongbumanyinaizhizeguaideyuju，zheifeichangrongyirangdisanzhechenxuerru。gengweiqiadangdezuofashiyouerjinyouerduochu，jishineixinborandanuyebubizhuyaobiaoxianchuqu，rangdisanzhedemudimeifadadao。tangruoyoubiaozhun，shibadisanzheshuodehuadouluxia，zhihoubudannenggouzuoweiranglaogongduidisanzhexinhandewuqizhuangbei，jinyaoguantouhainenggouxiezhuzishenwanjiuzichan。

gaizenyangzhidoudisanzhewanhuihunyin-yingduidisanzhedefangshi

提升细心

 henduolaopozaifajuelaogongyongyoudisanzheyihou，huozhepobujidaidiyaoxiangliyi，huozhepobujidaidiyaoxiangjianglaogonglashanglai。keshilaopomenqueweicengkaolvdao，zhenduidisanzheeryan，tamenjiaoda youdianshisha?neibianshihunyinshenghuozheiyizhulizijinle。zhenduilaopoeryan，yongyouhunyinshenghuojiuxiangdangyuyongyouyiqiedisanzheyaoxiangdewupin。zhenduiyigenanreneryan，tiaoxuanleyigenvrenweiqi，shilijinglexiangfeng、xiangshi、enaidengyouzhangdeshijianyuyanjiushengkaoshicaijuecelede。erzhenduidisanzheeryan，nanshengtongchangshizaichuzailianaidejieduancaihuiduilaopoguodulengmo。zheishidelaopozhibixudenghouzheiduanshijianyiwang，dengtamendeqingganjianwen，zaiduofangmianganyu，keyidedao gengweiyouliangdeshijixiaoguo。jiaruniyaoxiangxunsuwanliuzhangfuchuguidexin，jiuxuyaoqinfenyingduidisanzhele，zenyangjiejuedisanzhedesigejuejijinixianjixiance，qudechenggongganpaodisanzhe!

笼络家人

 jiaruniyugongpodeguanlianfeichanghao，neiwuxingzhongzhizhongtamenjiubianchengnizuiyouyidewuqizhuangbei。keyiyuerxiguanlianfeichanghaodegonggongpopo，zaisanguanshangdabufenquanshiqiadangde，zhenduizishendaerzihunhouchuguidegerenxingweihaowuyiwenhuiduofangmianganyu。keshishuobailedeganyu，bingbingbushirangzishendegonggongpopoquzhaodisanzhezishi，zhishirangtamencongshehuidaodehechuantongshidengqiadangdecengmianduofangmianzhengqueyindao。lingwai，laopoduigonggongpopodehao，laogongshihuikanzaiyanzhongde，zheizhongzaibixushikequanshishifenguanjiandezhenqingpai。

 ruguoshiyouxiaohaidejiazhong，laoponenggounenggougenghaodiyunyongxiaohaizheiyizhulizijin。aishishenmenidahaobaobaozheizhangzhenqingpai，bingbushizaixiaohaiyanqianshuozishenlaogongdeshiduoshaobingbushi，zhishiranglaogongchouchulaidaliangdeshijianpeixiaohai。erzishenhaikeyijiazhuangzaibuzhibujueliuluduizheibanhegedelaogongzenyangchengzandesixu，neiyanghuitishenglaogongzhenduiwaiyudekuijiugan，yeyouyiyulaogongzhongguijiazhong。